FEMALE VOICE: FROM THE LIBRARY OF CONGRESS IN WASHINGTON DC. GOOD AFTERNOON, EVERYONE. MY NAME IS ROSWELL ENCINA, THE CHIEF COMMUNICATIONS OFFICER FOR THE LIBRARY. WELCOME TO THE LIBRARY OF CONGRESS TODAY. WE'RE EXCITED TO HOST A WONDERFUL CONVERSATION, THE NEW BOOK "GOING TO THE MOUNTAIN" WAS JUST RELEASED YESTERDAY. AND WE'RE HONORED TO WELCOME THE AUTHOR, THE GRANDSON OF GLOBAL HUMANITARIAN AND FORMER PRESIDENT OF SOUTH AFRICA, MANDELA AND HIS GRANDSON, NDABA MANDELA. FIRST, I WANT TO THANK MEMBERS OF CONGRESS AND STAFF AND LIBRARY STAFF WHO ARE HERE THIS AFTERNOON. ALSO THANK YOU TO OUR PARTNERS WITH THE SOUTH AFRICA EMBASSY TO HELP TO SPREAD THE WORD OF TODAY'S DISCUSSION. I WANT TO ENCOURAGE YOU TO VISIT THE DISPLAY AT THE FOYER ON THE WAY OUT. YOU SAW IT ON THE WAY IN. ON THE DISPLAY ARE LIBRARY OF MANDELA COLLECTIONS, INCLUDING HIS BOOKS, WORKS, CHILDREN'S BOOKS, AND A LOT OF OTHER STUFF. TODAY WE'RE KICKING OFF A LOT OF FUN ACTIVITIES THAT WILL BE KICKING OFF AT THE LIBRARY THIS SUMMER. THIS MORNING, WE DID MEDIA PREVIEW OF OUR BASEBALL AMERICANA. THAT EXHIBIT OPENS THIS FRIDAY. HAPPENING THIS SUMMER AND IN A COUPLE OF WEEKS, WE'LL BE STARTING THE SUMMER FILM SENTENCE COINCIDENTALLY, NOT COINCIDENTALLY, ACTUALLY. WE'LL BE SCREENING FIELD OF DREAMS OUTSIDE AND WE'LL START THE SUMMER CONCERTS ON THE LAWN. IT'S A BUSY SUMMER HERE AT THE LIBRARY. WE HOPE YOU'LL COME BACK. NOW TO TODAY'S EVENT, FOLLOWING THE CONVERSATION, THERE WILL BE A BOOK SIGNING IN THE WOOD ITALL PAVILION NEXT DOOR AND BOOKS WILL BE ON SALE FOR YOU TO PURCHASE. WE ASK YOU TO SILENCE YOUR CELL PHONES OR TURN THEM OFF. THE SPECIAL GUEST IS THE AUTHOR OF "GOING TO THE MOUNTAIN -- LIFE LESSONS FROM MY GRAND PHAT," NELSON MANDELA. THE STORY OF NELSON MANDELA IS HIS STORY AND HOPING IT WILL BE YOUR STORY. HE'S CONTINUING HIS GRANDFATHER'S LEGACY AS CO-CHAIRMAN OF A ORGANIZATION DEDICATED TO CREATE A POSITIVE IMAGE FOR AFRICA AROUND THE GLOBE AND INCREASE GROWTH IN EDUCATIONAL, EMPLOYMENT, AND INTERNATIONAL ALLIANCES. WELCOME TO THE LIBRARY OF CONGRESS, NDABA MANDELA AND THE 14th DIRECTOR OF THE LIBRARY OF CONGRESS, DR. CARLA HAYDEN. [ APPLAUSE ] >> THANK YOU. OH, WOW. THIS IS SUCH A TREAT. AND IT'S EVEN MORE OF A TREAT BECAUSE YOUR BOOK JUST CAME OUT YESTERDAY. >> THAT'S RIGHT. >> AND I GOT A CHANCE TO READ IT LAST NIGHT. SO, WE'RE GOING TO DO -- BE ABLE TO TALK ABOUT THE BOOK AND SOME OF THE THINGS IN THERE. SO WE JUST THANK YOU FOR