>> From the Library of Congress in Washington, D.C. >> Elizabeth Peterson: All of the library I want to welcome you all here today for this Open Mic Series. The Open Mic Series I actually like to think of a tributary of the Botkin Lectures. It's a little bit more informal and discussion-oriented and allows us to have conversations with artists, with leading scholars and researchers who are working in folklore, ethnomusicology, cultural heritage studies and the like -and oral history as we're going to find out more about today. It is also a great strategy for us to increase our collections and build our collections. This discussion today will be taped and will become a permanent part of our archives and will eventually make its way onto our website so that individuals around the room; around the room! Around the world a little bigger room [brief laughter] and individuals in the future will be able to listen to this. So with that said, if you do have any devices turned on like cell phones and the like, please turn it off right now and I'd appreciate it. So, today we're having a little focus on StoryCorps. StoryCorps is a partner of the American Folklife Center and it was founded in 2003 by Dave Isay and started as a booth, recording booth, in Grand Central Station and now has turned into this beautiful Airstream that is parked behind the Jefferson building right now and since 2003, or actually since 2005 when they became mobile, they've been traveling around the country documenting, interviewing or allowing individuals to come together and interview each other and share their stories and all of these stories are actually deposited in the American Folklife Center. So today, among all of the collections we have, today we don't really have many interviews with the individuals who do the interviewing. So today we are going to do switch, or turn the tables here and have an opportunity to hear what interviewers, and what the interviewers from StoryCorps, have been doing overall these years, roaming around and traveling and how they learned to do what they do and their experiences along the way. And I want to thank StoryCorps, I also want to thank WAMU who is a partner with this residency here with StoryCorps, who will be here until about mid-May. They've already been here a couple of weeks, so we're thrilled to have them and thrilled to be a partner and I'm going to turn this over to Nancy Groce, American Folklife Center a folklife specialist, who will tell you a little bit more about the individuals that are going to be talking. Thanks. >> Nancy Groce: Great, thank you Betsy and thank you all for coming. So established in 2003, StoryCorps is one of the largest oral history projects of its kind in the world. In 2005, StoryCorps converted an Airstream trailer into a traveling recording studio which you called a mobile booth, right, and launched its first cross-country tour visiting cities and towns across the country to record stories of the American people, partnering with local radio stations, cultural institutions and community-based organizations, StoryCorps invites pairs of participants to spend an hour in the mobile booth recording their stories. Each week millions of people listen to excerpts of these compelling conversations on NPR's Morning Edition. How many people here listen to NPR's Morning Edition? Ah, okay there you go and there's also the StoryCorps Listen Page. In recognition of its activities, the Brooklyn-based nonprofit has already received numerous awards including two Peabody Awards and in 2015, its founder David Isay, received a TED Prize. In 2015, it also launched the StoryCorps Apt, an innovative tool for collecting stories that we're going to be talking about today, but before we get there, I want to introduce for four StoryCorps members, staffers, who have been nice enough to come. I'll start with Naomi Blech, who began work with StoryCorps' Mobile Tour after earning a degree in sociology from Barnard College, and Naomi is all the way at end. As a facilitator, Naomi strives-- according to what's on the webpage and we always believe the webpage-"to create a space for all individuals to meaningfully share their stories." She's particularly interested in the intersection of personal narratives and ethnographic research. Talya Cooper is the archive manager at StoryCorps and has been with the organization since 2007. She holds Masters in Library Information Sciences from Pratt Institution and a Bachelor's degree in anthropology from Barnard. Felix Lopez began his time with StoryCorps in the prints and animation Department before starting his current role as a bilingual mobile facilitator. Prior to working with StoryCorps, Felix worked in art and education, sorry, worked in arts and education administration; is that right? And he earned his bachelor's degree in Chinese language and history from the University of Michigan. And finally, Stacey Todd is a native of Michigan and claims-- you've sailed extensively on the Great Lakes?