Clara Barton General Correspondence Ham, Caroline Gerow July 1898-Jan 1901 "behind every genuine work of mercy there is a hidden history of surrender of time, ease, leisure, rest, pleasure". I realize how small has been my effort, in comparison to what I would do were it in my power. I count it a great privilege, even to have gained one intelligent adherent to Red Cross principles. Mrs. Lesser knows of my determination and I believe she too will rejoice with me. Every movement made by Red Cross since February last which 213-S-Third Ave. Mount Vernon. NY. July 18 "98 Dear Miss Barton, Although you may have heard of my final victory, in forming a Red Cross Aux'y here in Mt V - , I feel I must, myself, write you of it. My life has been so full, duties so numerous- (along Red Cross lines, most entirely) that this is the first opportunity I have had to acquaint you with what I have been trying to do for you. I enclose you a copy of the "call" I sent out; also result of said call telling of auxy formed. We organized on June 24th 1898-as a permanent Red Cross Auxy. Our number'#36. I also enclose clipping of my statement as Treasurer, just a week after Garden Party was given. As your name & Red Cross are synonymous terms throughout the civilized world, so is mine (as to interest, knowledge of etc.) here in Mt V-. Not a day passes, scarcely, but some one calls to have me tell them of the work-and our NY papers just full i n praise of you and your work in Cuba. I write you of this because of my constant professions of love and devotion to you "my queen", that you may believe such professions. 'Tis truly said "no man has ever gained anything real without giving a part of himself in payment for his achievement' and thatnation to have given to the world such a woman. God grant you may be spared to us years longer; that we may prove to you our love, admiration appreciation and devotion. Yours to command, with love unceasing, Carrie Gerow Ham. has been made known through press, I have on file. Presume you will have received the package I sent you by Mr. Cobb, ere this reaches you. I am now planning to have another [lauria?] party (at Mrs. Cottrell's); this is to be the girls' affair. Little George, whose contribution I sent you in box with "pussy" on, feels more than proud that His money was sent you first. I must write you what Senator Hoar said of you in anaddress at the Clark University summer school, last week. It appeared in N.Y. Sun of yesterday, as copy from Worcester Mass. spy. "The poet of chivalry, Edmund Spenser, has drawn for all mankind his portrait of the Red Cross knight. But his imagination has drawn no loftier stroke than the real character of Clara Barton, an American woman, who, on her errand of mercy, has penetrated the barbarism of Turkey and carried her gentle ministrations past the cruel and bloody knives of the Spanish soldiery." "An American woman has struck for the American youth a loftier strain in the "Battle Hymn of the Republic"– "In the beauty of lilies, Christ was born across the sea, As He died to make men holy, Let us die to make men free." How privileged a[*Mt Vernon Recevd, July 14/98*] THE GARDEN PARTY. A Successful Affair-$120 Sent to the Red Cross Treasurer The members and officers of the Mount Vernon Red Cross auxiliary desire to express their gratitude to Mr. E.E. Hoff, for donation of twenty quarts of ice cream; Messrs. Van Arsdale for camp chairs loaned and delivered free of charge; the New York Infant Asylum for use of lanterns and decorations; Messrs. Holler, Mead and Dexter for contributions of ice; D.G. Burton Co., for lumber; Mr. Lambert for carpenter work; Commissioner of Public Works McTague, improving condition of Jackson street, and the Mount Vernon Band (11th Separate) Mr. Craig, leader-for the fine band concert which added so much to the pleasure of the occasion at the garden party, held July 7. The ladies are busy making pajamas and night-shirts for our men at the front, and would announce that all donations of material or aid in sewing will be gratefully received. They have just received one piece of muslin and one piece of gingham from Hearn's dry goods house, of New York city. Result of garden party was most gratifying, as statement appended shows: Tickets sold..............................................................................................................$119.25 Donation from Mrs. J.S. Mead, of Montclair, N.J. (through Mrs. J.G. Duncan). 20.00 Donation-proceeds of an entertainment given by Ruah Lord, Ethel Van Namee, Ida Breck, Irene Arnheim, Florence S. White, Vera Marston.....................................................................................................2.10 _______ $141.35 Sent Red Cross treasurer, New York city...........................................................$120.00 Expenses...........................................................17.28 137.28 ________ Balance................................................................................................................$ 4.07 [*C.G.Hans, Treas.