BEING HERE. >> MANDELA: AN ABSOLUTE PLEASURE TO BE HERE. >> HAYDEN: HAVE YOU BEEN TO WASHINGTON, D.C. BEFORE? >> MANDELA: I HAVE, I ATTENDED THE BLACK CAUCUS TWICE. >> HAYDEN: YOU CAN CLAP. SO, WELL, IN THE BOOK, LET'S JUST GET TO IT -- HAVING THE LAST NAME MANDELA AND WHAT IT MEANS TO YOU, IS THERE A LOT OF PRESSURE OR RESPONSIBILITY? >> MANDELA: OF COURSE, OF COURSE. I THINK PEOPLE HAVE A LOT OF EXPECTATIONS, YOU KNOW, OF BEING A MANDELA. OF COURSE, YOU KNOW, THEY CONSTANTLY WANT TO PUT YOU IN THE FOOTSTEPS OF NELSON MANDELA. AND WANT TO KNOW WHAT ARE YOU DOING FOR YOUR COMMUNITY, YOU KNOW? LUCKILY, I AM DOING SOMETHING FOR MY COMMUNITY, THROUGH MY FOUNDATION WHERE ALL OF OUR EDUCATION AND TECHNOLOGY AND TECHNOLOGY AND CELEBRATING AFRICAN CULTURE. AND DEVELOPED ENTREPRENEURS IN THE VILLAGES. YEAH. >> HAYDEN: YOU MENTIONED TECHNOLOGY. HOW DO YOU BRING THAT IN? >> MANDELA: SO BASICALLY WE'RE RUNNING A THREE-MONTH COMPUTER CODING PROGRAM. WE HAVE -- WE'RE TRAINING 50 YOUTH, 40 IN HIGH SCHOOL AND THE OTHER 20 UNEMPLOYUNEMPLOYED YOUTH. ONE OF THE BIGGEST CHALLENGES THAT WE FACE IN AFRICA IS WE HAVE 60% TO 70% OF OUR YOUTH UNEMPLOYED. AND UP TO MORE THAN 60% OF THEM ARE UNEMPLOYABLE. THEY DON'T HAVE THE SKILLS TO ACTUALLY BE EMPLOYED. SO WE ARE TRYING TO DO THAT THROUGH TEACHING THEM HOW TO DO CODING. AND THEY WRITE AN EXAM WITH ORACLE AFTER THREE MONTHS. THEY THEN QUALIFY FOR THE QUALIICATION AND THEN WE FIND THEM JOBS. >> HAYDEN: AFTER THREE MONTHS. >> MANDELA: YES. VERY BASIC. >> HAYDEN: WOW, THAT'S QUITE SOMETHING. >> MANDELA: THEY HAVE A SKILL, THEY HAVE A CERTIFICATE THAT PROVES THEY'RE PROFICIENT IN THAT PARTICULAR MODEL, ENTRY LEVEL. >> HAYDEN: NOW, SPEAKING OF JUMPING RIGHT INTO THE BOOK, AS A YOUNG MAN, AND I CAN SEE WHERE TECHNOLOGY HAS BEEN A THREAD, YOU WERE VERY MUCH INTO CERTAIN VIDEO GAMES? YOU MAY SAY WHICH ONES? >> MANDELA: NORMAL ONES. >> HAYDEN: REALLY. >> MANDELA: SPORTS, MUSIC. >> HAYDEN: MUSIC. IT WAS INTERESTING TO HEAR YOU DESCRIBE HIP-HOP AND ALL OF THE THINGS LIKE THAT. >> MANDELA: I WAS VERY LUCKY. MY OLDER BROTHER, HE GREW UP IN LONDON. SO WHEN I WAS 17, HE WAS PLAYING PUBLIC ENEMY. THE FAT BOYS. >> HAYDEN: THE FAT BOYS? >> MANDELA: YES? AND, OF COURSE, COOL J RAP. AND SO, YOU KNOW, HE'S AN OLDER BROTHER AND I REALLY LOOKED UP TO HIM, I REALLY FOLLOWED HIM AND THE TEAM HE SUPPORTED, THE LOCAL TEAM. AND IN TERMS OF THE MUSIC IN THIS INSTANCE. THE LABEL THAT HE LIKED, HE WAS REALLY