BLACKWELL FAMILY ALCE STONE BLACKWELL Feb.- Aug. 1898 Blackwell, Henry B.Alice Stone Blackwell 1621 Mass. Ave. Washington, D.C. Feb. 22, 1898. Darling Papa: I came over here yesterday, and found Mr. Spofford confined to the house by neuralgia. He was on the lounge in the library, in a flannel dressing gown, with good little Florence waiting upon him in the most devoted way. He had been having a good deal of pain, but was not suf- fering much then. Florence had to go out in the evening, so I spent the evening reading aloud to him from a book of Irish fairy tales. He seemed to enjoy it, and I know Idid. This morning Florence took me with her when she went to market. What a wonderful market it is! hundreds of dealers under one roof, and not only meat and fish and fowls and vegetables, but flowers, and cake, and mice-meat in pots, and all sorts of things. It must be a great convenience for housekeepers. Most of the things looked nice, too. Then Florence went to a store where there was a closing out sale of sheets and towels, etc., and an embanked crowd of women waiting to get in; and she sent the coachmen home with accommodation. When she gets back to Waren, O., she is going to borrow it elsewhere and pay me back. She can get a loan without difficulty in her own town, but not here in Washington without paying higher interest than she wants to; and I thought we could spare it for a few weeks. It was just to help the Association out of a temporary scrape. Mrs. Upton is perfectly good for the money. My present plan is to leave here Thursday morning, make a little visit to Dr. Grace Kimball at Vassar College, and getmyself useful by reading aloud. One can't write notes all day long, and it is a change. You will be glad to hear that Miss Hay got a pass for herself and Mrs. Catt to New Orleans and back, for advertising in the W. J. That will save the Association (or rather the Organization [?].) $110. I have done another thing which I am afraid you will not like so well -- lent Mrs. Harriet Taylor Upton $300. to pay the debts of the Suffrage Association here in Washington. It is merely a temporary gold. When I see what beautiful care she takes of her father, it makes me feel like a perfect pig. I wish I were half as good a daughter. There is a shaggy little dog here, belonging to Barbara, Charlie Spofford's little girl (but of course you know that; I was forgetting that you had just been here) and even the dog adores Florence; you can see it as he lies at her feet and looks up at her. Harry seemed heartily glad to see me, and they are all as kind as possible. I try not to give trouble, and to makeme. I read to Mr. Spofford again until she got home. By that time the pain had come on again, & he was in great misery. I left him to her ministrations, & came up here & wrote till lunch, & have been at it ever since lunch again. Am sending some more report to Mr. Youngjohn by this mail, & hope to finish it to- morrow. It is very nice to be in a big, comfortable room again, & with such nice people as the Spoffords. Florence is as good as OFFICE OF THE WOMAN'S JOURNAL NO.3 Park Street Boston 189 home Saturday by the Norwich line. It tales only $1.46 & two hours to go from NY to Poughkeepsie, & Dr. Kimball has sent me an urgent invitation. Mrs. Merrick of La. told me she was extremely fond of you, & felt as if she were your sister. A great many people have said pleasant things about you, & sent their love, whichI am afraid I generally forget to give. Laura Clay was one, & Miss Helen Morris Lewis of N.C. another. Mr. Spofford astonished me by the praise he gave to my little book of Armenian translations. I never thought the translations were much, from a literary point of view; but he says they have been much admired in Washington, & that he himself considers them very fine, & thinks they ought to be in all the large libraries of the country! I am so puffed up that I expect to ascend through the ceiling, like a balloon. Please remember me to Mrs. Atkinson [--corner folded over and might be obscuring a word--] all the household. With much love, Kubbe. Florence & the dog constantly remind me of Florence Dombey & Diogenes; only that our Florence's father appreciates her, & Mr. Dombey didn't.H.B.B. Office of The Woman's Journal, No. 3 Park Street. Boston, Aug 10 1898 Dear Alicekin No news of any consequence since I last wrote. Beth took a short drive yesterday with Mr Hegissian as far as Granite Bridge, but go into a mudhole, broke a wheel & returned without further accident. Mr Gookuis has the water, for which I had to pay $7.83. I collected & deposited in bank for you $60. on a/c of Hollis St. rent. I have written to Phebe Beeman and to Kate Stone for advice as to Luther's condition. I have pleasant letters from Long, McKinley's secretary Lodge & Walker in regard ] to the Philippines- They all agree with me that we cannot- honorably let it go back into the tender mercies of Spain. I am writing to