-- you put that on your bio so, is that what you wanted to be known for? We're quoting; exactly why we're here. She earned her bachelor's degree in linguistics from Brooklyn College and she's been with StoryCorps since 2013 and you all...now let's see: Three of you: Stacey, Felix and Naomi are facilitators for the Mobile Booth, and Talya is here from the Brooklyn office where you're less mobile is that right? >> Talya Cooper: Yes, I'm immobile, but I work with the archive so that's what brings me to my connection here. >> Stacey Todd: You're mobile today. >> Talya Cooper: Yes. >> Nancy Groce: So this is in some ways sounds like a fascinating job. So we're going to talk to you just about what it's like to actually go around the country and record stories and what it's like to also make them available; because it's not just recording them, it's sharing them with the people that's also getting them on media so people sort of value the stories and then, of course, from the Library of Congress' view, getting them to the American Folklife Center so that they can become the permanent narrative, our permanent collection our permanent archive and part of record of the American people. So, let me start with sort of a softball question. Actually I just went back a minute; for all of you how did you hear about StoryCorps and did you, were you always interested in listening to stories? Yeah, why don't you start? So you've been with StoryCorps how long Naomi? >> Naomi Blech: I started as an intern this past June. So I guess it's coming up on a year now. In fact, this is actually my first stop on the mobile tour so I've been recording with the mobile tour for about two weeks now. Yeah, so I'm, probably won't have that many stories or may not be able to answer your questions, but I heard about StoryCorps after graduating with a bachelor's in sociology and sort of being interested in nonfiction creative storytelling in different ways to amplify the voices of marginalized of disenfranchised communities, both to empower those individuals but also to share those narratives and make them a part of our historical records. >> Nancy Groce: And how about you Felix, how did you hear about this? >> Felix Lopez: So I think I was still in education and I was doing a lot of education with museums and I was listening to a lot of podcasts at this point and I was really in-tune with storytelling based on my Caribbean family. We just over celebrations or what not I would just tell a story and with descriptions and it's this art of really celebrating life and I really got in-tune with not just history but oral history when I got into Chinese language and culture and how in-tune that culture is to storytelling with its long history and I wanted to get involved with the organization that not only tells the history, but kind of changes the narrative and gives it back to the people and gives them ownership of what they want to say and how they want to say it. And that's when I got into StoryCorps and I saw-- and I've been with this past June so it's almost coming up to a year and seeing the different facets of what StoryCorps does not just seeing it in a broadcast light, but all the different perspectives and missions that StoryCorps does to amplify the voices of everyday Americans. >> Nancy Groce: Now, how about you? >> Stacey Todd: Sure. Let's see, I've always been a people person. I've always been very curious, ask a lot of questions. I had a nonlinear path to school, so was in the service industry for ten years, so I'm a big customer service person. I ended up working at StoryCorps for two years in the Public Information and Services Department. So I was the person that people went to when they had questions, which people have a lot of questions about StoryCorps. So I worked very closely with Talya in the Recording Archives Department, the Education Department, you know, all of our different booths across the country fielding questions, sending organization towards them. But then in January of this year, I started as the manager of the Mobile Booth. But yeah, I studied linguistics at Brooklyn College and that did not lead me necessarily to StoryCorps. I needed an internship in my last semester of school so I was an intern with StoryCorps. >> Nancy Groce: Which is in Brooklyn. It's in downtown Brooklyn, right? >> Stacey Todd: Yes. Yes, in Fort Greene. It's a fantastic place to be an intern. They're very in demand these internships. A very large number of StoryCorps staff members were interns. Yeah. >> Nancy Groce: They just train up through the organization? >> Stacey Todd: Yeah. It's a six month, five-day-a-week commitment, a StoryCorps internship, typically. So, yeah, I think Talya were not an intern right? The three of us that are on the Mobile Tour were interns. Yeah, mine was from June to December of 2013. >> Nancy Groce: And Talya you, how did you get to connected with StoryCorps? >> Talya Cooper: Well, I've been with the organization for eight-and-a-half years, so it's a little bit fuzzy to remember. But. ... >> Stacey Todd: How many people worked with StoryCorps in 2007? >> Talya Cooper: Probably less than half the number of people that.... >> Nancy Groce: Yeah, how many people work for StoryCorps now? >> Talya Cooper: About a hundred-forty people work at the organization. We have locations across-- so in addition to the Mobile Tour we have our office New York, we also have permanent recording locations in Chicago, Atlanta and San Francisco and staff at all of those sites as well. Yeah, I came to StoryCorps kind of from a three pronged interest in being archivist and coming to work with a really cool collection. I've also worked in-- I'd worked in radio and audio and music stuff so I was just really interested in sound and sound reporting and then I also came from a background in social sciences and ethnography and kind of the minutia of everyday life and getting to