A GREAT INFLUENCE FOR ME AT THOSE FORMATIVE YEARS, TO BE HONEST. AND, I OF COURSE IDENTIFIED FROM HIP-HOP BECAUSE WE COME FROM A HISTORY OF FIGHTING THE POWERS THAT BE, FIGHTING AGAINST THE SYSTEM, FIGHTING AGAINST APARTHEID. SO ENWHICH YOU'RE TALKING ABOUT BEING A REBEL, IT'S SOMETHING THAT IN MY BLOOD IT COMES FROM THE GENERATIONS. HE HIMSELF WAS A REBEL AND HIS FATHER HIMSELF WAS A REBEL. BASICALLY MY GRANDFATHER WAS BORN IN A RURAL VILLAGE. AND THEN HIS FATHER GOT IN DISPUTE WITH ONE OF THE -- GOT IN TO A DISPUTE. AND BASICALLY PUNISHED THE GENTLEMEN AND TOOK IT. AND HE WENT TO THE WHITE MAGISTRATE TO REPORT THIS MATTER. AND SO THEY -- THEY BASICALLY DENOUNCED OR REMOVED THEM FROM OUR GREAT GRANDFATHER. SO HE LEFT AND MOVED BECAUSE HE WOULDN'T GIVE BACK THE CAPITAL, BECAUSE HE SAID, YOU HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH THIS. YOU DO NOT KNOW HOW I RULE MY AREA. YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO COME AND TELL ME HOW I SHOULD GOVERN MY AREA. SO PLEASE GET AWAY. HE TOLD HIM TO -- TO LEAVE HIM ALONE, BASICALLY. SO THEY BASICALLY CAME WITH POLICE, ETC. , ETC. , AND THEY REMOVED HIM FORCIBLY. SO HE SETTLED IN KUNU. AND MY GRANDFATHER GREW UP, YOU KNOW, SEEING HIM. BUT ANOTHER THING HE WAS I GUESS ATTRIBUTED TO IS WE COME FROM THE RURAL KINGDOM AND WE COME FROM THE FOUR PARTS. SO WE ARE A POLYGAMIST NATION. SO THE FIRST WIFE IS THE GREAT HOUSE, THE SECOND WIFE IS THE RIGHT-HAND HOUSE. THE THIRD WIFE IS THE LEFT-HAND HOUSE, AND WE COME FROM THE FOURTH HOUSE, WHICH IS A JUNIOR HOUSE. AND EVERY WIFE AFTER THAT COMES FROM A JUNIOR HOUSE. >> AND IN THE FOURTH HOUSE SEEMED TO BE THE HOUSE THAT MEDIATED BETWEEN THE OTHER HOUSES? >> THAT IS CORRECT. SO OUR JOB FROM THE FOURTH HOUSE WAS TO BE MEDIATORS AMONGST ALL OF THE HOUSES, ESPECIALLY AMONGST THE FIRST TWO HOUSES BECAUSE THEY'RE ALWAYS FIGHTING OVER THE CROWN. AND THEN TO BE COUNSELOR TO THE KING. SO, YOU SEE, NELSON MANDELA DID NOT FALL FROM THE HEAVENS AND BECOME A GREAT PEACEMAKER, IT IS IN HIS BLOOD, YOU UNDERSTAND. THAT IS WHAT HE WAS ESSENTIALLY RAISED TO DO, TO BECOME. >> HAYDEN: THAT'S AN INTERESTING IDEA OF HOW YOUR GRANDFATHER DEVELOPED AND WHAT HE BROUGHT WITH HIM. YOU MENTIONED, AND THE NAME OF THE BOOK REFERS TO SOMETHING. >> MANDELA: YES. >> HAYDEN: GOING TO THE MOUNTAIN. >> MANDELA "GOING TO THE MOUNTAIN" REFERS TO TWO THINGS. FIRSTLY, IN OUR CULTURE, WE HAVE A RIGHT OF PASSAGE WHERE YOU MOVE FROM BEING