BLACKWELL FAMILY LUCY STONE Blackwell, Dr. ElizabethElizabeth Elizabeth Blackwell to Lucy Stone. New York, June 1, 1854 79 East 15th St. My dear friend: Henry has just left me, to return West. We had many interesting things to talk over together during the little time he staid here, but by far the most interesting was the relation which he holds to you, and the united future which probably lies before you. Henry told me distinctly that no engagement exists between you, and I do not know that I am altogether justified in writing to you now, but as he also told me that I must consider the essential fact of engagement does really unite you, I cannot withhold some expression of the deep interest which I feel in my brother's life, and the sympathy with which I regard the events which will henceforth form so important an element in it. I do not think either, that we reformers can afford to lose the smallest grain of affection that we might harvest, and you have the right to the strengthening influence of the family love and interest which would flow out to you, if it were known that you may some day join our circle. Therefore, dear Lucy, let me offer you most cordially and with special meaning the hand of sisterly affection, and assure you that we shall all be proud to welcome you when you see fit to claim the recognition. But on this subject, full of interest as it is to me, I shall say no more until you yourself have invited the freedom, only believe that my heart is open to you, and large enough to answer any demand you may make upon it. Let me say a few words toyou on a subject which concerns the great Cause to which we have both devoted our lives - the advancement of Humanity, through the development of Woman. I mean the propriety of holding Woman's Rights conventions - or rather the expediency of so doing. To my mind the time, if ever it existed for such conventions is clearly past, and their continuance is a wast of time to those whose time is of value, and an injury rather than a benefit to the Cause. I think it will always be found a universal law of this life, that thought which does not constantly shape itself into action or into definite life forms, has a tendency to degenerate, and thus that conventions which constantly meet for the mere discussion of abstract principles, or rights, will soon lose the high spirit in which they may have originated and become mere displays of vain oratory or the theatre of vanity and petty ambitions. Every soul must have its body in this world. Had these conventions given rise to working associations, their existence might have continued, perhaps under other names, but they have not contrived to establish even a newspaper. They have constantly degenerated in moral force from the first assemblage in Worcester, and must finally be dropped from the sheer absence of true vitality. Mind I speak of the Conventions, not of individuals mixed up with them. The right of you, and Mrs Rose to speak and lecture, to influence public sentiment constantly in such public personal way is incontestable - you have the God-given power, a warrant for the wisdom of its exercise - but your earnest personal appeals in a lecturing tour where individual force comes out in its full power, is worth more for influencing public sentiment in the right way, than all the conventions which have been held from the beginning till now. True principlesin regard to the position of Women, present and future, may be spread by a few by means of clear, forcible, and attractive presentation of such principles - they may be advanced by more thorough judicious action, demonstrating their worth in life - but they are not the legitimate subject of conventions, and it is time for the dignity of the Woman Cause, that this were seen. I would not speak dogmatically on this subject, but I should like to know whether your actual experience does not support the truth of my theorizing. Believe me with cordial respect and sympathy, your friend and fellow laborer, Elizabeth BlackwellLUCY STONE - Press notice March 20, 1897 A LUCY STONE TEA At Vermontville, Mich., there was recently held at the home of Mrs. Allen, a "Lucy Stone Tea". Mrs. Allen gave a synopsis of the life of Lucy Stone. An interesting program followed. A paper presenting statistics pertaining to Mrs. Stone's life was read by Mrs. S. E. Kelly; also one by Mrs. Joie Benedict upon "The Enfranchisement of Women". A selection by Mrs. Fay was read, also one by Mrs.Folger on "The Work of Lucy Stone". A yearly report of work done by the society was given in chronicles, and a selection entitled "Law and Gold Beads", by the secretary, closed the exercises. Refreshments were served; quotations from Lucy Stone being tied with yellow ribbons on each sandwich.to Elizabeth Blackwell Gardner- June 10/54 Dear friend On my return from Boston. I found yours of the 1st. inst. Thank you for it, and for the assurance so frankly given that than I can join your home circle as one with it. I shall find a cordial welcome. It is pleasant to know that; yet I do not think you quite understand the relation that Harry and I hold. You speak of "the united future which probably lies before" us. Possibly, would have been the truer word. - Harry has indeed been growing more and more dear to me; but we both feel that a relation upon which so much is depending, requires that the parties should have the fullest knowledge of each other.If we can get that knowledge by the most perfect frankness, and a sincere desire to be known each to the other, as we really are, and then find that adaptation which is necessary to a true marriage, with a love large enough to bear each others [ills] without pain, we will reverently & joyfully accept the fact. Then too, I shall be both happy and proud, to claim the sisterly recognition, which you have kindly assured me shall not be wanting. But if on the other hand, we do not find such fitness, (and we may not) neither of us, on account of this deliberate arrangement, will have any claim on, or obligation to, the other, more than that which friendship demands. - Harry says he has no doubt of the result. But I can not say that yet. - Enough of this however, for the present. In regard to the expediency of holding conventions. I, of course believe in it, or I should not so constantly aid in getting them up. It seems to me, that you could not consider them a "waste of time", if you had noted their results, with which I am more than satisfied. The ideas of the movement have been received with remarkable readiness, and applied practically for more than we had reason to expect; the action of several legislative bodies; the widened sphere of woman; the discussions through the public journals; the formation of societies, in Ohio & N. Y. - the appointment of standing committees for petitioning; give, I think as much "body" as could have grown in so short a time. Perhaps you will say that much of this is due to individual labor and example, which is undoubtedly true. But the individual, could not have been so well received, had not the conventions prepared the way. - Then ask now, as they did eighteen centuries ago,when a new idea is born, "have any of the chief priests or rulers believed"? and their acceptance or rejection depends upon the answer. - When we can send out a call, signed by such names, as those of Waldo Emmerson, Giddings, & Greeley, to the multitude who have not yet so far developed, as to be able "to rest with manly quietude in their own opinions" - and from the very fact of the names, secure a favorable hearing, it is wise, so long as this weakness is in human beings, to use it for their