be a part of, kind of, bearing witness to that and preserving that is something that's always been really appealing to me. >> Nancy Groce: So can one of you walk us or several of you walk us through what happens in a StoryCorps interview? How do people sign up? How do you get people to come there and then how do you walk them through what they're going to do? Because one of the interesting things for me as a folklorist is that your model is not to have someone who's a professional interviewer do it, right? It's to have people who know each other and most of whom are not done this very thing before? >> Stacey Todd: Yeah, we prefer it it's not scripted. We prefer if it's not interviewers, because that's not the StoryCorps model. The StoryCorps is a forty-minute conversation uninterrupted, with somebody that you know. But I'll start with a process people make a reservation for an appointment. I'm sorry to tell you that all of our appointments are booked for Washington, D.C. You can get on our waitlist if you'd like to be on the waitlist if you're going to be in D.C. for you know the rest of our time here, we'd be happy to have you on our waiting list. But you need an appointment, so the way the Mobile Tour works, a couple of weeks before we get to town our appointments go live on our website and people can make an appointment. It's a free public service. So you sign up for an appointment, you need to have a partner and then one of the staff members from our office will call you and make sure that you understand what you signed up for and that you have a general idea of what you're going to talk about. We prefer that you don't know exactly what you're going to talk about, but you have a general idea. So you have a date and a time for your appointment and then you [multiple speakers], exactly. The appointment takes about an hour, but you have forty minutes of uninterrupted recording time. So you show up, we ask that you show up ten or fifteen minutes early, you fill out a datasheet which is just how we build a profile of our participants in the archive. Why don't, do you want to take it from there Felix what happens after? >> Felix Lopez: Sure. Once participants come in, we tell them to come in about ten minutes before their appointment time and a facilitator-- either me or Naomi-- will come in, will come outside and introduce ourselves and they'll fill out a participant datasheet which is just to build a profile for StoryCorps. But usually what we tell them is what's the most important part about the datasheet, because there are some questions that for some people may be very particular and they might be a little uncomfortable, is that all those questions that they fill out are optional. They can fill out as much or as little as they like and so after they fill out the participant datasheet they come into the booth and it's always interesting seeing their different reactions to the booth: Oh, it's quaint or it's cozy or do you live here? >> Stacey Todd: Or it's bigger than I expected. >> Felix Lopez: Or it's bigger than I expected and from there on out we situate them and make them feel as comfortable as possible. When we get into the recording part, because there's two rooms within the airstream trailer; there's one where we, the facilitators, "database" and the other room is the recording studio and then we really start talking to them a little bit about what the process looks like. Within that sixty minute appointment, forty minutes is of uninterrupted conversation time and the facilitator is-- we're only there just really to make sure the sound quality is okay. We're going to be jotting down notes, summarizing the conversation every few minutes or so and then also like we may have some questions sometimes, but really it is the time for participants that are there to really talk about whatever they want, and participants talk from love to someone in the their family that just passed, recent proposals.... >> Naomi Blech: I had a proposal in the booth, yeah, a few days ago. >> Felix Lopez: So, do you want to? >> Did she say yes? >> Naomi Blech: She did say yes. >> Felix Lopez: Do you want to continue from there? >> Naomi Blech: Yeah, sure. I'd like to say that I may ask some clarifying questions like if they bring up Bob and they've never brought and they've never brought him up before just for archival purposes, I would say who's that? Or to invite participants to explore an area or a topic a little bit more and in that case it's obviously always optional, you know, it's an appointment between the two of them to archive their stories together so they can always skip that, but I think that you can sort of tell if they're going to be receptive to a question like that and it's often something that can enrich the experience. So I feel very privileged to be able to ask those questions every once in a while and sort of spark something in the conversation that might have gone overlooked, so I think that's one of the coolest parts of the job. And then at the end we stop their recording, we give them you know ten minute, five minute, one minute hand signals and then we give them a CD of their recording to take home that day, which is really neat and we invite them to archive their story with StoryCorps and at the Library of Congress. It's definitely very optional. The release forms range from walking away with the only copy of the CD to archiving at the Library of Congress, some of our partner archives