A BOY TO BEING A MAN AND THAT IS CIRCUMCISION. WE ARE CIRCUMCISED BETWEEN THE AGES OF 18 AND 21. BECAUSE WE DON'T BELIEVE YOU CAN BE A MAN AT THE AGE WHEN YOU'RE BORN. YOU KNOW, USUALLY HERE IN THE WORLD, YOU GET CIRCUMCISED WHEN YOU'RE BORN. >> HAYDEN: SPOILER ALERT, THERE'S AN ENTIRE CHAPTER ON YOUR EXPERIENCE. (LAUGHTER) >> MANDELA: FOR US, IT'S VERY IMPORTANT TO UNDERSTAND FIRSTLY HOW TO BECOME A MAN, YOU HAVE TO EARN THE RIGHTS TO BECOME A MAN. YOU DON'T JUST BECOME -- TURN 21 AND NOW YOU'RE REGARDED AS AN ADULT, NO, YOU HAVE TO EARN THIS RIGHT. YOU UNDERSTAND? AND THAT'S THE FIRST THING THAT HAPPENS IS THE CHOP -- >> HAYDEN: LET'S JUST SAY, THAT WAS THE -- AT NIGHT, YOU'RE READING THIS AND GOING OKAY. I COULDN'T STOP READING. >> MANDELA: THAT'S THE FIRST -- (LAUGHTER) >> MANDELA: THAT'S REFERS TO THE CIRCUMCISION PROCESS WE GO THROUGH. IT'S RICH. BECAUSE YOU GET TO UNDERSTAND WHO YOU ARE, YOUR HISTORY, YOUR HERITAGE, YOUR SPIRITUAL BEING IN TERMS OF HOW YOU RELATE TO OTHER TRIBES AND OTHER CLANS. AND SECOND, THE CHALLENGES, THE JOURNEY THAT ALL YOUNG BLACK PEOPLE IN THIS WORLD, PEOPLE OF MINORITY. WE FACE AN ENORMOUS TASK. YOU HAVE TO GO AND APPLY TO COLLEGE. YOU HAVE TO MAKE SURE YOU GET ENOUGH GOOD GRADES TO APPLY TO COLLEGE. AND THEN WHEN YOU'RE GET -- WHEN YOU GET INTO COLLEGE, HOW ARE YOU GOING TO PAY FOR THE TUITION FEES? AND WHEN YOU FINISH COLLEGE, HOW ARE YOU GOING TO PAY BACK THOSE TUITION FEES? AND NOW YOU MUST BEGIN YOUR CAREER. SO THESE ARE ALL LITERAL MOUNTAINS THAT WE'RE FACING AS YOUNG PEOPLE IN THE WORLD BECAUSE OUR JOB IS MUCH HARDER THAN THE AVERAGE WHITE WESTERNER WHO HAS GROWN UP IN THIS PRIVILEGED WORLD, YOU SEE. SO THIS IS WHAT GOING TO THE MOUNTAIN MEANS. AND AS NELSON MANDELA SAID, AFTER CLIMBING A GREAT HILL, AND YOU REACH THE TOP OF THAT HILL, YOU REALIZE THERE ARE SO MANY MORE MOUNTAINS TO CLIMB. >> HAYDEN: AND YOU HAVE THE PERSON THAT WE ALL REVERE AND WE KNOW HIS PUBLIC PERSONA. WHEN YOU WERE 11, YOU WENT TO LIVE WITH HIM. >> MANDELA: YES. >> HAYDEN: WHAT WAS -- JUST TELL US ABOUT THAT. >> MANDELA: YES, I WAS LIVING IN A GHETTO IN JOHANNESBURG. AND SO ONE DAY, THIS GENTLEMAN CAME, MY GRANDFATHER'S DRIVER, AND HE SAID, I'VE BEEN SENT BY GRANDFATHER TO COME AND FETCH YOU. COME, LET'S GO. THAT WAS -- I HAD ONLY MET MY GRANDFATHER ONCE BEFORE IN 1990. THIS IS THREE YEARS LATER. >> HAYDEN: WAS HE IN PRISON THEN? RIGHT? >> MANDELA: WE MET HIM JUST BEFORE HE CAME OUT OF