the various States for the latest lists of officers WCTUs so as to send out sample copies of the W. Column. It is raining & compara-[left page] Lovely cool here today-- plenty? of matter for the paper. The number will be, I think, musically? varied & interesting-- ?? has not yet gone on her? vacation. Beth proposes that Lizzie shall take a week's vacation between now & Sept. 1. & thinks she can do what ? is needed. Harry says he & his mother are getting along well. Howard joins the family at Old Desert Serpent in a day or two. Yours aff., Henry B. Blackwell As nearly as I can recall Larry & I spent the summer of 1855 at Walnut Hills--When Larry came East I remained at Walnut Hills till Spring of 1856. Lucy & I spent summer and early fall of 1856 at Virginia? & La Crosse, Wis. going there to New York & boarding with Elizabeth on 18th St. that winter & following spring--Bought the house on [left page side text] Vine St. & Orange in the summer of 1857 and lived in it until 1859 -- bought the house next door on Lowe? St. & lived in it during 1859 and 60 -- moved to Mountain in 1861 & remained there 1862 & 3 -- boarded at Gramercy Park in winter of 1863--in 1864 boarded in New York near East River--& bought house at Roseville lived in Roseville ? moved to Boston in 1869 during vote? years spent surrounding? at Corp's Hill Martha's Vineyard & Kennebunkport. [right page] P.S. If you send those basins by express, you might at the same time send some W.J. paper & envelopes. My stock is almost used up. Gardner, Mass. 7:30 P.M., Aug.12, 1898 Darling Papa: Two letters from you in one day is an unusual treat! I strolled around to the P.O. before supper this evening, & was rewarded by finding your second epistle. I have signed the check, and send it to Miss Turner by this mail. If Ethel goes to the Vineyard on Monday, I Alice Stone Blackwell should think Howard Gardner would wait and go down with her. Aug 12/98 I was so delighted to hear that Mr. Heglessian had gained two pounds in five days that it seemed as if I should immediately gain at least half a pound myself, merely on the strength of the good news. Aunt Sarah saw me laughing so over you letter (your calculation of what Mr. H. would weigh in a year if he continued to gain at the same rate) that she was quite surprised, & asked from whom the letter was, & what it was about. I shall think of you & Ethel as driving off somewhere on Sunday. I wonder if you could manage so as to take Mrs. Wentworth to & from church? With much love, Kubbe Alice Stone Blackwell Gardener, Mass Aug 13/98 Office of The Woman's Journal, No. 3 Park Street. Gardner, Mass Aug.13, 1898 Darling Papa: To-day it has cleared up. I worked in the morning, as usual; & this afternoon I have been up Doctor's Hill, and "viewed the landscape o'er", & avoided two horses & several cows -- one light- colored one with a mild countenance & a ring of spikes around her gentle- looking nose -- which were bivouacking on the very top of the hill. I saw lots of checkerberry leaves, & hardhack, & some fine thistle-blossoms. I am here rather than there. No special news. I suppose Ethel is with you now, & Howard will be over on Sunday. I hope you will have pleasant weather. Kind regards to everybody. When does Lizzie mean to take her week's vacation when you buy fruit& a few ripe blackberries, & other nice things ; & the landscape is as fine as ever, though rather hazy. Then Uncle Henry showed me his corn & tomatoes & squash vines ; & I had a little chat with Aunt Sarah, & then strolled down to the station & back, in a very leisurely way. The air here is delightful. Aunt Sarah had a long letter to-day from Emma. She says the weather is so persistently rainy that they feel as if they were in Vancouver Island, or Alaska. They had given a successful dinner to the visiting Blackwells, or a section of them, & had a bathing party for the rest, which was unmercifully rained upon. On the whole I am glad or anything eatable in this city, please tell Beth what it costs, & she will put it down in the book. She is helping me to keep my house keeping accounts. Yours affectionately, Kubbe. Alice Stone Blackwell Gardner, Mass. Aug. 14, 1898. Darling Papa : This morning I went to the Unitarian Church here. The minister, who is young (and lately married, Aunt Sarah tells me), took occasion in his sermon to preach against the doctrine that wives ought to obey their husbands ; which would have pleased you. He also preached against the idea that men ought to support the candidateof their party, no matter who he might be; which I am afraid would not have pleased you as well, though it pleased me. The sermon was about wrong and right kinds of loyalty. It is a glorious day. I have thought of Ethel as being at our house, & Howard too, I hope. I suppose they will go down to the Vineyard together to-morrow, though Howard finds himself so comfortable at Cambridge that Aunt Sarah thinks he is reluctant to leave