BLACKWELL FAMILY GENERAL CORRESPONDENCE [A general] L M Abbott New York Infirmary 126. 2 Avenue July 29. 1866. My Dear [Kitty], Hearing your heart might grow faint and your courage fail you, thereby [ ] me of the pleasure of receiving a letter filled with a glowing description of your [ ] reception, and [ ] [East] in general I [ ] the opportunity this morning in writing. I hope you have realized all you anticipated, and at the present moment looking as blooming and sweet, as if you had been born a country lass My bump of curiosity has grown wonderfully since you left and I find myself wondering how Kitty and the Capt. are getting along, and if her friend Marion realizes how dangerous it is to have a City Lady playing the agreeable to the opposite sex? What about French? Moonlight walks &c. You must write me all about them. The hospital with all its connections remain status quo. Dispensary increasing wonderfully as well as the heat. I am trying to keep cool but fail completely. Dr. Hall has not collapsed yet which is very fortunate. Dr. Emily is as charming as ever and will soon go to the seaside if nothing prevents. I received a little missive from Floey yesterday she was anticipating great pleasure in going to the sea side. Do you think of going there? Please write soon that is a dear good Kitty. Affect. your friend. L, M. Abbott[*Dr. Lucy Abbott*] New York Infirmary. August. 18th./.68 My dear Kitty. Your letter dated July 31 reached me last evening and right glad was I to hear from you. I had almost come to the conclusion that my adoption had been forgotten and I had serious thoughts of going to Doctor to get proof of the fact. Four long weeks, which almost seem like years, have past since I kissed you good bye, and this is the first word from you, I am very glad to hear your eyes are doing so nicely, and hope they get so much in the habit of doing well that you will have no trouble with them after your return. Everything remains as you left them [it] with the exception of thewards. They have put of their coat of dirt and now sport a beautiful coat of pea green. We are all tempted to take up our abode in them, they were finished today. The weather is delightful here, almost as charming as Martha's Vineyard I should think and if we could have the sea bathing in our backyard we would get up opposition to you and I dare say Floy would come and spend a few days with us and I almost think Alice would too. Since Doctor Elizabeth left us I have ordered dinner, and I think you will smile when I tell you we have had no meat all fish until today, I ordered steak for Dr. Emily if she should come tonight. Wednesday Morning No Dr. Emily and of course we must eat meat for dinner and as it would not be dignified for the housekeeper to run away I must remain and eat it too. I presume Dr. Elizabeth has tried the effects of salt water on her blue bathing suit ere this and feel the benefit of it. I am sorry that I am such a goose as to have to stay always on land, can scarcely look at the salt water without thinking of the whale that swallowed Jonah - Thursday morning - Dear Kitty you will see it takes some time for me to finish my letter. Dr. Emily arrived safe and brown last evening. I was out and did not see her till this morning I only wished I looked just as brown, and as for appetite I have a good share now. do not need to leave New York to improve it. Miss Oliver and Dr. Porter, wish to be remembered - By the way, Kitty we had some of your blackberry pie for tea tonight. If we could only have your new milk we should be quite equal to you. What do youand your friend Maria think of the stronger sex now? Have you not found one that is not faithless? I think I have Kitty, for I met our Prof. and he said he believed his heart would brake if Miss Barry did not come back into the class this fall. - As for me he said, I was so wicked he should have to give me up - Please remember me to all the sea side friends and do write again Kitty, it gives me great pleasure to read your letters, and to have the assurance we are indeed cousins. Affect. your "cousin" Lucy.[Adkinson] Dorchester, Mass October 2, 1931 Dear "Miss Barry:" - Mother and I both send greeting to you on your happy birthday, and we wish you many pleasant returns of the day. Mother will think of you in the green shade of our maple trees in the back yard, where the wild asters are in bloom and the three cats attend her. I shall remember you in the laboratory among the glassware and bacteria, and while I inject patients in the clinic. The cats would be more concerned about your comrade, Sir Jock, who takes such good care of you, and because he is proud of you and all that concerns you, including your birthday, the cats, also, through Sir Jock, wish you joy and prosperity. The yellow cat, Aureus Wag-em-tail Bart, purrs deeply and rhythmically, lifting his front paws, rubbing his nose in your hand, and escortingyou into the house, after