good. The individual would not like to carry a certificate, so endorsed, to display at every place; but when his subject has been endorsed, he can make his way with it. For myself personally, I would far rather labor alone. There is a natural isolation in my character, which renders it difficult for me to assimilate with others, yet I work heartily with conventions, because I think them vastly useful in themselves, [besides] over and above the aid they give to individuals -expediency of so doing. To my mind the time if ever it existed for such conventions - is clearly past, and their continuance is a waste of time to those whose time is of value, and an injury rather than a benefit to the cause. I think it will always be found a universal law of this life, that thought which does not constantly shape itself into action, or into definite life-forms, has a tendency to degenerate, and thus that conventions which constantly meet for the mere discussion of abstract principle, or right, will soon lose the high spirit in which they may have originated and become mere displays of vain oratory, or the theatre of vanity and petty ambitions. Every soul must have its body in this world, had these conventions given rise to working associations, their existence might have continued, perhaps under other names, but they have not contrived to establish even a newspaper. they have constantly degenerated in moral force, from the first assemblage in Worcester, and must finally be dropped fromThe sheer absence of all true vitality. Mind I speak of the Conventions, not of individuals mixed up with them. The right of you, and Mrs Rose, to speak & lecture, to influence public sentiment constantly in such public personal way, is incontestable - you have the god-given power, a warrant for the wisdom of its exercise - but your earnest personal appeals in a lecturing tour, where individual force, comes out in its full power, is worth more, for influencing public sentiment in the right way, than all the conventions which have been held from the beginning till now. True principles in regard to the position of Woman present & future, may be spread by a few, by means of clear, forcible, and attractive presentation of such principles _ They may be advanced by more, through judicious action, demonstrating their worth in life- but they are not the legitimate subject of Conventions, and it is time for the dignity of the Woman cause, that this were seen. I would not speak dogmatically on this subject, but I should like to know whether your actual experience does not support the truth of my theorizing. Believe me with cordial respect and sympathy, your friend and fellow laborer, Elizabeth Blackwell.1 Pope's Hill - Dorchester Feb. 26 - 1893 Dear Elizabeth I am very glad you have yourself taken care & have a fair portrait of yourself for the New York college in place of the utterly horrid one now there to represent the first woman doctor to coming ages. It is a great pity that the first one Ellen had was burned in her Mockancy House. What you have done stands to represent itself and that is really the important thing. [Hetty?] is to get no letters till she does her part. She is as good as gold we know, but for all [?] she will wait for her letters.6 while Harry is here to teach her something about it. Four streets now run across that property. One the last, goes just below the terrace in part of the house- spoiling the terrace. and wall damaging the property. You would not know Montclair. The whole place is changed. and the hill side has famous houses, with great conservatories but it is not half as beautiful as it was when we just went to it. I am sorry for the mispaging of this letter, but I wrote on a double sheet before I knew it. but hope you can keep track of it. With kindest regard to all in the three house holds I am always truly yours Lucy Stone 3 gospels for all time- on this side the ocean a great deal is being done to help humanity up. The suffrage movement gains all the time. The advantages for education of women are almost unlimited. We are surprised see it stated that Lady Henry Somerset has bought the "Woman's Herald" and will hereafter edit it. We hope that will be for the best Only Suffrage and temperance are distinct questions and I fear she will not make them so. We hear very little from Emily. Indeed the kin are all too busy with their own work. Edith comes over now and then on Sunday from the New England hospital4 where she is doing very well. Florence writes oftener than the others for the sake of getting letters in return. The Vineyard Is very lonely for her, but she has Grace this winter, and little Walter adds something to her life. For ourselves, we three are all the time at the one endevour to secure equal rights for Women. Alice takes just as much of burden of the work as she can extort from us , and possibly do herself - consequently she is very much overworked. Harry carried her to church this morning and then came back and took me for a sleigh ride—It is a lovely clear day. But the snow is in huge drifts, which a late storm has scattered far and wide 2 About publishing houses, Messrs. G. P. Putnam, and MacMillan & Co of New York both have London Houses. There is no Boston house with a London office. I think Ticknor and Fields ceased long ago. We think it is a very good thing for you to republish your writings. Alice will see to the volume that goes to Chicago. Must that great Exposition bring you over? The life of Mr. Butler reach us safely. Alice has been through with it. It waits for Harry and me to read. Such lives are5 We think of you three sisters so near each other and yet really far apart, so far as any mail intercourse is concerned. And yet even that nearness is worth a great deal and we always rejoice in it. Harry is very active. Eagerly devising ways to earn suffrage. He also has a great deal of real Estate to look after. My [????] [????] is now [??] into market. We have sold about $12,000 of it within two years. The last sale was [??] a plat just back of the house. About an acre for which the price was $5,500 and this I gave to Alice having the papers made to her. I wanted her to have it to manage and look after The Woman’s Journal No. 3 Tremont Place H. S. April 16, 1871 Dear [Conj??g]; I was beginning to be anxious when your last letter came, for fear you should be sick, as you had not written regularly for the last week or two. I think I told you that I have a little maltese and white cat who will soon have kittens. Papa has gone to New Jersey to see about the renting of the West Bloomfield place, as the Makins have departed. When he comes back he means to bring Aunt Ellen with him on a visit, to get rested and freshened up. I think she will enjoy sketching the [*you had—may be you will some day-. We are all well and over one serious draw back. Now is the putting Earth Closets and as Harry is not here to say where he wishes them, they will very likely be*] many pretty places around here. Her baby is said to be very ugly, with hair growing over her forehead almost down to the eyebrows, but has pretty black eyes. Aunt Nettie says she, wants to go to her father and mothers this summer for a while, even if she takes the baby with her. While she is gone we may possibly have Florence, Edie, and Gracie up here for some time, to get them off Aunt Nettie. That is a plan of Mama's, but I think we shall get Florence at any rate. I have invited two of. my school mates out to see me next Saturday; both very nice girls, and kind to me. One of them, Alice Erle, I have had here before once, but not Lucy Tracy. Emma is going [*unsatisfactory - they are [very? large?], a constant care. Alice forgot*] [*to thank [Franny?] Rogers. for the Colored card, but she accepted it all the same - Cordially yours Lucy.