it. I have letters from Mrs. Catt & Miss Hay about Oklahoma. She (Mrs. Catt) is willing to go out there & work for six weeks, giving her services, if her travelling expenses can be paid. They would be from $200. to $250. She also wants to have the papers of the Territory supplied with [pl] suffrage plate matter from Oct. 1 to March 1, & calculates that if 100 out of the 130 papers in Oklahoma can be induced to take it, it will cost $180. to supply them. [But she has mistakan]Mr. Garrison seemed to think he might be disposed to help towards paying for plate matter for the Oklahoma papers; & I am sending him Mrs. Catt's letter. The enclosed from Miss Hay I send to you; & if you think well of the idea, as I do, you might speak of it to Mr. Garrison. I [???] hardly think there is any more hopeful spot anywhere just now than Oklahoma; & certainly no one could do so much good there as Mrs. Catt. Yours with much love, Kubbe. It is a rare chance to visit almost all our folks at once, & you ought not to miss it. Invite Mrs. Adkinson to stay at our house during your absence, which she will be glad enough to do, & kite off, my dear, kite off! She will "brood the nest," & get a little nest for herself at the same time. We are having a storm this evening; the lightning is flashing & the thunder rolling overhead as I write.which he mentioned that he should leave on the 18th, which would be just a month from the time he came; & he expressed his thanks, etc. Of course I have not said a word to him about staying longer. My idea was to give Beth two weeks at Ogunquit. You know we have both of us felt rather uneasy about her seeming pale & their, & I thought two weeks would do her more good than one. She always comes back from Ogunquit looking like a new persson. I hope you will accept Emma's & Uncle G's invitation to go to the Vineyard after getting the paper off this week. Go down Friday, & come back Wednesday. We hardly ever have so large a gathering of Blackwells in one place as there are at the Vineyard now, & they would all be delighted to see you. All the Blackwells on this side the ocean are there, except Aunts Emily & Ellen, & myselfIt is a rare chance to visit almost all our folks at once, & you ought not to miss it. Invite Mrs. Adkinson to stay at our house during your absence, which she will be glad enough to do, & kite off, my dear, kite off! She will "brood the nest," & get a little rest for herself at the same time. We are having a storm this evening; the lightning is flashing & the thunder rolling overhead as I write. The papers in the State of Washington don't seem to quote much, & none of them quote a whole column a week, such as the plate matter furnishes. But an editor will use plate matter when it saves him the expense of setting up type. So Beth was delighted with my dream, was she! I wasn't. It was extremely harrowing to my feelings. A card just rec'd from Mrs. Barrows says that the German student whom the blighted young man in my dreamBut I am sheltered & comfortable. I have no re- memberance of ever seeing that MS that this Iowa woman writes about. Better write & tell her that so far as you can learn it never was received. I cannot think it would do as much good to send the Woman's Journal to the Oklahoma papers as to supply them with plate matter. Office of The Woman's Journal, No. 3 Park Street. Gardner, Mass. [Boston], Aug. 21 1898 Sunday Darling Papa: Aunt Sarah is worrying a good deal over Uncle Frank's household, & wants me to write to you to-day; so I write, though you wont get it before Tuesday or Wednesday. We gather from Phebe that Alice Mabel & Ernest have definitely made up their minds that they but I think they will be more comfortable in their own quarters. It is hard to uproot a man from his own home at 92. The weather is fine, & we hope you are having the same at the Vineyard. I went to the Unitarian church again this morning, & heard a will not stay after this fall. Alice Mabel says she shall go crazy if she does. It is evident that there is great & growing friction ; & both Aunt Sarah & I think it is best to let them go, & try to find a respectable man & woman to live with Uncle Frank & Aunt Harriet, & take care of things under their direction. So Aunt Sarah has been turning over in her mind all the people she can think of, who might go there. The good sermon. No special news. Mrs. Babcock has used your article "What Might Have Been," in her plates for the patent insides; which will insure its appearing Office of The Woman's Journal No. 3 Park Street Boston, 189 most eligible seems to be a certain Mary Flagg who used to work for Aunt Sarah, & whom Aunt S. knows to be kind & good. This Mary has a husband, rather an inefficient man, & a little girl about eight years old. Aunt Sarah says they are the sort of people who stay about a year in a place, & then want to leave. They have been about a year in their in between 60 & 70 N. Y. & Mass papers. So it