he has met you at the front gate. The short-tailed gray cat, "Bobby" will leap into your lap, turn around and gaze adoringly into your face. The little black stray, will cry "mew, mew, mew" continuously, until Aureus gives him a tap to be still. Jock, because he wears a black coat, would be most interested in the Blackie, which climbs high up into trees becomes frightened and mews for help and encouragement before he will put his tail down and start down. Jock probably thinks that trees are the proper places for cats! In character and in his opinions of men and events, jock K.B, D.S.C., etc., would find companionship with Aureus, who although only a baronet, comes from a fine old family and is a true aristocrat. Aurens has an old maple table in the living room, which is his especial property. the table cover is a yellow- prim-rose colored brocade with figures in gray and silver, which harmonizes with the buff and orange of his apparel. When he was little, he used to curl up and just fit the circular medallion in the center. When his friend from the Animal Rescue League called to make sure that he liked his new boarding place, she found him there; - fluffy yellow kitten on the primrose table cover asleep in the sunshine, and after a talk with Mother, she went away content. Inconsiderate people books and papers on the table and Aurens pushes them off out of his way. The other evening, Aurens was feeling in high spirits, and growled good naturely to the world in general, "This is good meat and no one else can have it!" When I showed him another piece of meat, he looked admiringly at it, sitting down and making no effort to take it, "Come, growl a little" said I. "RRR" said Aurens in his throat, just barely loud enough to be heard. "Growl some more" said I. "Rh, Rh, Rhrrr!" said Aurens pleasantly "Now, give a real growl", said I. "Rrrrrrr" said Aurens, very loudly, reaching up a paw for the meat. He repeated this performance with three different pieces of meat. "Now" said I, stroking him, "Get up and make a bow, which he did, dipping his head and lifting his tail. So, with all good wishes for the coming year, Aurens waves his tail to you and purrs, Bobby jumps into your lap and gazes with admiration and Blackie climbs down from his tree, and runs to you, all silky and jet black crying "mew, ew, ew, ew!" Good luck to you and Jock, "all through the year". October fifth is good date for a birthday. It is Beth Atwood's birthday too, and who could be nicer than she? One of my schoolPETER BENT BRIGHAM HOSPITAL 721 HUNTINGTON AVE Visiting medical staff Henry A. Christian, M.D. Physician-in-chief Channing Frothingham, M. D. Reginald Fitz, M.D. Boston 17 19 chums was born on that day, and a more jolly true-hearted friend I never had. People born on October fifth seem to be in a special class all by themselves. You are fortunate to spend the day at the Vineyard, where, I trust, you have clear cool, blue weather. Mrs. Carr and I were speaking of you today, she seems quite well and comfortable, except that her neck and back feel "itchy" when she tries to sew. She is living in her little house out in North Easton, and she drives back and forth in her car. She is the same jolly, friendly person that she has always been. Vineyard mails are so pecualiar that I send this letter early. Please give my love to Miss Blackwell and all the Vineyard friends. I spent the vacation at home this year, and painted the kitchen and pantry light green, and made was on moths, buffalo bugs and fleas. Does Jock know any sovereign remedy for fleas? (the cat kind)? With all good wishes, Sincerely yours, June Adkinson.West Brookfield Nov. 15th 1864 Dear Kitty I now sit down to answer your interesting letter which I received a long time since and should have been answered before this had I had a minutes time. I was very much pleased to think you had not forgotten me. I have been attending school in New Braintree center this fall have boarded with my brother; have had a very pleasant time. Have studied Arithmetic, Geography and Grammar. My school closed last week, but I intend to commence going againnext week, in our own district. I should think it would seem very strange for you to go to school now after being at home for so long a time. Are you taking music lessons now? It is snowing very fast and has been all day. I think we shall have sleighing by tomorrow feel it is very early in the season to have snow. A few weeks since my brother Nathan visited New York he had a very pleasant time said he passed your residence. I wished I had been with him. I certainly would have called to see you. I would like to see you very much now. Why did you not come out here this summer I think I should have enjoyed your visit very much when you were here before if I had been well. My health has been very good since then. I never was as well before as I have been this fall have gained ten pounds since I went to New Braintree in