*] home within a week. [as two] She has had her betrothed spending a week here. Alida Clark is her name; but she went away yesterday. We have had our bad smelling privy cleaned out, and are making earth closets instead. I have bad luck with my selling hens. Mama is going to write, so I leave her the rest of the paper. I suppose Uncle George will be with you when you get this. Mr. Carter is making some fuss about hot bed frames, etc. which he claims as not being fixtures. It is too dark to write. Goodbye. Alice S. B. Dear Elisabeth Your letter came duly, and went on its way to N.B. where every body hails all that is heard from the family over the water. I do not think the movement for peace, will have the least disastrous effect, on the Suffrage question. One good cause never hinders another. I do not know whether Mrs. Howe now intends to go to England. She has just returned from Washington, and I have not seen her since. She did intend to go - We are having great times here, with attempts to vote. Women, The Republican party is tottering, and if it go [dorm?], we hope a suffrage party will come out of its ruins. Mr. Hussey sent me, extracts from your letter to her, on the Social Evil, which we put in this weeks issue of the Woman's Journal - they seemed timely, and too good to lose. We are glad you and Kitty, are getting a little change, in Sussex. There is a charming place across the road, which Harry wishesElizabeth [*Aunt Elizabeth] Castle House Hastings March 24th 1876 My dear brother & Sister, I need only say that Mr Wilson and Mr Gladstone come to America, (highly recommended by Mrs. Josephine Butler) for the purpose of spreading information against the "Contagious Diseases Acts" - to make you heartily give anyintroductions, or aid of suggestions, in your power. Affectly yours E. BlackwellTo the Friends of the Cause of Woman. At the Cleveland Woman's Rights Convention, the undersigned were appointed a committee to obtain the preparation of two essays, one on the Educational Opportunities of American Women, and one on their Business Opportunities. Even a superficial discharge of this duty must involve a wider investigation of facts, than is possible for any one person. Agents have therefore been already engaged in several of the States, to make inquiries. It is impossible, however, to do the whole work even in this manner; and the Committee therefore respectfully ask the voluntary co-operation of all who are interested in elevating the position of Woman. The following are the points on which information is especially solicited: 1. Educational Opportunities of American Women. (a) State legislation respecting Female Education; (b) Statistics and condition of Primary and Grammar Schools to which Females are admitted, in the several States. (c) Do. of High and Normal Schools. (d) Do. of Academies and Private Schools. (e) Do. of Collegiate and Professional Institutions. 2. Business Opportunities of American Women. (a) Statistics of actual employment of Women in various parts of the Union. (1) Mechanical, (2) Agricultural, (3) Mercantile, (4) Professional. (b) Wages paid to them, as compared with those of Men. (c) Employments which they might fill but do not, and impediments in the way. It is important that the information given should in all cases be as definite and systematic as possible. Facts are what we now aim at - not arguments, but the preliminary basis for argument. Let each person who reads this, ascertain what is within his or her reach, and communicate it within six months, if possible. For any very extensive of valuable communications, payments may in some cases be made. Any pamphlets, newspapers, or circulars bearing upon the above subject, will also be gladly received. Communications may be addressed (POST PAID if possible) to Rev. T. W. Higginson, Worcester, Mass. LUCRETIA MOTT, WENDELL PHILLIPS ERNESTINE L. ROSE, [*X*]LUCY STONE, T. W. HIGGINSON. January 15, 1851. N. B. Editors friendly to the enterprise can aid it by copying this circular.If they had done nothing more than secure the discussion of the subject in influential reviews and journals I should think their time had been well spent. "They have not even established a newspaper." There. But as the man who is diligently gathering materials to build his house, should not be charged with doing nothing, because his frame is not yet up, so neither should we who are doing the best we can to prepare the public mind to demand a paper. Oaks, grow slowly, while only the mushroom tribe come up in a night to wither as soon. Our movement is not yet four years old. It seems to me that you cannot know well the women, by whom, in the main, the conventions are sustained, or you would not believe that they can ever become "mere displays of vain oratory, or the theater of vanity and petty ambitions"- It is impossible that a platform when such fervor as Mrs. Mott Antoinette L. Brown, Mrs. Stanton & Mrs. Rose, exert a controling influence, should we become what you fear. You mistake too in supposing that some conventions "meet for the mere discussion of abstract principles" I have attended them all, and at every one except that at the Tabernacle which was so disturbed by [wording?], work has always been planned, and executed afterward; thus I regard the mere discussion of principles as of inestimable value, at this stage of our progress. I value as highly as you can, individual effort. One example but I am far from believing that we have yet outgrown the uses of conventions.Elizabeth 1864 New York, Dec 22 126 2nd Avenue Dear Lucy, Alice's little photographs are just received and shall be duly delivered. Please tell the dear little niece that I am quite sure some fruit will grow on the Christmas tree for her but it is not quite ripe yet, and it is some distance to New England she must not expect until next week. We keep Monday 26th as Christmas day - and of on Monday at 10 o'clock she will look very hard at New York, and imagine herself standing amongst the little group in the back parlour, she will certainly hear her name called out more than once, with many an exclamation of oh how I wish Alice were here. We are having a bitter spell of weather. I wish Harry were safehome again. Mother is coming in tomorrow to spend Sunday &c- all the others will arrive Monday and the Willburns sleep here. With best wishes, for a Merry Christmas, & Happy New Year, Believe me dear Lucy Truly yrs Elizabeth.Elizabeth Blackwell to Lucy Stone July 1/61 Dear Lucy, Please ask Miss Barlow to let me know when her plans are decided on - ie when she leaves for New England, and when you do. Kitty would exceedingly enjoy travelling with Alice, and I should have no objection to her waiting a couple of weeks on her return to Greenwich in order to go on with you - but if you cannot decide upon your journey, of course I shall be very glad to send her on with Miss Barlow, if she waits till the third week in July. As soon as any decision is arrived at, I shall be glad to know on account of arranging with Phoebe. Yrs affect Elizabeth I hope you'll have a pleasant 4th.Mrs. Lucy StoneDr Eliz to LS - Mar 31 1874 re Alice's healthDr. Elizabeth Blackwell writes from Rome to Lucy Stone, March 31, 1874: Dear Lucy: I was glad to see your handwriting again, & much gratified by your cordial invitation to me & to Kitty to pay you a long visit. xx I wish I were near at hand, to confer with you occasionally about our dear Alice, for I know how anxious you are to make a