Blackwell Family Lucy Stone Sister-In-Law Stone, HarrietWest Brookfield Jan. 3d 1847 Very dear sister you will excuse me for not writing before, as you know my time is pretty much ocupied and it is no small job for me to write when there is time, so I shall make no more excuses. Father and mother are well and have just gone to meeting; it is communion with them today. Harriet and I are at home taking care of the baby as usual, since Luther left we have had a 'sorry time' with her, she was some unwell then, and continued to grow worse for two or three weeks, untill it seamed as though she would not live frome one hour to another, her complaint was a diarrhea, we had doctor minick two or three times, at first his medicine did not seam to check the diarrhea, Finaly he gave a new medicine that he had never given before to any one, He called it, Mack-muns Elixir of opium. It checked the disease at wonce, yet he thought she would not live, and so we all thought, But a kind Providence ordered otherwise, and she is still alive, for which we ought to be thankful, we think she is doing pretty well now, though she is the poorest little thing you ever saw. When she was born she weighed 7 lbs & 7 oz. The first day of Jan. she was six months old, and weighed just five lbs & ten ounces. But she is gaining now about two or three ounces a week. The least that she has weighed was 5 lbs and 4 oz. Since she was sick she has been troubled with Uncle Frank & Aunt Harriet Jan. 3 1847a humor. But that is better than it has been. Her feet and hands bloat some in consequence of the humor. She has had sores in her head some, but none very lately, we don't think it has made a fool of her yet, she begins to laugh again when we talk to her, she was a case to laugh before she was sick, we don't want to brag but we think she was about as likely an one as could be scared up, and she is not to be sneezed at now, Father tels the neighbors that before she was sick she was about the prettiest little thing he ever saw. Well this is all nothing after-all and I am taking up too much of this sheet about that which you may not be so much interested in, so I will turn to some thing else. It is some time since we have heard from Bo and Sarah we some expect him down this week to attend some Peace conventions to be held here and at Warren and Ware Walker told me the other day that he had written him to come. Many of us here are becoming peace men & women and are joining the Lague of universal Brotherhood, we have looked as yet, in vain for your name. Hope you have not become a war man. Don't believe you have, but think you ought to give your name. We recieved your papers. Thought the piece why do we rejoice today pretty well got up. If you think you have got brags enough and can do more good by giving public lectures than any other way, I say go into it, but mother don't like the idea, we want you should come home after you get through at Oberlin, Think it is hardly fair if you don't you spoke of W Philips review of Govell. I have not seen g- argument nor Philips review but I have seen Spooner's argument, which Philips promised to review but never has, and probably never will. My motto is moral & political action for the overthrow of slavery. It was once the motto of old organizations. Sunday the 10th you asked some questions in your's. I don't now as I can remember them all, and the letter the folks have sent to Gardner so I can't look at that. You asked if I remember if the Liberty Party would not join the Young Whighs of Boston; Liberty Party does not join Old Whigs, nor Young Whigs nor Lords, nor any thing else that is not true to the slave. The Liberty Party is going down to an aweful rate in Brookfield casting only 69 last fall being not quite double the vote a year ago. But enough of this. Bo did not come down to attend the Peace meetings. The meetings were quite interesting. Walker went into it like a man to a days work. He went nonresistance under all sircumstances. Our little Harriet Frances gets along nicely now. She has gained six oz since the first day of Jan. Sleeps 2 & 3 & sometimes 4 & 5 hours at a time. We mean to feed her about once in 3 hours night & day. Her humor is out more now than it sometimes is. We do nothing for it except to give her some safron and anoint the places with Dalley's magical pain extraction. Yours, Frank 11th Dear Sister Lucy, You don't know how good it seems to get time to write a word or do any thing besides to take care of my babe. Not but what I love to take care of it but it is so tiresome to sit from morning till night & perhaps till nearly morning again, holding a little worrisome sick baby and see every thing around that needs doing and not one moment of time to do it in and no one to call upon to do