ten weeks and I think that is doing pretty well. Clara Barlow has been spending a few weeks at home mother enjoyed her society very much while she was in the neighborhood. She left yesterday morning for Petersham where she is to teach this winter. I suppose Maria is to attend school in Ware this winter. I have not seen her since I received your letter so I have not shown her that sketch of your house. I should think it might be a very pleasant place by the looks of the drawing. Kitty have you any photographs of yourself now if you have and have any to spare I should be veryhappy to receive one. Friday P.M. I now sit down to finish this letter which I commenced several days since feel did not have time to finish it then. It is quite good sleighing now. I had a ride in a sleigh yesterday for the first time this winter. A few days since I attended a missionary meeting in N. Braintree. There was a returned missionary there from Micronesia that addressed us. He showed some of the apparel that the natives wore on that Island it was very different from what we wear. I do not think of any thing more that will be interesting to you. Hoping to hear from you soon, I remain your friend, Carrie A. Adams West Brookfield March 15th/65 Wed. Afternoon Dear Friend Kitty, Your letter of Jan. 15th was duly received and I am almost ashamed to answer it now at this late period however I think I will. for I think you will excuse me for this time. When I received your letter I was attending school in New Braintree I went one week after that and was taken sick and had to leave. I had got all tired out going to school so long. I had been twenty-one weeks without have one weeks vacation longer than I ever went before at once. I am taking music lessons now have been for five or six weeks. Practice three hours & a half a day and sometimes four hours. are you taking lessons now I suppose you have improved very much in music since you used to practice on our Piano. Iona wished me to describe to you how we spent Christmas. Our family with several of my aunts and cousins were invited to a cousins Saturday evening where they had a very beautiful Christmas tree. Filled with many preasants. I had several. There were sixteen of us there and I can assure you we had a very pleasant time. I should judge that Christmas was not observed as much here as in New York, by many, I think your silver sugar bowl and cream pitcher must be very handsome and I would like to see them very much. you wrote your friends had much fun over them and wished you not to set up "house keeping" without giveing [your] them "due notice" and certainly I hope you will not without doing the same by me. We have been haveing very unpleasant weather for about a week past it is about four weeks since the sleighing went off and it is very windy now and rains most every day. We had beautiful sleighing for a long time this winter and I think very likely one shall have more yet. Mr. Barlows people will moove to Ware the first of April and it will be very lonely here for usI shall miss Maria ever so much although she has been gone a great deal lately. I suppose you hear from her occasionally. I believe Eliza starts tomorrow for Staten Island, she was in here last evening and said she should see you as she went through New York so I thought I would write this and sent it by her. I thank you very much for your photograph think it is a very good one. I can not think of any thing more to write now that will interest you and I do not know as what I have written will. I do not know as you will think this letter worthy of an answer but if you do I shall expect to hear from you soon. From your friend C. A Adams West Brookfield, Nov. 6th 1865. Dear friend Kitty, It is a long time since I received your welcome letter, but do not think you are forgotten because you have not heard from me sooner. and let me excuse myself by telling you the reason why. When your letter came I was attending school and was very busy with my studies. when vacation came we had a housefull of company, so that I had no time to do any thing but wait upon them, school commenced again and continued eight weeks, we arehaving a vacation now of one week. Finally I have resolved to do one thing which I ought and that is write to you. But who cares to write unless they can amuse, interest, or instruct their correspondent. My case certainly seemed hopeless. For not being particularly brilliant I cannot hope to amuse, then certainly I do not expect to interest you. And lastly as to instructing that is more out of the question still. So Kitty- what shall I do? Give it up? Never! when I may as well begin and ask you. How did do? I am well and hope you are the same. Neania Barlow visited here a few weeks ago she spent the night with me. I enjoyed her visit very much. I think they like their new place very well. How are your eyes now? Have you ever had any operation performance on them? Are you