strong woman of her - & I cannot but believe that all your care will be rewarded by the formation of a substantially sound constitution; as she grows a little older, she will herself learn to regulate her appetite in the way that her digestion requires; but I cannot believe that she will become hippish, or fall into the nervous apprehensions of semi-invalidism. I believe you have made a strong woman of Alice, & that larger experience & a few more years will confirm her constitution, & repay you for all your care. I am excessively [exceedingly] sorry to hear that you have been suffering so much from rheumatism, & youmust not allow the tendency to go on unchecked. (She urges her to go to a warmer climate for a while). Hastings, Aug. 12, ? Dear Lucy ....Tomorrow will be your birthday, and I hasten to tell you how affectionately we shall remember the day; and how heartily I shall hope that your noble life may be long continued, with strength to continue the good fight which makes a true Leader in the great Providential Onward movement. We have been soldiers in different Army Corps of humanity advance, but I have always recognized that we are fellow soldiers; and according to my growing conviction, we shall work in the future more closely still, as material encumbrances fall away, and free us for larger service...... With cordial affection and best wishes dear Lucy, As ever yours ElizabethRock House Hastings Mary 12. / 80 Dear Lucy, I thanked you very much for your kind description of Emily's house life sent to me whilst in Delaware. I should have answered the letter before had not a press of engagements made me defer it - and I have just returned from an intensely interesting visit to London in which I am sure you will be interested; for I think there is nothing more encouraging to an older worker than to see the great reforms for which they have labored during a life - time, growing, and earnestly carried on be a younger generation. And first I was gratified by the medical work. Nine very intelligent and earnest younger women, all English physicians, met for consideration of medical subjects, and then went down the river for and annual dinner together which this year, was a famous Greenwich Hoping dear Lucy to hear good accounts of your recovered strength Affectly yrs Elizabethwhile back dinner. Our London Medical School is a really fine foundation, with spacious ranges of rooms extending along a great garden, I have never seen so "attractive" a medical school establishment and it is entirely owing to the exertion of our militant lady leader, Dr Jex - Blake, the chief worker, with many able assistants. I read a paper at our Medical meeting, and the excellent young physical Dr Dunbar who worthily represents the profession in my native city - Bristol - gave a very carefully prepared account of interesting cases in his own practice. Dr Jex. Blake made the excellent practical suggestion; that for the next meeting no special papers should be prepared - but that a list of questions arising out of individual practice, should be sent round a month before hand to each member Mrs Hussey and her daughter to do the honours - and she remarked, as she looked around the great crowded hall and galleries crowded to its utmost capacity, and pervaded by a spirit of order and sustained another season "we could not do anything like this in America!" - So perhaps you may be encouraged by seeing the Mother set an example to the daughter after all. I enclose a short [leader?] which came out in the chief english Liberal Journal, the "Daily [Laws?]", next day. Facing the audience a handsome gold color banner stood against the platform which had been brought by the working women in procession from east London. "Woman Suffrage Demonstration Come to St James Hall" was inscribed in large letters - with a motto, "we are too low to vote but not too low to pay." - One leader a Mrs Craizen, surprized me by her magnificent voice. I had been straining me ear for an hour with only partial success to follow the speakers, when the sudden relief of this rich full Elisabeth mellow organ heard without the slightest difficulty, reminded me of poor old Sojourner Truth. Of course I looked after the other subject in which I take a deep and constant interest the repeal of the abominable C. D. acts. and my excellent hostess who entertained me with luxurious hospitality is intensely interested in the subject - but I am not satisfied with the conduct of this agitation altogether. I do not believe that these acts will ever be repealed with no attempt made to check a loathsome disease which does exist and which the growth of Sanitary Science require, should be checked. I want our repealers to recognize this fact, and whilst repealing these immoral and unjust laws - insist upon a law applicable to all making the communication of syphilis an offense to be judged in camera - and also that all general hospitals shall receive these patients. of the meeting, that the united experience of all should be brought to bear upon these questions when we rush together. Our meeting at dinner was genuinely cheerful - all the accessories were charming - a noble room looking out on two broad sweeps of the Thames - a table set with all luxuries of silver, glass, a flowers and a number of intelligent bright earnest young four gathered round the board, was a very attractive place; and during the two hours we sat and talked there, I became better acquainted with our young physicians, as women, than I probably could have done in any other way. in so short a time. Altogether I considered our medical anniversary a pleasant success. My next point of interest was making the acquaintance of our lady lawyer, that is to be; for although occupying with her partners very cheerfulchambers near Chancery Lane and doing even now a good deal of business she has not yet been legally recognized. I had a great deal of conversation with her; and was thoroughly gratified by the excellent judgment and tact, which combined with intelligence and plod seemed to ensure an excellent leader in the important work of the law. I joined the club which in being found for the discussion of political and social topics, and shall attend a meeting for the first time next Thursday. It seems to me to enfold a great possibility but I will defer speaking of this tale I know more about it, actual working. I have reserved for the last what I know will especially interest you, the really magnificent meeting for Suffrage which took place on the evening of the 6th in St James Hall. You will have seen notices of this meeting and full reports of speaker long before this reaches you - but the powerful effect of the meeting is now conveyed by the speeches a newspaper accounts. I went withRock House, Happy New Year! Hastings. Jan. 1st 1883. Dear Lucy, I must apologize for not answering your kind offer to send to Florence the $30 that I wished to present to her. But before your offer came I had requested George to send this sum to Alice for Florence; and thus I forgot to say this to you, when your letter came. I quite understand the money difficulty in which your Western generosity and legal obstacles temporarily entangled you. Do not be disturbed about it on my account. If later you feel that you can send the money for Grace's return passage, I shall of course be glad to receive it; but I always restrict my expenditure to that I actually possess, so I can quite wait your convenience. I am truly glad to have given Grace this little opening and lift in life, which I am sure will be a permanent pleasure, and I hope good to her; although a combination circumstances