at that the Smithsonian, or to just archiving at the Library of Congress and not giving StoryCorps access to your content, to produce for radio potentially -- which is only less than one percent of that stories. But or to use for educational or promotional purposes and things like that, but a lot of people are really excited by sort of how easily they able to open up or what came out in those forty minutes and are excited to archive it, so that's also something that's really neat. And then we take some photos for the archive, some group photos and some individual photos, and we give individuals the opportunity to make a small donation to StoryCorps and that's about it. >> Stacey Todd: I was just going to say that we refer to the recording space as a sacred space and people are often surprised by how quickly they are able to make themselves vulnerable or share something that they've never shared before or how easy it is to ask a question of somebody who, you know, you've never asked that question before. >> Nancy Groce: Is that because of the physical space or is it the event that they've signed up for and they've agreed to? >> Stacey Todd: It's a combination of all of that. I definitely think the physical space helps. It's very dim inside the booth, just two lights over the participants; the light near the facilitator is usually turned off. It's pretty cozy. The booth seats are really worn in. The way its setup is like a booth at a diner; yeah, we need new cushions which we're getting, but you know we have limited resources. So if our booth seats are a little squishy that's why, but no I think that is, think of we've; the Mobile Tour has been traveling the country since 2005 nonstop. So, think of all the thousands of people who have sat in that space and had a moment or shared something, you know. There are lots of tears. People always say that the cry during our broadcast, well there's a lot of crying in the booth, but its happy tears sometimes, of course, like people share traumatic things. It's just, you can, the space has an energy to it and I do think that the space contributes to the quality of the conversation. >> Nancy Groce: Now, can you guess what people are going to talk about by, as they come, by the way they carry themselves, the way they look? >> Naomi Blech: No. >> Felix Lopez: Definitely not. Definitely not. >> Nancy Groce: Give me an example. >> Felix Lopez: I think I can like even give an example from something that happened yesterday. Someone from our outreach organization came in and it was her and her husband and they were very, I mean, they were giddy and happy and excited, but I think you can't really assume; one of the things about being a facilitator is that you really can't assume what people are going to come in with or what they're going to say or what the conversation is going to be like and so it's kind of like, just, when you're meeting a new person, for me, I feel like when people tell their stories it's always a present for me, because I'm humble in space where I'm part of your life for forty minutes and I'm hearing things that not a lot of people can hear or will hear in their lives. And especially with two people that are so personally connected I think life is life and that we have errands to run and we have things to do that we never have the space to have those conversations or we really avoid those conversations sometimes. And so with the space, that sacred space that Stacey mentioned, there is that time where people are like asking those questions and there's nowhere to go, it's like you're going to say, you're going to. >> Stacey Todd: People can leave if they want. >> Felix Lopez: They can leave, but..... >> Stacey Todd: That's one thing we tell people is you have forty minutes and people usually use it all and it usually goes really fast, but you don't have to use it all. If at any moment you feel like you're finished, you can give us a signal and we stop the recording. >> Felix Lopez: Exactly. But it's like not like, oh you, but like I feel like when it comes to a very personal conversation, when someone asks a question you feel like this is the time where I'm archiving this and this is the only time I'm going to talk about this, why don't I answer it now? And so when that couple came in, they just started talking about their grandma-- the woman started talking about her grandma and by the second or third question about talking about her favorite memories with her grandma in Ukraine, she started crying and talking about being a Ukrainian woman in the United States and traveling at immigration and I couldn't assume all that stuff just by seeing her fill out a participant datasheet or saying hello. So there's always those little boughts of surprises that come when you're a facilitator. >> Nancy Groce: You mentioned outreach organizations. Can you talk a little bit about that, because maybe a lot of people don't realize how much thought goes into who you're interviewing? >> Naomi Blech: Yeah, so a few months before we, before I scheduled stuff, we start in the office doing outreach on organizations that are working with populations that are underrepresented in the media or in our archives. We have different initiatives for LGBTQ communities, for Latino voices, for African-American and Black stories for; am I forgetting any? >> Felix Lopez: Military voices. >> Naomi Blech: Military voices. We try to-- we try go special initiatives to incorporate