PRISON. AND THIS IS THREE YEARS LATER, NEVER SAW HIM, NEVER HEARD FROM HIM. ALL OF A SUDDEN, A DRIVER TOOK HIM AND WAS SENT BY HIM. I'M HOME ALONE BECAUSE I'M AT HOME AT 3:00 P.M. MY PARENTS GET HOME AT 7:00 P.M. FROM WORK. SO I'M NOT GOING TO GO WITHOUT THE APPROVAL OF MY PARENTS. NO CELL PHONES IN THOSE DAYS. DO YOU KNOW WHO YOUR GRANDFATHER IS? ARE YOU CRAZY? DO I NEED TO LOSE MY JOB? PLEASE, LET'S GO! I SAID, NO, SIR, I CANNOT.E GAVE UP. MY PARENTS CAME HOME THAT EVENING AND I TOLD MY FATHER WHAT HAD TRANSPIRED AND HE SAID, YOU KNOW, IF THAT MAN COMES AGAIN, YOU SHOULD GO WITH HIM. LO AND BEHOLD, THAT MAN CAME BACK THE VERY SAME WEEK. AND I WENT TO THEM AND HE TOOK ME TO MY GRANDFATHER'S HOUSE, WHICH WAS THIS BIG HOUSE, A MANSION IN A WHITE SUBURB IN THE NORTHERN SUBURBS OF JOHANNESBURG, AND, YOU KNOW, BASICALLY MY GRANDFATHER TOLD ME THAT HE WOULD BE SENDING MY PARENTS TO COLLEGE AND WHILE THEY WERE AT COLLEGE, THEY NEEDED TO FOCUS ON SCHOOL AND HE WAS GOING TO LOOK AFTER ME DURING THAT TIME. I SLEPT OVER THAT DAY. MY FATHER CAME THE NEXT DAY AND HE SAID, YEAH, WELL, THIS IS WHAT MY FATHER HAS DECIDED -- YOUR GRANDFATHER -- AND THIS IS WHAT'S GOING TO HAPPEN. AS A YOUNG PERSON IN ANY AFRICAN FAMILY, YOU DON'T HAVE MUCH CHOICE. YOU DO AS YOU'RE TOLD. AND SO THAT'S WHAT HAPPENS. AND NOW FROM A GHETTO, FROM SLEEPING, EATING RICE AND TOMATO SAUCE, THAT WAS MY STAPLE DIET, BECAUSE WE GREW UP IN A POOR HOME, TO MOVING INTO THIS MANSION WHERE THERE ARE CHEFS, DRIVERS, SECURITY, GARDINERS, STAFF, STAFF, STAFF, STAFF, STAFF. >> HAYDEN: YOU MENTIONED YOU FELT LIKE "THE FRESH PRINCE OF BELL AIR." >> MANDELA: KIND OF WAS LIKE THAT, YOU KNOW? TO BE HONEST? YOU WENT AND THERE YOU WERE. AND THERE HE WAS. BUT A PRIVATE PERSON THAT MOST OF US COULD NEVER IMAGINE. WHAT WAS THAT LIKE? >> HE WAS ACTUALLY -- THE FIRST CUP ALL OF YEARS, THERE WASN'T MUCH CONVERSATION HAPPENING. HE WAS A DISCIPLINARIAN. HE TOLD ME EVERY TIME MY ROOM WAS IN A MESS. THINGS THAT REVOLVED AROUND SCHOOL, WHAT I NEEDED FOR SCHOOL, BOOKS, UNIFORMS, SPORTS, ALL ABOUT HOW THE REPORT CARD WAS LOOKING. NOT MUCH OUTSIDE OF SCHOOL STUFF, BASICALLY. AND I REMEMBER ONCE, I LOST MY JERSEY -- MY SCHOOL JERSEY FOR THE SECOND TIME. AND, OF COURSE, I HAD TO TELL HIM, I NEEDED A NEW ONE. I WENT AND I TOLD HIM AND I WAS VERY NERVOUS. HE CHANGED HIS FACE ALL OF A SUDDEN. TONIGHT YOU'RE GOING TO SLEEP OUTSIDE! OH, OKAY. OUT I WENT, OUTSIDE. I WAS PLAYING SOCCER IN THE