compelled me let the visit be shorter than at first intended. The circumstance mentioned inin one of Alice's letters to Kitty about the infamy in Martha's Vineyard, shocked me personally. The criminal was the very man entrusted to drive Kitty after dark, from Fred Mayhew's house to Quitsy last summer. It is quite time that women formed a league for the protection of the young, and constituted their selves a Vigilance Committee with friends and legal advise to enforce existing laws. For it will be found everywhere that Law is in advance of Practice. It is nobody's business to enforce the just laws which have been made by a previous age. I hope to send you by next post a completed copy of "Wrong and Rights Methods." I am sure it will be useful in America, and if some house will publish it, I will write a special preface for the American edition. I have carefully noted your letter about the Anthony & Steinthal trouble. If you come by any possibility forward to Channing & Steinthal, that article of Miss Anthony's recommending the "purchase of votes". It would make a profound impression. affecty yours Elizabeth.Dr Ely Aug 4 to Lucy Stone 1888 request for Book (Dr Emmet) reviewed in Journal [See p 2] private pub of new medical treatise DRock House, Hastings Aug., 4th / 88. Dear Lucy, Do you happen to have Kept the book of which the enclosed is a notice from a July Woman's Journal? If so, I should be very glad if you could lend it to me as I should like to learn Dr Emmet's facts. I have just been compelled to print a medical treatise, warning women of the great dangers which threaten them from the rapid spread of " Neo Malthusianism" and I shall gather up all the reliable facts I can, for some future edition which can be published. My present pamphlet is only intended for private circulation. I would willingly have avoided this particular subject, could I have conscientiously done so - but it has become full time for the first woman doctor to declare the truth plainly - so on I must march always in antagonism with the majority, unfortunately. I do hope that August will prove a more summerlike month, for Alice's sake, then July has proved with us. We enjoyed our month at Haslemere on account of the sandy soil, fine open heaths, and delicious air, in spite of almost daily rain, and cold cloudy skies. But for Camping in the woods, weather is an essential condition of enjoyment - or the reverse. With much love to yourself and Harry, from both of us, Affectly yrs, E. Blackwell.P.S. Of course you will not trouble about the book, if it has been thrown away - as I can get it through A. Sy. B. A letter from Marian received yesterday, reports pleasantly from Friel, where she is staying whilst Frances keeps house for her son and friends at Vernon. She is recovering from her severe attack of indigestion, and able to take some walks. [*Elizabeth Blackwell*] Rock House, Hastings, England Ap: 26th / 83 Rec May 8 " Dear Lucy, I sent you yesterday an account of the important parliamentary debate of the 20th - and my opinion on a (certainly) partial fabrication of a letter in my name in the suffrage history. Today I have your cheque in contribution towards Graces' expenses. I am glad to receive it, as it will make matters easier for some pleasant summer excursion. I rejoice to think from all I hear, that Grace has really improved by the intensely conscientious care which Kitty & I bestowed on her during the ten months visit. Kitty has had [*P.S. Don't you think there is a little danger of frightening young men, by printing Alice's name as editor of the Journal? They are such scary creatures and Alice is so young!*]one letter from Alice, dated Chicago. She will pick up letters from Kitty at various points, which will cheer her up during certain moments of home sickness which doubtless will occur. We shall rejoice to hear of her safe return, refreshed by the holiday, and variety of experiences. Madame Bodishou consulted me about receiving the two suffrage ladies (now in Rome) who have asked to visit her. I told her of the past facts you have communicated to me; and she will decline seeing them. I wish I could help you fight the Municipal suffrage perplexed or blinded by the one sided male physiology which is ruining society. Rev Charles Kingsley once told me, that the Canon law was the greatest enemy women had. Now I do not understand the Canon Law, but I do see, that so called religious teachers, are the first persons whom women must convert! I wish I could show you the lovely flowers that are spreading every where like a carpet over the land under the delightful sunshine. You would enjoy it. Affectionately yours dear Lucy Elizabeth.dittoes, (such as the Wilhelmshoke experiments of the Crown Prince of Germany) which would make a fund for a fresh start in some new place, it would be an invaluable aid in [c?sting] the Will, on the side of moral improvement. Told the ladies however, that I was too much engaged to assist in such organization but what I could offer was this: viz: that where a little band of experienced women, married, or reformatory workers would get up a private conference, I would meet them to give them instruction on the relation of sexual physiology to Christian morality. This Knowledge is more and more needed by women, who are entering even more widely into [?] work; but who are warped campaign. More and more I realize the immense importance of this first step which places public responsibility upon women. Now that the mortal conscience of the nation is beginning to be deeply stirred in this vital subject of the relation of the sexes, we are beginning to discover the substantial ground on which we stand in possessing an acknowledged right to speak every year in relation the choice of our town representatives. I hope to assist in organizing a most important educational movement, based on this right - the education namely of rate-payers & women who pay town taxes,: byshowing them the various ways in which morality can be promoted by the action of our municipal representatives. Yesterday I attended a Drawing-room meeting of Hastings and St. Leonard ladies, to consider how the young girls (servants and others particularly exposed to temptation) could be cared for better by ladies as friends. The immense organizations of the "Girls Friendly Societies", "Self Help Societies", and "Young Woman's Christian Associations" &c &c were represented. I dwelt upon the necessity of introducing the principle of Hope into all reformatories & industrial schools, which are altogether too much penal institutions, and send out their inmates rather embittered than reformed. If they were allowed to earn a small sum a week on certain carefully guarded [con?] [*Elizabeth Blackwell*] London, Sep. 14/82 Dear Lucy We have just secured an excellent berth on the Gallia of Oct. 14th, and Grace is looking forward with much pleasure to the voyage, and only wishes it were a longer one. I have not yet found a special escort for her, because Americans now in London, sail in September but we shall come up again in October, and I have no doubt but that I shall find some suitable person between this and then, as I, and other friends are looking out. Under the circumstances I thought it best to secure passage by the Gallia as Grace knows the ship; and I have paid extra to secure a nice berth; for the ship is such a favorite one that without doing so, I could not secure a good berth beforehand; she would otherwise have had to take her chance on arriving in Liverpool, & have been one of a crowd seeking quarters, and have been compelled to share with three or even four in a room. But now