attending school now If you are what are you studying? We are having a course of Lectures here this Neider, Kris, Miss Anna E. Dickenson and of B. Gough have lectured. I attended Miss Dickensons lecture probably you have heard her. She is a fine speaker isn't-she? Enjoyed the lecture very much. Kitty: we have sold our farm and are going into the center of the place to live. We are having a house built now it will be ready for us to go into next Spring. I think it will be much pleasanter for us to have been very lonely since Ms. Barlows people moved. I hope you will excuse this letter if it is not very long, as it is getting late. I hope to hear from you soon if you think this[Carrie Adams] letter worthy of an answer I hope by another summer when we get settled in our new house you will come and make me a visit. From your affectionate friend Carrie Adams. Miss Carrie A. Adams Care Sidney Adams Esqr. West Brookfield Mass.[F Alofson] Brack's Doelen Hotel Amsterdam Feb 22nd 71 My dear Kity, A thousand thanks for your kind letter which I received this morning and read with great pleasure. I have entirely recovered from my accident which happened while skating, in turning the wind took me backwards and my skate catching in a crack threw me with great force on my left foot, breaking my ankle in the fall - at first the pain was very severe, but all went on so well and so fast that now in two months time from which the accident happened I can say that I walk without pain and as if nothing had happened. The break was just above the ankle and the surgeon says was the small bone of the leg, there was a great deal of inflammation and some little blood vessels breaking made the blood settle around the ankle and nothing could be done to the bone just at first and the rubbing that had to be gone through every morning was perhaps the most painful of all, butnow that all is over I don't mean to remember any thing more about it only I shall take very good care not to get into any kind of such mischief again. All my friends were so kind and I had no ends of visits and cards. The people who only knew me by name sent to the surgeon to ask after me so on the whole I did not have such a bad time as might have been expected. One does not know how much one can bear until one has tried. My own father was surprised to see how still I kept without any one telling me to be quiet and my french maid nursed me with a patients and kindness that has made me very much attached to her - Amsterdam is very chill this season in the way of balls and parties though in concerts and theatrethere are plenty - this war has sent many artists out of France and the other countries have a chance to hear them - there is now a very good French troop playing in the German theatre and we soon are to have an Italian oficer who will give two or three representations - Our Hotel is almost always full and I had for neighbour a german. I think while he stayed I did very little in the way eating him and very much in the fighting one I declaired that the King of Prussia was only a doll in the hands of Bishmarck and he answered that the French Emperor was no better. I told him that the Prussians were blood thirsty and brutal and did not know any thing about manners and his answer was that the French were all show. I said thata French man would never have disputed or answered a lady as he had done and that that showed that my opinion about the Prussians was right - after that for a long time I did not see him and now my neighbour who is a Dutch man is as much for the French as I am so we have no need to do battle on that score - What a pity that Mrs. Sam's new baby is not a boy - how many children has she now? I did not know before I received your letter where Miss Anna was we are both glad to hear that her house is not damaged and that she is well - We had the fullest intentions of going to America in April but papa is now rather uncertain and does not knowwhat he shall do - Where is Mrs. H. Blackwell? That is to say I do not know her new name though her husband was introduced to me. I have a cousin who is going to America on the 8th of March to try his luck of making a fortune in Colorado he stays a little while in New York and as he knows Miss Marian he may see her - I went out sleigh riding in a real dutch sleigh and never laughed so much as the first time I went into one. there is only place for one lady who sits a little sideways so that gentleman who sits behind as if on horse back can drive the foot man stands on the side and if there is a second gentleman he stands on the side to which thelady who is in the sleigh looks like horse or horses are decorated with feathers and many coloured streamers of silk and a funny kind of little [c??ette] of bells the whole town out is extremely picturesque and during the sleighing the Parks were crowded with these funny [socks?] & charms. The dutch sleighs are also made to go on the ice when it is strong enough - Papa joins me in kindess regards to Dr. and yourself and with much love [*Believe me Your sincere friend Francis Alofsen Shall I most [Si?] the pleasure of almost this letter.