will be well distributed. I think it was a "ten-strike" to resurrect that old speech of Clara Barton's at this time. Was it your idea? There are a number of interesting things in the W. J. this week. With much love, Kubbe. good sermon. No special news. Mrs. Babcock has used your article "What Might Have Been", in her plates for the patent insides ; which will insure its appearingPresent place, and are probably now desirous to make a change; and Aunt S. has written to them to-day to suggest to them the possibility of going to Nichewaug. She thinks the husband would be equal to the small amount of outdoor work that there is in winter -- mostly splitting wood and caring for the cow -- and she is sure Mary would be good to Uncle Frank and Aunt Harriet. She has a few other strap's to her bow if this fails, I found an old letter of Aunt Eliza's, written in 1858, and asked her whether I should send it to her. It was written to Grandma Blackwell about Uncle Charles. At on time she rather liked to "reminisce" about him, (over) 330 Punam Ave Brooklyn NY. August 21, 1898 Dear Mrs Blackwell, your letter to be forwarded was received a few days ago. Mrs Lane desired me to tell you that she does not wish to have the letter mentioned, sent toher-I myself would say to you, that any word or letter of the sacred past is more than she can stand in her weak state. Even with her sister, who is with us for a few days, the past is never mentioned. Her chin will quiver and we know she is suffering. It is the breaking up of a beautiful, strong character, by the will of God in taking the soul to himself. She seems stronger since the cooler weather has come, and sometimes it seems as if she might linger with us longer than we any of us thought possible. Her morning wish is always "I wish I were in Heaven". Sincerely, E. A. Sharpbut I suppose now she is in no state to. It was stupid of me to propose sending it. Please forward this letter to Emma when read. Yours affectionately, Alice Stone Blackwell POSTAL CARD - ONE CENT UNITED STATES OF AMERICA THIS SIDE IS FOR THE ADDRESS ONLY Mr. Henry B. Blackwell Scribnocket [Boutwell Ave.] [Dorchester] Martha Vineyard Mass. Alice Stone Blackwell Gardner, Mass. Rec Aug 21/98 Gardner, Mass. Aug. 19, '98 Dear Papa:- I am sending only cards to you at Dorchester now, because I hope you have gone to the Vineyard; although there is such a downpour of rain to-day that it is enough to discourage you from going. There is almost nothing to report from here, especially on rainy days, when the only kind of exercise to be taken is walking up and down in my big room. We are well. I work at the memoir, and go to the P.O., & that is about all. Emma writes that she & Frances are coming here Aug. 28, so about Aug. 30 [*you may expect me home. With much love, [????].Office of The Woman's Journal, No. 3 Park Street. [Boston] Gardner, Mass. Aug. 23 1898 Darling Papa: The last three days have been fine, and we have been congratulating ourselves upon the [fact] probability that they were fine also at the Vineyard. Your card of Aug. 21, and Emma's letter of the same date, came last night, & we were very glad to have them. Aunt Sarah wants [*P.S. I climbed Doctor's Hill again this afternoon, and browsed on checkerberry leaves. Please tell Beth the book came safely & thank her.*]me to suggest to you that perhaps Alive Mabel would be willing to stay at Uncle Frank's if we provided her with a hired girl to help about the work. I am inclined to think myself that a change would be better, and since the young people are thoroughly sick of staying, it is not worth while to urge them to stay on. I suppose when you come home you will plunge right into a whirlpool of business cares; otherwise I should suggest that you run up on Friday or Saturday to see Uncle [*Frank & talk things over. My present plan is to come home next Tuesday, and start for camp on Thursday. You have had some splendid dips in the ocean, yet no doubt you will be glad to get home to your own bathtub. With much love, Kubbe. Office of The Woman's Journal, No. 3 Park Street Boston, 189 but I don't think any of them would answer: a widow with three young children; an old lady who can't bear to dictated to; & that forlorn little Mrs. Sampson who worked for us once, years ago. I have written to Mrs. Barrows to see if she knows of any kind & capable women who would undertake the inside work. That is the hardest to providefor. If we can only secure a good woman for that, I can easily find an Armenian to look after the wood pile and the cow. But Aunt S. [&] is very desirous that you should go up there & talk over things with Uncle Frank & Aunt H., & see what they would really prefer. She doesn't know whether Alice Mabel has told them of her determination to leave, or not. Aunt S. has considered the idea of having Uncle F. & Aunt H. come & live with her, or with Celara;Alice Stone Blackwell Aug 24/98 Office of The Woman's Journal No. 3 