GARAGE. IRS AT FIRST, IT WAS KIND OF OKAY. STARTED TO GET COLD, DARK. I SAW THE COOK BRING ME BLANKETS. SHE GAVE ME THE BLANKET AND I THOUGHT, OH, MY GOD, I'M REALLY GOING TO SLEEP OUTSIDE. MAYBE 20 MINUTES, I MAKE MY LITTLE BED ON THE GRASS. AND THEN 20 MINUTES LATER I CAME UP AND HE CALLED ME AND HE SAID IF YOU EVER LOSE ANOTHER JERSEY, YOU WILL DEFINITELY SLEEP OUTSIDE, NOW GO INSIDE, HAVE YOUR DINNER AND GO STRAIGHT TO BED. IT WAS KIND OF HARSH BUT IT WORKED. I NEVER LOST ANOTHER JERSEY. >> YOU HAVE THAT RELATIONSHIP WHERE HE MENTIONED HE WAS THE DISCIPLINARIAN. IN HINDSIGHT, DO YOU THINK THAT YOU NEEDED IT? >> OF COURSE, OF COURSE. I WAS A LITTLE KNUCKLE HEAD BACK THEN. I JUST WANTED TO HAVE FUN AND FUN AND MORE FUN. WHETHER IT WAS -- WASN'T PLAY STATION BACK THEN, IT WAS SAGA. YOU KNOW? OR SOCCER. YOU KNOW? THAT WAS -- OR WATCHING A MOVIE. I'D GO TO HIM ON FRIDAY, SATURDAY, HEY, CAN I HAVE 50 RAND TO GO WATCH A MOVIE WITH MY FRIENDS. AND HE WOULD ALWAYS GIVE ME. NOT ONE TIME HE SAID NO. >> HAYDEN: SO THERE WAS A SOFTNESS UNDER THERE. >> MANDELA: YES. >> HAYDEN: I WROTE THIS DOWN, TO BE THE FATHER OF A NATION WAS A GREAT HONOR BUT TO BE FATHER OF A FAMILY WAS A GREAT JOY, A JOY I HAD FAR TOO LITTLE OF. AND IN THE YEARS OF IMPRISONMENT, HE MISSED THAT. SO WITH YOU HE HAD AN OPPORTUNITY TO DO IT. >> I GUESS SO. I GUESS SO. I MEAN, I ALSO STAYED WITH MY GRANDMOTHER A LITTLE BIT, GRANDMA WINNIE. HE COULD HAVE SENT ME TO GO STAY WITH HER. OR MY REAL GRANDMOTHER FROM THE FIRST MARRIAGE, HIS FIRST WIFE WAS STILL ALIVE. MY AUNT WAS STILL AROUND. BUT HE DECIDED TO TAKE ME IN AND STAY WITH HIM. HE HAD OPTIONINGS BUT HE DECIDED I'M GOING TO DISCIPLINE THIS YOUNG MAN, I'M GOING TO SHOW HIM THE WAY OF LIFE. SO PERHAPS THAT WAS HIS WAY OF MAKING SOME SORT OF, YOU KNOW, COMPENSATION OR RESTITUTION OR WHAT -- BE THE FATHER FIGURE THAT HE NEVER HAD THE OPPORTUNITY TO DO THAT BECAUSE HE HAD TO MAKE THE ULTIMATE SACRIFICE. UNFORTUNATELY. INSTEAD OF TAKING HIS KID TO GO RIDE BIKES, HE HAD TO GO ORGANIZE PEACEFUL PROTESTS AND MARCHES AND STRATEGIZE HOW TO KEEP THE ANC ALIVE WHILE IT WAS BAD. HE HAD SO MANY THINGS TO DO TO FOCUS ON TB COUNTRY. SO HE HAD TO MAKE A VERY HARD DECISION. SATISFY HIS FAMILY OR FIVE PEOPLE OR THE GREATER GOOD OR 4 MILLION OR 5 MILLION. >> AND YOU MENTIONED THAT IN PRIVATE HE WAS SOME OF THE THINGS THAT WE COULD SEE -- HUMBLE AND FORGIVING. AND HE HAD A SENSE OF HUMOR, THOUGH. >> MANDELA: GREAT