voices that we are noticing. We notice that we're represent we're in need of, but besides that so we'll do research on the upcoming stop. We'll look at the demographics of the stop and we'll reach out to nonprofits, you know, community-based organizations, just individuals who we think have a lot of connections in the community and we'll invite them to a community partnership meeting which happens about a month before the stop where one of our colleagues from the office travels to the location and meets with potential point people from those organizations to tell them what a StoryCorps partnership looks like. And then, if they decide that they want to be partners with us, they'll get access to a private calendar where they can reach out to people within their networks and sign them up for appointments, so about half of our appointments and more than half in Washington, D.C. go to people who wouldn't have been able to sign up, or wouldn't have known to sign up for appointments without this extra element of outreach, which is one of the main focuses in the office one of the really cool things about StoryCorps. >> Stacey Todd: Naomi and Felix both spend about twenty-five percent of their time in the office in Brooklyn, so we have a team, the Mobile Team has three facilitators. Vera is not here today, but she's in the office in Brooklyn so they rotate through and they work mainly in the office in Brooklyn is outreach. We take it very seriously. >> Nancy Groce: And how long are you, I know you're here for five weeks, I believe. Is that a standard length of time to be at a site? >> Stacey Todd: Yeah. >> Felix Lopez: Yes. >> Stacey Todd: Four to five weeks in each city. >> Nancy Groce: And then you operate eight hours a day, you do eight interviews a day? >> Stacey Todd: Seven. >> Nancy Groce: Seven interviews and lunch [multiple speakers]. >> Stacey Todd: Yeah, exact yeah. It's a long day especially you know in D.C. now we're commuting on the train just like we do in New York, so we leave about 9:00 in the morning and our last appointment finishes at 6:30 so we, and then we have databasing to do at the end of the day. So we don't leave the booth until about 7:00 or 7:30. >> Nancy Groce: And it's all very intense work, right? >> Stacey Todd: Yeah. When people are in there you really have to pay attention. >> Stacey Todd: Yeah. >> Nancy Groce: So what do you do on your time off? You're all, your traveling the country as a group and that must be..... >> Stacey Todd: Yeah. It's interesting. There's some days-- and each city also has a different feel to it. It feels like there's so much to do in Washington, D.C. that I don't want to just like lay around the house. So I've been going to museums and going for walks and you know the weather's been be beautiful. But there are days when, because it is such an emotionally tiring job some days, that you just want to like lay on the couch and watch Netflix. So it's a variation of different things and every city that we're in our living situation is different, so we're in partnership with the local public radio station. And WAMU has found us a fantastic house. We feel very fancy. We have a backyard and a porch and a front swing on the front porch. >> Nancy Groce: We can come visit! We can do some..... >> Stacey Todd: It's really-really nice, so but it's not always like that. Felix and I, in Las Cruces, New Mexico this January lived for a month in a pretty like mediocre hotel and I ate so many frozen burritos in New Mexico, so I'm happy that we have a full kitchen and a beautiful house now. >> Naomi Blech: I'm getting spoiled. That's true. >> Felix Lopez: And then in San Antonio we had our own apartment. So, in addition to going to different cities, the living situation can be very different also-- whether that be like with the distance to the booth. For like in San Antonio we walked five minutes away from the booth. In Las Cruces we drove for like fifteen minutes. Here, it's like an hour commute but it is the metro so it's nice because there are some, there is some pros of being in the metro. You can, after the booth we're already on the Hill so we can like go out or go to dinner. >> Stacey Todd: We don't have to drive here, which is fantastic! Felix and Naomi are both native New Yorkers and we're a team that travels the country with two vehicles. So it makes, I'm a Midwesterner so I, like driving is no big deal for me, but these two it makes me a little nervous, so I'm grateful [brief laughter]. I'm grateful when they don't have to drive. >> Felix Lopez: She's right. >> Stacey Todd: We, I shouldn't say anymore. >> Nancy Groce: So, now one of the ways most people hear StoryCorps I think is on NPR and Friday mornings. How many people again here listen to this on a regular basis? So a lot of people. Can you talk to us about the relationship of what you're recording? How do you select those vignettes because I assume they're edited? And so do you, when you're sitting there listening through all these stories, do you, when you hear a really great story do you sort of mark it or, how do you filter things? >> Stacey Todd: Well, we have a production department that goes through the archive and finds what they're looking for for that particular day. Talya, do you want to talk about this at all? >> Talya Cooper: Sure, yeah. So I think Naomi, I think we have a total of about six-hundred produced pieces that have been generated for NPR and our archive has sixty-six