Park Street Yardner Yardner, Mass. [Boston] Aug. 24 1898 Darling Papa: Yours describing your call at Mrs. Sandford's came to-day. I read it aloud to Aunt Sarah, + she shook with laughter over the embarrassing situation of Mr. Sandford + his friend in the spring. She is much interested in hearing all the Vineyard letters. I suppose you will get home to-day and sleep in your own bed to-night. I hope it will seem good to get back. There is not much news here. I work in the A.M., & peregrinate in the afternoon, or write letters. I have been up Coey's hill, & down to Crystal Lake, & all over the fine hill opposite Aunt Sarah's, & up Doctor's hill twice, and have explored the west village, and the roads in various directions. Aunt Sarah's regular "help" has been away, and the gap has been filled alternately by two little Swedish sisters about 16, so intelligent and gentle and nice that Office of The Woman's Journal, No. 3 Park Street. Boston, 189 I wish Aunt Ellen might have such an one. I wonder what sort of a girl she has had this summer? The regular handmaiden, Mary Franklin, has now returned, & her return is a comfort to Aunt Sarah, as she is older & more experienced than the young Swedish girls, & can take more responsibility. She seems capable & good-natured. Aunt Sarah is much pleased with the enclosed fromthe N.Y. Voice, + would like to have it republished in the Woman's Journal. I think it is good. If you do not print it, please return it to her, as she wants to send it to Howard--for his future guidance in case of his making an unwise marriage, I suppose! The Voice is really an able paper, + has published such an exposure of Quay's doing as we ought to copy, as an object lesson [i] on the need of woman suffrage. On second thoughts, I will send these cuttings to the printing office for you. Please tell Beth her nice long letter came to-day, + I have much enjoyed reading it. How is your eye? You had not let me know that you were having trouble with it. With much love, Kubbe. Kind regards to all the household. Barsam's address is Barsam Bedig, 20 Charlton St. Worcester. Office of The Woman's Journal, No. 3 Park Street Gardner, Mass. [Boston] Aug 25 1898 Darling Papa, Your card of Wednesday afternoon is just rec'd. Glad to know you are safe home again. What an indefatigable battier in the surf you are! I should have thought you would have had to run for the stage without even taking time to wipe the salt water off. That would have given you a damp ride! The enclosedfrom Clara came yesterday, and Aunt Sarah wants me to forward it to you, & to suggest that if Aunt Harriet is coming down to Clara's, it would be good for you to go to Clara's at the same time, & see her there. Aunt Sarah thinks that when it comes to the point, Alice Mabel & her husband will not easily find a place for them all to go to, in the fall; & that she would very likely stay, if it could be arranged to have Uncle Frank & Aunt Harriet occupy the bedroom & sitting room on the other side of the entry. Aunt Sarah is strenuous in urging that they ought to do this. One of Alice Mabel's chief grievances is that she cannot live in so hot a room as Aunt Harriet requires to be comfortable; & as long as Aunt Harriet insists upon using the kitchen as her sitting room, Alice Mabel has to be almost roasted about her work. If Aunt Harriet would occupy the room on the other side, she could keep it as hot as she likes. A letter received this morning from Mary Flagg (the woman with a husband & 8 year old daughter) says she & her husband have engaged tostay where they are for another year. So either Alice Mabel must remain at Nichewaug, or we must find some other man & woman to stay there. The enclosed from poor [Barsa?] came this morning. I send it to you, as you can give him wiser advise than I can. It seems to me there are two things that might be done for him: 1. Give him letter of introduction to Senator Hoar & Congressman Walker, praising him as he deserves, & asking if they cannot find him a place in Worcester as coachman & man of all work. 2. See if we cannot find him such a place in Dorchester or Boston. He is so good a Alice S Blackwell worker & so thoroughly good a fellow that [any] anybody would be lucky who got him; and I think he could earn more in this way than by cobbling. I am very sorry for him. Do let us do the best we can to find him a place. I am glad Emma will stay at Pope's Hill of nights, when she first comes back. That being the case, I shall plan to come back Monday instead of Tuesday. We are having dog-dayish weather here, with frequent heavy showers, & Aunt Sarah finds it quire oppressive. I don't, it is so much dryer * less sticky than muggy weather in Dorchester. My body is well, but my head is very tired, & when I go to camp I don't mean to take along a bit of work. How is your eye? Beth wrote me that it was quite sore before you went to M.V. Kind regards to all the household. With much love,