*]neuritis, at base of brain, and spinal meningitis. I am sitting up in bed between pillows-a privilege accorded me since Sunday. Yesterday I wrote my first letter-to my mother & Mr. H. Have been best part of the day writing this. No one more glad than I for "Madison Sq"-affair, in NY. Our auxy will, probably, take no action-now I am away. I raised (personally) all the funds etc for Galveston; never called a meeting. Did you receive clothing from our Needlework Guild, while at Galveston? They agreed to send some. I shall probably be here until about Jan, 3rd 1901. I trust you are well. Accept my love and "greetings of the Season". As ever Your's in admiration C.G.Ham [*ansd Dec, 22/900 CB*] 401-Massachusetts Ave. Boston-Mass. Dec 19th 1900 Dear Miss Barton= About the middle of October, having collected all I could for R.C.-relief at Galveston, I came on here, hoping to rest and recuperate my shattered health. My life during the summer had been more than full, as most of our ladies were out of town; we who remained at home realized that, misfortune is abroad in summer as well as winter; that willing hands need never be idle. My first week here, I rested some-butwas far from well. Having received numerous invitations from club women, and those whom to visit with, meant real pleasure and profit for me – I had anticipated much. Alas, only a few days were mine to so enjoy. Three of those days, I spent with Mrs Mary A. Livermore; one at her home for an afternoon, and two as her guest at affairs of public interest. At one of the latter – a "tree planting" at Brookline, under auspices of Charity Club – I met dear Mrs. J. Sewall Reid. I leave you to guess, of whom we talked? Mrs Livermore said of you, to me, "tell her I consider her the eighth (8th) wonder of the world". and so; again I have the rare pleasure of sending you deserved tribute! Nov. 3rd found me in bed, where I am yet. Have been seriously ill and suffered much. At times have had two physicians – but Ed has attended me regularly. Mr. Ham came on, at once, and arranged matters, and has spent most every Sunday with me. I am stopping with friends who have been devoted to me. The illness was caused by a severe fright which brought on an attack of an unostentatious manner would not detract from her, or her life's work in years hence. Again, Ed really needs you to clear up certain matters. He knows nothing of this letter to you. I am foolish enough to think perhaps you will come to us. How much it would mean for us – at the dawn of the Twentieth- Century to have you with us, alone, for a few days. I feel he would sanction this request, even though it is asking very much. That the Twentieth Century may bless us all, by keeping you with us – is my sincere wish – Lovingly, – Caroline Gerow Ham. [*ansd. Jan 12 1901 CB*] #29–St Botolph St. Boston–Mass. Dec. 31st 1900 My dear– Just to thank you for your precious letter of the 22nd inst., which came to me on Christmas eve. No, I am not yet able to go home. I came here (above address) on Wednesday last. Found the ride in coach a little tiresome, but the change has been beneficial in every way – as I am with very delightful people, friends with whom 'tis a pleasure to be. I am with you in thought tonight, and wish I werewith you at the "Madison Square". Cannot tell you how glad I shall be to show Ed your letter. Having a number of patients who need his constant care – lying low of fever and serious ills – have not had an opportune moment to show him your message to him. I wrote him of it. If you felt he needed you, or rather, that you could "set him right in a good many things" would you come on to see him right now? If your health permits, will you not come to Boston, for a few days, and be my guest here? It is a quiet, pleasant house. Ed is Lieut. of the Ambulance Corps, of M.V.M – Capt, Myles Standish. The armory is near here; we could go over there drill night and the "boys in blue" and Capt. Standish, Gov's Staff etc, would welcome you. You understand what this would mean for Ed? Then too, Clara Barton at the armory, in this, our classic city of Boston, in[*[1900]*] Glen Echo, Md. Dec. 22, Dear Mrs. Ham, I catch this hasty moment, while you letter is new, to tell you how sorry I am for your illness-you must leave off working yourself sick, it does not pay. But I know it is a comfort to you that our Ned has attended you. You know I think him the prince of doctors. Tell him of you please that I am not as well as I want to be and that I think of him every day. I cannot tell him all that I should like to with my pen; but wish he were here to listen to it. He would set me right in a good many things. I think by this time you must be well enough to go home, and please please don't talk to me about watch meetings, nor needlework guilds, nor auxiliaries, nor anything of that kind. Remember that one can cloy of the same kind of food forever and forever and forever administered. Send me sometimes a little line of friendship and not business, and I will be so glad to get it. Yours lovingly, Mrs. Carrie Gerow Ham 401 Massachusetts Ave., Boston, Mass. Glen Echo, Md. Jan. 12, 1901 Caroline Gerow Ham, Boston, Mass. My Dear Mrs. Ham, I have to write at once to prevent you from building up a false hope. I do not go out of my own house and therefore could not think of going to Boston. I have not even been in the city of Washington since I came back from Galveston. "NED" knows very well in which condition I usually come home from a field and that it takes me about as long to get back the strength after I get home as it did to lose it on the field. Again I should be very very glad to see him here; but I cannot come to see either him or you there. Regretting this and thanking you always for your constant affection, I remain, Sincerely yours,