*][*Appel*] c/o Alderman W. L. Beurle, 331 Victoria Park Rd. N. E. July 15th. 1908. Dear Miss Barry, For some time past I have thought I would like to see you & Dr. Blackwell & have a talk when you chanced to be in London. Miss Leigh Browne told me some time ago that Dr. Blackwell had met with an accident & had not been so well since; but she did not seem to know anything very definite as to what Dr. Blackwell's condition is. Nor have I beenable to get any information from Mrs. Browne. Events of late have convinced me that the time is at hand when the sexual problems which Dr. Blackwell has treated so ably in her Essays will have to be faced by the world, and I cannot help thinking that much good would be done if the substance of her Essays could be presented in some simpler form which would serve for the wider world and not for the medical profession only. Then, too, much that Dr. Blackwell has written could be carried a good deal further & be rendered more useful still, if a theosophical introduction could be added or a theosophical view be taken of her basic teachings. Her writings lend themselves much more easily to a theosophical treatment than to a merely medical treatment. I am introducing the subject into our Theosophical Society here, & [some] those to whom I have shown herEssays think them very fine. But they need explanations [to ???] to link them to the theosophical teachings & to enrich them. I know De Blackwell is sympathetic with theosophical ideals & ideas - & I thought I should like to mention this subject to her, & my view about the need for a simpler & theosophical [presentment?] of the subject, in addition to , or side by side with the medical presentment which she has already so ably given. I donot know whether she is able to receive letter s& give any opinion about such matters now, so I am sending this to you in the hope that you will be able to speak to her about it, if she is equal to it With kindest remembrance, Yours very sincerely Louise Appel.Neubau Sanitas, Eichwaldstrasse Woerishofen, Bavaria. 5 June 1910. My dear Miss Barry, I have today seen the notice, in Friday's "Daily News," of dear D. Blackwell's passing over. She had reached a ripe and serene age, and had the pleasure of seeing her pioneer work spread all over the world. It is not granted to many to see their life's work so successfully carried to its issue, and though her passing away was natural and not unexpected at that ripe age yet it cannot fail to leave a great blank in your life, - devoted to her asyou have been for so many, many happy years. The week-end which I spent with you both at Rock House some years ago is one of the pleasantest of memories, and after seeing you together in your home-life I realised what great help and congenial companion & friend you were to our dear Doctor. Strange to say, I was looking at the photographs which I have, only yesterday and thought I would have D. Blackwell's framed and hung on my wall so that all patients who come to me here [may] might see the one who opened the way to women. I have taken rooms here for one year, & have bought a little furniture for them, and only came into them yesterday. At present the walls are quite bare; so I was looking through my few photographs to see which to have framed, and thought D. Blackwell's would be a most appropriate one, as I am the first woman to practice at Woerishofen and she was the first woman to practice in Europe and America. I wish you could come to Woerishofen [for] and see us & the system of medical treatment here. We are all of us (5 men & myself) reform - medicals, following the line of reform started by Kneipp, and the place has never had anorhodox "serum" or vivisectional doctor & is not likely to have, I regard it as an extremely important spot in the [w] world, - the centre and Mecca of medical reform, and , some day also, I hope , of a reform medical school which some of us would much like to start here & thence spread in the world. It is this hope to see a reform medical teaching started, which decided me to take rooms here & start in consulting practice. The officials have put every possible obstacle in the way; but it seems that the law permits me to put up a plate with my English qualifications on it though it does not allow me to practice as a doctor (since I am not a German doctor and may not practice as an English doctor); the law does however allow non-medicals (quacks) to practice the healing art, so I have given notice to the officials concerned & have told them I put up my plate as an :English doctor" and shall practice as a "quack." They had not foreseen that, and were a little dumb-founded and have taken no further steps yet. If they do raise further technical difficulties, I