Blackwell Family Kitty Barry From Lamb, GHSt Andrew's Villa Southampton January 28th 1880 My very dearest Kitty I am so thankful to be able to write a far more cheery letter to you this time, than I did the last, for my dear Father is so much better. Of course he is not out of the Dr's hands yet & he does not come down stair yet, for the weather isso severe (but he did just walk down to our little breakfast room one day & stayed about an hour & walked back again upstairs, & felt to be no worse for the exertion) So you see dearest Kitty we have a great deal to be thankful to God for haven't we, & I feel that you can & do feel with me. You are always so sympathetic. I always remember how much so you & Dr. were to me at Hastings when Mary wasnot very well. To day is such a fog You can hardly see into the Park opposite our house. I have been busy yesterday mending a "Chemiloon" - our laundress is a beautiful clean worker, but somehow the things want mending so often & you know I am being particular to mend a little hole when ever I see it just coming.We were reading a letter from a friend in London, to my Father the other day, & saying how nicely she wrote - (worded it I mean) but we concluded in the end (headed by my Father's opinion) that it was not quite equal to "Kitty Barry's - she (Kitty) did write such nice letters - did your ears burn? My Father & Mother & Mary join with me in dearest love to yourself & [?] I hope you are both quite well Believe me dear Kitty always your loving friend G. H. LambRoyal Victoria Hotel Swanage Dorsetshire August 8th 1881 My very dear Kitty You will I have not any doubt thought me a long, long, time in writing to you, but I have often, often, thought & spoken of you. The time seems so long in one way sinceGod took our dear Father, & in another it seems but yesterday. Mary has told you that I am going to be married. I feel sure you will give me your prayers, that we may be happy. My home will be in Northampton - out of the town & within about 3 minutes of quite country. I wasstaying with his mother for some time & have only returned a week. He was brought up a lawyer but never practised, just my own age about 9 month older. I think you would like him Kitty. I have written it all to you, for I know you like me & feel an interest in my happiness. I first met him 8 years ago, but then he had of course only begun to be articled as a lawyer & then hisFather died. I pray that God will bless & be with us & that we may both "seek first the Kingdom of God" for that is everything isn't it dear Kitty. This seems a selfish letter Kitty dear, for its all about myself, but I haven't written to tell any one else, only yourself dear. Mary & her Mother are staying here just now. We have had very lovely weather.I think my marriage will be next month of course so shortly after my darling Father's death it will be quite quiet. I hope Kitty dearest I shall see you in my own home, & I shall try to make you so happy. I think dear M & Mary will miss me, do write to her soon she enjoys your letters so much. She has had one from Florence since we have been here. My Mother sends you kindest love & with all loving wishes for your safe return when you cross over again & best love from Mary & myself hoping you are well & love to [Kitty} Florence (do you see my mistake?) & to Dr when you write Believe me dearest Kitty Your ever loving friend G. H. LambSt. Andrew's Villa May 8th 1877 My dearest Kitty, The date of your last letter had the 27th of March, and that seems a long time ago now. So I must write and enquire for your welfare, and Drs. I hope you are both quite well; are you still at [Meran]? I am addressing this letter there, for I thought that as you have not told meotherwise --it will find you all right-- Has Del painting been begun yet? We have had such a long continuation of East winds. Did I tell you my brother had been over to Hamburg? He arrived on a fĂȘte day, the Crown Prince & Princess of Germany were passing through, so he saw the decorations of the town. How I wish that you had been inEngland this summer & passing it with us. I think we shall go to Swanage but we may change our minds yet. if we do I shall give you a good description of any changes I may notice - in the [?] or anywhere else. I had a letter from Florence last week. We have lost our dear little dog of eleven years - & we do miss him sadly. We are going perhapsto have a real Scotch Collie if we can, that is a [sheep] dog that you often see with sheep - our little Jack died from just old age. Mary desires her best love to you & is hoping like myself to soon see your dear handwriting. Kindest regards from my Father & Mother to Dr & you & with best love from myself Believe me dearest Kitty Always lovingly Yours G.H. Lamb.[G.W. Launt] [*P.S. My Father & Mother's kindest regards*] St. Andrew's Villa Southampton March 13th 1877 My dearest Kitty, I was so happy on Sunday morning when I came down to breakfast to find a letter from you waiting to be opened. I thought yesterday not to write to Venice as you might have left before; but last night after it was toolate to post it I thought I said to many that you might be staying & call for a letter and have thought it been unkind of me not to have written back a letter to Milton Street last week but I was afraid it was the wrong number I put 16 and Mary said it ought to have been 116 Milton Street, but I hope you will get it all right.What a nice long letter you gave me. it quite made up for the want of one for so long. When are you going to turn your steps homeward again. Have the Underhill children grown much - how delighted they would be to see you and Dr. Will you please give Dr our kind love and say we hope she is well.Have you seen Mr.