she has her berth No 1 inroom 28, close by the ladies Cabin, all secure, with one lady passenger to share the room. She knows and likes the room, and she can have her box labelled and taken directly [back?] on board. So I think the 18 guineas well invested. I shall hope in October to find a companion, so as to be saved the triple journey to Liverpool, and double hotel bill, as that increases the journey considerably. Then a few cab fare, and stewardess fees will complete the expences, with a little pocket money to land with. I have been very glad to give Grace the pleasure and advantage of a stay first in Paris and then in London! Her three weeks in London will always be remembered by her. Kitty has taken charge of her in visiting Museums and historical monuments. She has shown her which to look at, and how to look at it, and how to remember it, carefully holding up and guiding the childish mind, with skill and patience, and Grace feels as if for the first time she were learning I trust it was only a superficial childish remark, but how I do wish that Sam could have for once, a good long and entirely refreshing holiday — an escape from home pressure, such as Emily has just enjoyed with you. And considering Sam's health and his very helpless family, I want dear Lucy to say this emphatically about Grace's expences on this side the ocean, - that I would far rather pay her return voyage as well as all else, than hinder you in the slightest degree from continuing to extend the Kindly aid to these children, that they will continue to need. Grace goes back earlier than was contemplated, because I find that her health and mental development require conditions that I am unable to furnish; but she must still be helped, and I will gladly give these journey expences toward her future welfare in America. Family duty comes before public duty, and I willingly delay the accomplishment of other work, to fulfil my family duty towards thisgood but feeble little member of our small family circle. I am deeply interested in enlarging social questions. The specious and false report of the Majority (only-9 against 6-) on the C.D. Acts, will necessitate a continued and vigorous effort for the repeal of these demoralizing laws, for this Majority report is quite against the evidence, judicially weighed. So on we must fight all through life. And the subject of land monopoly which is rapidly coming to the [front?] engages my heartiest sympathy. You ought really to read Henry George's book Progress & Poverty, and then you can realize fully the evils of such an idea as this, which I read in yesterday's paper. "A party of English & New York Capitalists have purchased no less than seven million acres of land between the Little Missouri and Powder rivers, from the Northern Pacific Railroad, at one dollar per acre" Read Henry George, and see what this "opening up" by speculators really means. Much love to all. Affectly [?]. something. She cannot use books - but anything that Alice can show her in Boston, slowly and carefully, she will take in, meditate on, and note down. It is in that way she must be taught practically. I am quite satisfied now that she ought not to remain this winter in our quiet Hastings house. As it would of course be utterly impossible to continue to devote almost exclusive thought time [or money either?] as I have done in Paris and London, she will be happier in her Somerville home I think than in Hastings. I shall however be surprised as well as disappointed if you do not find decided mental development as a result of the nine months and a half of most careful training that we have bestowed on her. Had I known earlier of Mr [Curling's?] return to Boston, I might have availed myself of his escort — but as it was we found it impossible to do so — severalengagements prevented our changing the plans formed, which Grace would half been bitterly disappointed to cut short. So we trust to find some acquaintance amongst 3 or 400 passengers on the Gallia's list. This morning we took Grace across Kensington Gardens to call on Mr Channing; and I encouraged her to go in alone for ten minutes, when we joined her, I was grieved to find him looking wretchedly ill, but he talked much and much affectionately as well as admiringly of you, recalling the epoch of the Rynder's mob and scene after scene in which he had stood by you, and rejoiced in your Una-like power. I encouraged Grace to make little notes of the interview, as she could never hope to see him again. But she made this remark which shocked me greatly, "He reminds me of my father who looks just so" — that is hollow eyed, emaciated, and grey coloured. Poor Lam, is he really so declining? Worn out so young? 55 Porchester Terrace London W. Oct 14th [*1882*] Dear Lucy The little neice [darling?] with this letter. You will be glad to know that the arrangements have been of the most careful character. We have taken a world of pain to ensure her safety, comfort and freedom from responsibility. After vainly seeking for weeks an escort in a fellow passenger, I was fortunate enough to hunt up a most experienced and trustworthy American agent Mr Stanton 17 Southampton Row, accustomed to arrange for missionaries women and helpless folks, and he aided me in the kindest way; so that Grace was taken charge of from the London platform to her stateroom on the Gallia, relieved from every responsibility, but at the same time with the stimulating idea of travelling alone. Fortunately in an old country like England, a little expenditure will secureKitty has affectionately seconded my efforts - that the result as far as her health is concerned, has been entirely unsatisfactory, only makes me happier that the experiment has been made - so that whatever the final issue, her family has done for her, all that could be done. Hoping dear Lucy that you begin your important winter's work with fresh hope and strength, affectly yrs Elizabeth Blackwellevery kind of assistance. The card just received which I enclose, will show how successful the arrangements prove. Granted two excellent introductions to persons on board. She enjoys the prospect of the voyage - she takes back a nice supply of clothes (I have spent a little over twenty pounds on them) and many pleasant reminiscences of her european visit; which I think will be a most charming remembrance to her, during the remainder of her life. The one painful conviction with which I part from her, but which I shall mention only to you, is that she cannot pass her thirtieth year. I have watched her more carefully than any one else has done, and I observe a distinct decline in health which I consider inevitable. I do trust Therefore that whilst every cheerful encouragement is given to Grace herself that her extreme physical debility will be recognized and tenderly cared for. I have spent no amount of time thought and money that would provide her with the best possible conditions during her stay with us; andElizabeth Blackwell Rock House. Hastings Dec 28th, 188. Rec Jan 10? Dear Lucy, I received yesterday a copy of Pomeroy's "Ethics of Marriage" from you, for which I am sincerely obliged! I think it will be very useful to me but in quite a different way from what I supposed. I thought I should have obtained important statistics from Dr. Emmets long experience in medical practice that would have been useful to me in the difficult work which I am conscientiously compelled to take up. But it teaches me nothing; indeed it contains a few physiological errors. It is however on the whole a very nicely written and mild pre sentation of an important but ex tremely difficult subject suited to popular