thousand interviews in it. The broadcast pieces are about two-and-a-half minutes on the interviews themselves or forty minutes. So as you can tell, it's a very-very small percentage of our archive that currently is made available to the public to hear, which is something that we in the archive at StoryCorps are working very difficult, working very hard to change with the generous partnership of the American Folklife Center, which is the only place that you can currently go to and listen to interviews in full. So the way, the production department has a few different priorities. We want to, in producing pieces, we want to represent diverse populations and also diverse kinds of pairings of people, so not have every single broadcast that goes on NPR be a grandfather, you know, giving sound advice to his grandson, like trying to have different dimensions, different kinds of relationships, and different kinds of stories and we also do some work, or the production department rather which is not my area of expertise, try and often find kind of untold stories or kind of lesser-known historical events that might relate to something that's in the news. So I remember we did a piece on Orangeburg, where there is a bunch of people killed in a Civil Rights protest in South Carolina. >> Nancy Groce: Orangeburg where? >> Talya Cooper: South Carolina. >> Nancy Groce: South Carolina, okay. >> Talya Cooper: And that was something that, you know, is not a story that a lot of people know about that is related to a lot of, kind of, better known historical events. So that's something that we do, or that our production department does rather, but then when these folks are listening to interviews in the booth there is kind of different standards, or not standards but just different things that they're keeping their ear out for which is kind of, not just interesting content, but well-told stories: you know, people who have particularly compelling voices or something. And it, you know, we never want to say that you know a certain story is better than another story because especially from an archival perspective like even a kind of dryly told story has valuable kind of evidentiary information or things like that. That's kind of the, I don't know.... >> Stacey Todd: I do have a couple of our broadcasts that were recorded on the Mobile Tour setup, if you want to play one? And if anybody's interested in hearing a story we'd be happy to do that. It looks like I see some nods. >> Nancy Groce: Yeah, yeah. Let's get a sample. >> Stacey Todd: Pardon me. >> Nancy Groce: Okay. >> Stacey Todd: I should be able to do it from here, let me see. Here we go. So this was recorded in Jackson, Mississippi. Our Mobile Tour was there in 2015, I believe. This is a father and son pairing, Albert and Ayden Sykes. This is one of my favorites. >> Recording of Ayden Sykes: Do you remember what was going through your head when you first saw me? >> Recording of Albert Sykes: I remember when the doctor pulled you out. The first thing I thought was that he was being too rough with you and he actually held you like a little Sprite bottle and he was like "Here's your baby." That was the most proud moment of my life. Don't tell your brothers, because there's three of you all, but it was like looking at a blank canvas and just imagining what you want the painting to look like at the end but also knowing you can't control the paint strokes. You know, the fear was just, I got to bring up Black boy in Mississippi, which is a tough place to bring up kids period, but there are statistics that say Black boys born after the year 2002 have a one-in -three chance of going to prison. And all three of my sons were born after the year 2002. >> Recording of Ayden Sykes: So dad, why do you take me to protests so much? >> Recording of Albert Sykes: I think I take you for a bunch of reasons. One is that I want you to see what it looks like when people come together, but also that you understand that it is not just about people that are familiar to you, but it's about everybody. Did you know the work that Martin Luther King was doing was for everybody and it wasn't just for Black people? >> Recording of Ayden Sykes: Yes, I understand that. >> Recording of Albert Sykes: Yeah, so that's how you got to think. You decide that you want to be a cab driver, then you got to be the most impactful cab driver that you can possibly be. >> Recording of Ayden Sykes: Are you proud of me? >> Recording of Albert Sykes: Of course. You're my man. I just love everything about you, period. >> Recording of Ayden Sykes: The thing I love the about you, you never give up on me. That's one of the things I will always remember about my dad. >> Recording of Albert Sykes: Wow, you said it like I'm on the way out of here or like I'm already gone. >> Recording of Ayden Sykes: So dad, what are your dreams for me? >> Recording of Albert Sykes: My dream is for you to live out your dreams. There's an old proverb that talks about when children are born the children come out with their fists closed because that's where they keep their gifts and as you grow your hands learn to unfold because you're learning to release your gifts to the world and so for the rest of your life I want to see you live with your hands unfolded. [ Music ] >> Stacey Todd: I think that's a good example of one that's obviously compelling but the dynamic between the two of them is really what the story is. The relationship is the story.