BLACKWELL FAMILY LUCY STONE Subject File Biographical papers (childhood)Jan. 6, 1892. When she was of an age such that her father began to think of beaux in connection with her, he said to her tauntingly, "Lucy's face is like a blacksmith's leather apron; it keeps off the sparks." She was very mad; told him she did not wish to be married, did not want any man, would not have a husband for anything, and that she wished she were still plainer, and that the mole on her upper lip was an inch long, so as to hang down! When she married Papa, her old friend [Amasa?] Walker (Father of General Walker, president of the Mass. Institute of Technology) in whose family she had boarded while teaching school, said to Papa: "She is not much to look at, but she is like a Sickle pear, good all through." Oct 8, 1892. Mamma and I were eating at breakfast, before Papa got down. I had been telling her of a woman who had written apologising for being in arrears for the Woman's Column, saying she had had to ask her husband three times for the 25 cents before she got it; but we were not to stop the paper, for she was determined to have it, if she had to go out mopping to earn the money. Mother said her father was very ugly to her mother about money. She had left off asking him for money before Mother could remember; and instead she used to take it out of his pocket-book. He kept it under the pillow of his bed, night and day; and she would take out six cents at a time. In those days they had 6 1/2 cent pieces and 12 1/2 cent pieces. Or sometimes she would privately sell a cheese. There were one or two hundred of them in the cheese-room, and he kept no account of the number. Grandma said that itseemed like "hooking". "But" she said, "I have a right to it." Once, when they had to have money and he would not give them any Mamma started out with a cheese under her cloak, to sell at [Ware?]. She thought her father was out of the way; but, just as she was about to back the horse out, her father came out right upon her. "But I was as strong as a young buck. I held the cheese, which must have weight 20 lbs., close to me, under my arm, while I led the horse out with the other arm," and off she drove to [Ware?], and her father never perceived what she had under her cloak. Mamma said, "Now you are never to tell that story in any biography of me or in any article. I will not have my father blamed. It is enough simply to say that he had the Puritan idea that women were to be governed, and that he had the right to hold the purse, and to rule his own house." Grandma very much wanted a best table cloth, to use when they had company; and she did not like to speak to Grandpa about it. Mamma spoke to him. He was very angry, and declared that a tablecloth which was good enough for him was good enough for anybody, etc. But much of his talk was owing to the fact that he kept himself cross with cider. Hee was very bright and witty, and grew much more genial in his old age, after the cider was all gone. Hee made his mill leaving Grandma only the use of one room, with what milk she needed, etc. But when his children united in representing to him how wrong this was, he changed his will and left it all to her; and it was a comfort to her, though she did not live to inherit any of it. "She felt the justice of it." I asked Mamma if she did not care a good deal more for her mother than for her father. She said, "I loved her more than I did him, for she was always kind to us, and took a great interest in us." She rememberswhen Aunt Sarah was about a year old, and she about four years old, seeing her father with Aunt Sarah between his knees, dancing her and singing to her; and she wished he would to the same to her. Aunt Sarah was a very pretty baby. I told Mamma I felt as if I loved every bit of stone about that old farm, because her little bare feet had probably trotted over them; and she said they had trotted over pretty much everything. "We used to run like spiders. We were left perfectly free, after our chores were done." She remembers once when the other children ran away and left her, and called "Tag-tail, tag-tail!" when she wanted to follow them, and she howled, and old Aunt Sally said to her, "You come with me and we will go bird's-nesting" She took Mother on her hip, and went down to the end of the Long Pasture, where there was a great swamp overgrown with black alders -- all cut down now -- and she had Mamma sit down on a bog hummock, and told her to wait there while she got the eggs. She went into the thicket, and came back with the eggs of a cat-bird; and the poor mother flew around crying, and Aunt Sally said, "Scairt you away! Scairt you away!" Then Aunt Sally went into the thicket again, and came out with the eggs of a brown thrust, and said, "She's an ugly bird; she tears up the corn." There was an idea among the farmers that the brown thrushes tore up the corn. Then she brought out some white eggs, probably those of a Phebe-bird or a wood- pecker, Mother said; and she thinks there were also a fourth kind. Aunt Sally had brought a needle and thread with her, and she blew the eggs and strung the shells in a necklace for Mother, and then took her home. And Grandma was very angry and lectured them on the cruelty of robbing birds' nests; and she would not let mother wear the string of egg-shells, but hung it up over the looking-glass in the East Chamber.Oct 8, 1892. Mamma says that when she was last at the old farmhouse, she and Phebe went and looked out of one of the back windows, to take a last look at the Rock House, etc; both of them had tears in their eyes, thinking that it was probably the last time. And she shed tears as she told me about it. She loves the old farm.At the same time Mother told how she remembered the first piece of anthracite coal she ever saw. She was coming home from school, and it lay black amongst the white snow of the road, in the flat between the school-house and Mr. Lamberton's, where it had been dropped from one of the wagons that were carrying it to Ware village, to see whether it could be used for the factories there. It was an experiment. The factories in Ware village began either the year Mother was born, or the year before. She and Ware village are of an age. Mother took the piece of coal home; it was about as big as her thumb, and it was regarded as a great curiosity. Her father tried it with his hammer and his knife, and then they threw it on the fire to see if it would burn, but that the heat of their wood-fire was not sufficient, and it did not burn. The stage ran over the hill past her father's for many years, and Grandpa, who was a sociable man, was furious when the road was changed. He said he would live on a travelled road, and that the new road under the hill should not pass through his land. The heavy teams going over the hill often got stuck, and he earned a good deal of money by turning out with his ox-team and helping them out, for which he received a quarter or a half-dollar. Womenused to be scared by the steep and slippery hill, and beg, "Oh, let me get out!" On the other side it was still steeper, where the two houses of Tom and Bill Coney were -- Tom's being nearest the top of the hill. Some one asked the Coney boys how their sheep contrived to stick to the hillside -- or something of that kind -- and the Coney boys answered, "We sharpen their noses." Mother went to school to Tom, who was a cross teacher, and struck her the hardest blow she ever received except from her father. It was struck with his ruler on her ear and made her head ring. Early Years. 1881 (In handwriting of A.S.B.) Mother has just been out and brought in a big armful of wood. "Why did you?" I asked."