distribution; and as such it may meet a want that our Moral Reform Union is seeking to supply. They looked to me to prepare such a pamphlet; but I go too profoundly and medically into the question discussed and what I have prepared is really more suited to guide doctors than the ordinary reader. So I am very much pleased to get this gentle preparatory book, which I think can do good service. [Will you] [therefore kindly find out for me] [the whole sale price of the work -] as I was writing the foregoing sentence it occurred to me, that I need not at all trouble you in this matter, because I shall write direct to the [New York] London publishing whose names appear on the title page. If I find the price be exorbitant it is possible that our M. R. Union may print a revised edition over here. The subject is a most serious one. It is already affecting the national welfare, unnaturally decreasing population in France - and in the United States quite checking the growth of what may be called legitimately the native american race - so that negroes and foreigners are gradually supplanting the better stock. Of the immense injury to woman from dethroning The Mother - making children a nuisance and the female a machine - I' need not say more, for my sense of injury is so strong that I find it difficult to restrain it. I feel like writing with thunder & lighting. So Dr Pomeray who writes as a man instructing women (not taking the lesson home) is really better suited for popular preparatory work. But I do feel very anxious about our women physicians. In 1880, there were 2432 women doctors in the U.S. What arethey doing for the advancement of a Higher Morality? The medical movement will be a pitiful failure, and worse, if its be simple a small imitation of men, or a struggle for bread & butter. If I were twenty years younger I would preach an international union of women physicians for sound instruction as to the hierarchy of our spiritual nature, founded on sound physiology. I wonder if the W.C.J.U. would take this matter up. It seems to me that their doctors Brohnell and Dickinson are the only M.D., that realise their high calling! But dear Lucy I did not intend to inflict a Jeremiad upon you - but only thank you for your remembrance, and wish very heartily to you and yours "A Happy New Year!" and many of them - affect Elizabeth.Dr Ely last page of letter to Lucy Stone no datepoll of the Democratic National Con Committee, with the result, as we in favor of the Amendment. The Exe make public on February 11 a resolu vote of the mombers of the Democrat the 48 states, the Executive Commit and urged favorable action on it by The next day the Republic for the Republican National Committ[*I have not seen the history of suffrage by Mrs Stanton &c - I am sorry they have [?] [untruths?] about me!*] Rock House, Hastings. April [?]th Elisabeth Dear Lucy, I have been very busy since February, with the organization of the Months lectures, then conference, and now support of Mrs Stansfeld's motion for the 20th. But I will employ some this bright Sunday, to thank you for your letter and enclosures of March 11th. I feel the utmost sympathy for the position in which you have been placed; fro I know that it is the hardest possible thing to hunt down lies; as half truths or perversions of truth are often more difficult of defeat than down right lies. I will keep your letter by me, and whenever I find the opportunity, I will try and keep the truth and [give?] caution as to the proceedings of these two persons now in England. Their indiscretions and worse, have done immense mischief in America, and have probably delayed the recognitions of the just claims of women for many years - in America. My hope however respecting their visit to England is, that they may gain much more good than they can do harm. England has learned to measure, and stand on guard against, thethe wild and flippant claims of the multitude of superficial crude people who come to instruct, and then gradually find that they must learn the very rudiments of healthy progress. Now these two ladies have much to learn; they will be compelled to hide any free love notices which they will find belong to a very much lower class — not suffragists. (By lower I mean less thoughtful, able, and cultivated). They will be compelled here, to be cautious; and they will find probably to their surprize that England is much farther advanced than the U.S. That the Municipal vote, has put into the hands of women an immense power, which they are now beginning to use; and that the tremendous battle which is beginning with licentiousness, all over the land, is rapidly striking off the chains of thought in which women have been so long shackled. The growth during the last ten years is wonderful. I do not think these ladies can fail to be benefitted by what they will see around them; and if they can be sent back [concerted?] and moralized, it will be a great help to you. If they are wise, they will study the way in which the municipal vote was gained for women see what it is leading to; and learn the fundamental character of the sexual revolution that is going on - the equal morality claim (not equal immorality,) which is at the bottom of the whole subject. I am almost afraid that these immoral C.D. Acts, may be abolished too soon!! The challenge which the Royal Commission in its majority report, threw out to the religious sentiment of the people is taken up with wonderfully growing determination. Social Purity Alliances are springing up amongst the young men. There is a most encouraging movement in Oxford - I have delightful letters from the more active elder graduates there - the slip I enclose is significant; it was actively promoted by the young men of the University (The University has a separate organization from the town) and this petition for the protection of girls was signed by 350 of the most influential men in the University. A similar work is beginning amongst the miners in Durham, where130 of these rough men, took the pledge of purity at a meeting lately. My efforts as you will see from the enclosed slip, go in the same direction, although the enlightenment and organization of the women tax payers, is the method I have now chiefly at heart. The conference where I made this statement was a very interesting one; and the sub-committee of seven, appointed [to] by the conference to draw up the objects of association is a very influential one. I shall work at the organization after the 20th. Our Social Purity Association will take wider ground than any society yet formed under the same name for the four, methods [objects] I have especially named here a most direct bearing on the subject to be reached. I wish you and Alice could have come to England this summer and rested here. But I wish Alice much enjoyment from her adventurous trip, and to you dear Lucy, continued strength and satisfaction, in your brave life long battle for rights with much love to all Affect Elizabeth Anna, Marian well when last heard from. Rock House. Hastings. Aug, 12th. Dear Lucy, Kitty (who has a wonderful memory!) has just announced that tomorrow will be your birthday, and I hasten to tell you how affectionately we shall remember the day; and how heartily I shall hope that your noble life may be long continued with strength to continue the good fight which makes a true Leader in the great Presidential Onward movement. We have been soldiers in different Army Corps of humanity advance - but I have always recognized that we are fellow soldiers; and according to my growing conviction, we shall work in the future moreclosely still as material encumbrances