am advised by one of the doctors here to refer the matter to the English Consul at Munich. I donot know who he is, or whether he is likely to be sympathetic with the vivisectional methods. Dr Kleinschrod, one of the reform-doctors here, sees clearly also as regards the social moral question, C.D. [posts?] & such like, and is doing much good along that line too. I wish youwould come and see us, as you could then tell some of the women medic's in America what is going on & could perhaps interest them in the movement. This is a table-land & has lovely pine forests. People come from all parts of the world, and there is happy, free, unconventional aspect about the life & place which is delightfully refreshing. We are one hour's railway journey from Munich, and there are hotels & pensions, and a Casino where I read the newspaper. We get a glimpse of the Alps in the distance & are not far from other Oberammergau. I have written these particulars because you have been so much in the medical movement with Dr. Blackwell and are, I know, interested in her work, - in the work which she began and which we younger people must carry on in [her] the spirit in which she carried it on. With my very best wishes and sincere sympathy with you in this loss of her physical presence, Believe me, dear Miss Barry, Your very sincerely, Louise Appel.[*(Appleton)*] 52 Emmanuel Rd. West Hill Hastings My dear Miss Barry Just a few lines to ask your forgiveness in not answering your very kind letter before. I have been very busy these last few weeks. I have been letting a bedroom and sitting room combind, and I have had two very nice partys in. the first party consisted, Husband and Wife and child, for a week. the next were twoyoung Ladies for another week. and next Saturday I expect another young Lady for a week or two. there is only one thing we dont much care for and that is sleeping on the floor, but in time we hope to furnish our other bed room in the meantime dear Miss Barry I dont care what I do so long as we can keep this house on and pay our way. of course I went a little back when my dear Alf was ill, and that is pulled up now I am thankfull to say. had it not been for your very great kindness I dont know what we should have done, and if I could only do a little letting in the summer I feel sure we shall be able to get on. Vy glad to say Alf is quite well, and so is our dear little Daisy she does not forget you. she often speaks of you. Now dear Miss Barry how are you all getting on.I often think about you, and wonder when we shall meet again hope the Dr keeps well. how is poor old Don. I often think how I should like to take them for a run. and give them duster, has four [fine] friends come from America. I had a letter from home the other week. Walter [?] has been very ill again, poor fellow he has his health very bad. poor George he is just about the same. the others are well, as I trust yours are with love. Dear Miss Barry I am yours Maggie Elliott Appleton60. Warwick Road Earls Court July 6th 1880. My dearest Kitty Again it seems a long time since I heard anything of you. I hope you have lost the rhuematism you complained of in your last letter. I have never suffered from that but am sure it must be a most painful malady. We are in this stuffy Babel again - we came back about a fortnight ago after paying ten days visit to my sister in law & her husband at Shoeburyness, the landof Gunnery. George much enjoyed- having his three small Cousins to play with, it was very entertaining to see them play together and make each other's acquaintances . I am going to take him to Birkenhead next week for a fortnight then in August we hope to get to the sea for three weeks or a month where we shall be alone for two days while Arthur is at Swansea at the British Association. My [?] boys is now advanced to a sailor which is very boring he looks in there - the pet keeps very well. I am not hoping he will not always be the only one! I hear very much better accounts of Mother. Southport seems to suit her wonderfully. [?] her sleeping from 11 at night to 7 or 7.30 next morning! it is what she has not done for years! I am very glad to think they are not going back to Merton Beach. I believe ([?]) there muchhave been some very unhealthy point in that house. I hope you & Dr. are well and that you have good news of all the good people in America. Do write to me soon and with much love to yr.self & Doctor Believe me Yrs always affec.ately Dick Atchison How time passes! our boy will be three years old on Saturday!60 WARWICK ROAD, EARLS COURT. S.W. Such a fine October, for it seems to shorten the winter so much. Our boys are in perfect health at present - George busy at school again. they have both had whooping cough this summer, but had it very mildly & have got over it splendidly. these childish ailments are a great anxiety. With much love to yourself and Doctor Ever dear Kitty Yrs very affec ately Dick Atchison