[?] in Venice yet. From your description I fancy him such a nice man. I felt quite interested in his ongoings- Did you ever hear any more of that young Barister who was so ill at Hastings? Mary unites with me in dearest love - and looking forward to the rest letter Believe me dear Kitty Always Yours Sincerely G.H. LambETERNITY Come, O my soul, thy future glory trace, If thou receive the Saviour's offer'd grace, Infinite years of pleasure thou shalt spend, Which never, never, never, have an end! Yes, thou shalt dwell where saints in glory are, As many years as atoms in the air; When those are past, as many yet behind As forest leaves when shaken with the wind; When those are gone, as many thousands more As grains of sand upon the ocean's shore; When those are spent, as many millions more As moments in the millions past before;- When all those blissful years, exempt from pain, Are multiplied by myriads yet again, Till numbers drown the thought, could I suppose That then my bliss in heaven would have to close Thrice happy then my glorious lot would be; But still that would not be eternity. Eternity would then be just begun, The day of bliss just dawning, rising heaven's bright sun; The concert opening only, banquet just prepared, First greetings scarcely past, first welcomes only shared; The jubilee just commenc'd, the golden harps just strung, Just tuned the lute, first timbrel struck, and anthem sung; Just caught the strain, by east, west, south and north! Their joy is inconceivable! their happiness henceforth! Dublin Tract Repository, 10 D'Olier Street, Dublin, And 9 Paternoster Row, London.Leaflets for Letters. (Poetry, No. 5l.) "WAITING AND WATCHING FOR ME" (An old tradition says that those whom we have served on Earth shall be the first to welcome us in Heaven.) THERE are little ones glancing about on my path In need of a friend and a guide; There are dim little eyes looking up into mine, Whose tears could be easily dried. But Jesus may beckon the children away In the midst of their grief or their glee: Will any of these, at the Beautiful Gate, Be waiting and watching for me? There are old and forsaken, who linger awhile In the homes which their dearest have left, And an action of love, or a few gentle words, Might cheer the sad spirit bereft. But the reaper is near to the long-standing corn, The weary shall soon be set free: Will any of these, at the Beautiful Gate, Be waiting and watching for me? There are dear ones at home I may bless with my love: There are wretched ones pacing the street; There are friendless and suffering strangers around; There are tempted and poor I must meet; There are many unthought of, whom happy and blest In the land of the leal I shall see: Will any of them, at the Beautiful Gate, Be waiting and watching for me?St Andrew's Villa October 11th 1876. My dearest Kitty You see I am writing to you [?] , so that you shall have my written adieus and good wishes, before you start on your Continental tour. how nice it will be for you to be going to all those places - I should think the little Underhills' will miss you & Dr. Are they going to winterin Hastings?My brother [?] told you was going to Dublin. Well he reached there stayed a day or so & crossed over to Glasgow & from thence he goes to the Hebrides - to Stornaway - and intends to be home again the end of next week, as he has to be up in town the beginning of November. We have had such a night last night for rain. terrible it was - and did you see in the papers about the storm at [?], it was a sort of whirlwind.it laid low houses - trees & greenhouses in its way - it overturned railway carriages in the station - & the damage caused will be very heavy What a storm the "City of Chester" must have escaped - How is your little baby Howard Blackwell getting on, in Florence's last letter to me, she said she was embroidering a little flannel shirt for a little cousin so I guessed it was for him. Of course either Mary or I will always write to the poste restante - when[*Lamb*] we hear from you where to - so we will give you a good many letters between us - Will you give our love to Dr. & say we hope she will derive great benefit from her trip - is she stronger now? And now Kitty dear I will finish wishing you a very very pleasant time - but you are to be a good girl & write when ever you have nothing particular to see or do - With dearest love from Mary & myself - & may God bless you & be with you in all your travels Believe me dearest Kitty Always your loving friend E.H. Lamb1877 G.H. Lamb Aug 27 to Kitty BarrySt Andrew's Villa August 27th 1877. My very dear Kitty Thank you much for your welcome letter. If you have had rain, we are having it now. We had rather a severe thunderstorm on Saturday. To day my brother has started, at least he sleeps on board to night , and if the wind wills it he will start early tomorrow morning. A friendwas to have joined him here but he has just telegraphed to say he will join him at Weymouth or Portland. We had a letter from Florence form Rockaway. Do you remember the brown figured silk I had at Swanage? I have ordered a blue one exactly like it, dark blue. I hope we will be passing our time together whilst I am wearing it Of course I am going to save it till the bright spring weather. The nights are drawing in so with us,it makes one almost think of winter. I see by the papers that there was a very severe storm of thunder with torrents of rain in London last Saturday Have you decided yet about coming to England or are you going to stay with Miss Marion? Will you please kindly remember us to her. Mary tells me to give you her best love , and to tell you that she is waiting to write you till she getsyour promised letter. If my brother goes into Swanage or Weymouth & gives us any news of the places I will write them to you and now dear Kitty with best love from Mary and I & kind remembrances from my Father & Mother Believe me dearest Kitty Always lovingly yours E. H. Lamb Please give our love to Dr [*Lamb*]