fall away, and free us for larger service! We have enjoyed hearing of the various summer experiences of our scattered family. I have not much to report in relation to the Hastings branch, as Marian's health is now so infirm that any change for her must be close at hand; and although she craves change (which is not of intense desire to escape from the sense of constantly increasing weakness and mobility - to take sufficient nourishment) yet she really is unable to endure long travel & absence of all home, conveniences. I am going to take her to Heathfield in the first week in September, to see if the force a great constitutional change, against the judgement of the english people as a whole, is a mistake. Great Britain & Ireland are really a whole, and must move as one. The attempt to create a separate nation & parliament in one section of the Kingdom, is not the way to secure peace and progress. That Dublin Castle is an anachronism is true; that the gradual development of local and County government is the line of progress, is also true. But Gladstone has made an unfortunate mistake in method, which is doing, - temporarily - much mischief. But Truth is the strongest force in the Universe and the result will over rule errors. With cordial affection and best wishes dear Lucy, As ever yours Elizabeth.delicious and invigorating air of that high and lovely region will restore her powers of digestion. It is an experiment, as it is too far off for a drive, and I cannot tell how she will feel the changes which two short railway necessitate, I cannot tell - But she intensely desires change, (though never desiring to return to any place where she has once been) - so I will do my best to gratify this craving. Heathfield where we mean to go is a most commanding situation we shall have sunshine and freshest air to any extent - and it is interesting to me because near by, my friend Mr Staples has bought an estate which he hopes to develope, on other than selfish principles; make the good of all the settlers - not pecuniary speculation and gain - his main object. This is a most importantprinciple for future scientific demonstration in social growth, and I take the deepest interest in all experiments for it's solution. So I shall gain at Heathfield that spiritual enjoyment & interest which is needed to transfigure country life. I cannot help thinking that England must lead in this matter of the righteous holding of land - for America is necessarily too busy creating billionaires out of it's immense territories, and developing physical enjoyments, to be able as yet to realize that slums will at last be the result of untransfigured matter! I deeply regret in politics, that so noble a man as Gladstone has made a great mistake - and failed in his old age, to be receptive of the spirit of our time. He has an unconscious reliance on his own ability, which deceives himself, and the attempt to New York. May 23rd Dear Lucy, Your second note is just arrived. I heard yesterday from Harry who says, "I have some business in Wisconsin which compels me to start back to La Crosse tomorrow morning - I shall probably be busy there and in Bad Ax Co for some two months to come. Preparatory to moving East, I am making some speculative investments for friends on joint a/c & also putting my lands into market for sale. If as is not likely, Lucy should be in New York or neighborhood, will you please inform her of the change in my plans, to ask her to join me if possible at Chicago on Saturday May 31st at the Tremont House - I have today sent up a young man with a buggy and a lot of books for our summer reading, to meet us at Chicago at that time. Thence I shall drive across the country to Varaqua and La Crosse -"He goes on to say that he is very anxious to settle down, ,and looks forward with quiet pleasure to joining us in the Fall - He says nothing about a county seat near any ridiculous town of Montana, so I hope that was only a joke - I suppose you have received the same request already from him - but I make sure by transcribing the above - his letter was dated Cincinnati May 20th. So dear Lucy you are off on your travels again. I am afraid it is a disappointment to you as it is to me. but I shall be glad to have your restraining power exerted upon Harry, in his present speculative mood. With best love yours truly, Elizabeth.Rock House, Hastings. July 21st. My dear Lucy, It gives me sincere pleasure to introduce to such a Veteran worker as you are, my friend. Miss Muller, and her sister who belong to the younger generation rising up to carry on good woman's work. You probably know that Miss Muller is an active member of the London School Board, and Miss Eva one of our lady Poor LawGirardeau's - this latter position being our latest valuable conquest from old barbarism. As these ladies use the summer vacation expressly for the purpose of studying women's work in America, I am sure that you will be delighted to help them gain the information they desire; and that Alice will also take pleasure in telling about co-education and other interesting life amongst her young companions. Any introduction in the various places the Misses Muller propose to visit, will I am sure do good service. Affectly yours Elizabeth.Elizabeth Blackwell1888 Mar. 10 Hastings Dr. Elizabeth Blackwell to Lucy Stone Miss Taylor's protest over Mrs. Ashton Dilke's public work Morality and the suffrage cause Vigilance SocietyMiss Helen Taylor Mrs. Ashton Dilke Mrs. S - E.C.Stanton Miss Susan B. Anthony Mrs. ChantElisabeth 18[80?] Private Rock House. Hastings March 10th 188. Dear Lucy, Your note which reached me yesterday, I answer by first post. Although I am not in the counsel of the english suffragist army, I can give you this positive fact.' On Tuesday March 6th Miss Helen Taylor said to a friend of mine, "tomorrow morning I shall telegraph to Miss Anthony - I will not go to America as W S. is taking over W A. -D." - I know nothing farther, except that Miss Taylor is quite determined not to appear in public where this young lady [*Mrs Moore is mistaken as to the "respect" felt for the young lady in question. "Clever, fascinating, ambitious," is the judgment on her,is placing herself in evidence. Miss Taylor has immense personal influence amongst the great working masses of G. Britain and Leland - and she is resolved that her influence shall be in favour of higher sexual morality amongst political leaders. She believes that as a woman politician (and we have no one woman with any thing like her position in this respect) it would be disastrous were she to condone the facts that Mrs Ashton Dilke was proved by her own testimony to have known of her sisters adultery to have continued to visit the really - obscene adulterer, to continue [?] as trustee of her boys and instead of remaining quite in private life, to be pushing herself into public notice persistently. For my own part, I think that it is treachery to the woman suffrage cause to show to the world that women do not regard morality as of vital importance - all kinds of morality - So I think that Miss Taylor's forcible protest in this matters, is really worth the making,for hers; because she occupies a unique position. Good little Mrs Chant is of less consequence although her going over is sprung upon our Vigilance Society in a most hurried way - and she knows nothing of your suffrage difficulty. But she is so sound that her presence will probably do nothing - but good, - she is no politician. Miss Taylors address is "13 Harrington Road South Kensington London" - she keeps this as a perimant point in her many journeying. Affectly yours E. Blackwell