it for you. I think I know how to feel truly thankful for her being so quiet. She sleeps as much as I want her to sleep. and I never have to rock her to sleep now. I take her up and feed her & do whatever is necessary & lay her down again & she will lay as quiet as can be, some of the time awake & some of the time asleep until I take her up again, She is paying doubly I assure you for all the trouble she has made. Mother was sick yesterday with a diarrhea. She has had a good many such turns since last spring. You know she had to work very hard the last year, & she is in a good deal of trouble for fear that she may have to work as hard the next year. She wont be obliged to if we take the farm for I can have all the hope I need. I have two sisters one of whom will be seventeen years old & the other fifteen & I can have one or even both of them if I should need [them]. The one that will be seventeen is a very good hand to do house work & a first rate hand to take care of children, so you see that I shall be very well provided for with help if I have hers. But I suppose mother will worry some until the work comes on and she finds that she dont have it to do, Francis forgot to tell you that Mr. Estes Gilbert was dead. Did Phebe tell you about their little son being drowned the fourth of last July. That was a greater trial to the family than it was to bury the husband and father. There were nineteen deaths in town the last year, some of them persons whom I presume you never knew. Mary Barnes has lately had a cancer cut out of her breast & is not likely to live long. Ira's family are all well. Clarinda you will be happy to know is a very good girl indeed. Lucy if there should be any probability of your changing your mind in regard to public speaking I hope will let mother know it the first thing, for she feels dreadfully about it, but Francis says you must not be frightened, Mother wants to have you think of it & see if you dont think that you can do more good teaching than by lecturing. And if you think you must lecture, she wants to know if you dont think you could do more good by going from house to house as Harlan Page did. Mother says she believes you used to think that that was the way to accomplish the greatest amount of good, Do you hear anything from Luther & Phebe? I think it is rather hard that we cant have [at] a letter from them The invitation to attend the jubilee at Warren, came to our P.O in a letter addressed to you. We thought we could not send the whole [letter] sheet it it would make this so heavy. Harriet,West Brookfield, Jan 3, 1847 Very Dear Sister: - - - - We received your papers. Thought the piece "Why do we Rejoice Today," pretty well got up. If you think you have got brass enough, and can do more good by going publick lectures than any other way, I say go into it. But Mother don't like the idea; we want you should come home after you get through at Oberline. - - - - Yours Frank. Lucy, if there should be any probability of you changing your mind in regard to public speaking, I hope you will let Mother know it the first thing, for she feels dreadfully about it, but Francis says you must not be frightened. Mother wants to have you think of it and see if you dont think that you can do more good teaching than by lecturing. And if you think you must lecture, she wants to know if you dont think you could do more good by going from house to house as Harlan Page did. Mother says she believes you used to think that was the way to accomplish the greatest amount of good. - - - - Harriet.[*Stone Geneology*] Pope's Hill, Apr. 17, 1893 Dear Harriet: Thanks for your letter telling us of the arrangement made with the young people. I think it is very good for all concerned, but you are rather too old and lame to take so much of the hard work as will be inevitable, with butter, cheese, and a baby. But Alice is young and active, and she will take the largest part of it. - - - - - I want to know what office our grandfather Stone held in the War of the Revolution and what in Shays Rebellion. You have told me once but I have lost the (memorandum) There is no news here. We are all well, and all very busy. The cause of Women's Rights grows, and the women of Kansas have set it spinning. By the time baby Robert is a man all the women will be voting, and helping, we hope, to make the world better. I was very much vexed when I found Alice had put me into the Woman's Journal. I have not forgiven her. We expect to be in Chicago May 15th, and to be there at least a week. With best wishes for all, but especially for my dear brother Frank. L.S. Pope's Hill, June 30, 1893 (Letter to Harriet & Frank) - - - - I am not very well. For the first time in my life my stomach seems to give out, but I am better. - - - - (L.S.)