SENSE OF HUMOR. HE WAS MISCHIEVOUS WITH HIS HUMOR, TO BE HONEST WITH YOU. ONE TIME I HAD ASKED A FEMALE FRIEND TO COME OVER FOR LUNCH. AND SO HE SAYS, OH, NICE TO MEET YOU. SO DID YOU PROPOSE TO MY GRANDSON? >> HAYDEN: OKAY. >> MANDELA: YOU CAN IMAGINE THE YOUNG LADY BLUSHING. >> HAYDEN: SHE DIDN'T KNOW WHAT. >> MANDELA: HE WAS ALWAYS TRYING TO THROW ME -- LIKE, HEY, HAVE YOU SEEN MINUTE GRANDSON. I WAS A BIT TOO YOUNG. BECAUSE YOU USED TO HAVE -- MISS SOUTH AFRICA WOULD COME OVER, MISS UNIVERSE WOULD COME OVER, MISS WORLD WOULD COME OVER. I WAS IN AWE BUT I WAS WAY TOO I DON'T THINK. I COULDN'T REALLY HANG. HE DIDN'T CARE. HE WOULD BE JUST LIKE, HEY, DID YOU SEE MY GRANDSON? THAT WAS PRETTY NICE. >> HAYDEN: SO DURING THIS TIME, HE BECAME PRESIDENT OF THE NATION. WERE YOU AWARE OF THOSE -- HE WAS WORKING WITH YOU AND BEING PART OF YOUR LIFE, BUT HE WAS HELPING TO BUILD THE NATION AGAIN? >> MANDELA: YES, HE WAS VERY BUSY. HE TRAVELLED A LOT, OF COURSE. THERE WERE MANY WEEKS I DIDN'T SEE HIM. IT WAS FUN, I COULD GET AWAY WITH MURDER. I COULD PLAY GAMES UNTIL 2:00 IN THE MORNING. AND NO ONE WOULD SAY ANYTHING. BUT WHEN HE WAS HOME, HEY, THE CHIEF IS HOME. YOU HAD TO KEEP EVERYTHING IN LINE. BUT THE ONE THING I REALIZED ABOUT HIM IS THAT THAT'S A MAN WITH SO MUCH COMPASSION FOR PEOPLE, FOR ORDINARY PEOPLE. YOU CAN IMAGINE -- MICHAEL JACKSON HAD BEEN TO OUR HOME TWICE. EVEN FORMER PRESIDENT BUSH, EVANDER HOLYFIELD, MIKE TYSON, YOU NAME IT. AND ALL THESE PEOPLE THAT VISITED US HE TREATED THE SAME WAY AS MAMA KOLI WHO COOKED FOR US, ALSO AS THE GARDENER AND THE DRIVER. ONE THING NELSON MANDELA UNDERSTOOD SIMILAR TO MARTIN LUTHER KING, YOU DON'T JUDGE PEOPLE BY THEIR SKIN COLOR, THEIR AGE, RACE, SEXUALITY. YOU UNDERSTAND THAT EACH PERSON HAS THE POTENTIAL TO ACHIEVE GREATNESS AND WE SHOULD ALLOW THAT PERSON TO HAVE THE OPPORTUNITY TO ACHIEVE THE GREATNESS THEY WANT TO ACHIEVE FOR THEMSELVES. [ APPLAUSE ] >> HAYDEN: YOU MENTIONED HE TREATED EVERYONE THE SAME. I WAS REALLY TAKEN WITH HIS PHONE CALL WITH QUEEN ELIZABETH. WE THINK OF HER >> MANDELA: I KNOW, I KNOW. IT'S SOMETHING THAT SHE WAS ALSO VERY MISCHIEVOUS WITH GRANDFATHER. I REMEMBER ONE AFTERNOON -- NOT SURE I SHOULD TELL THIS STORY. >> HAYDEN: OH, DO. >> MANDELA: IT'S A BIT LATE NOW. A BIT LATE GRAND DAD, PLEASE FORGIVE ME FOR THIS ONE. WE WERE HAVING LUNCH, ME, MY GRANDFATHER AND AUNTIE -- MAMA KOLI COMES AND THE PHONE NUMBER COMES IN. WE USED TO CALL HIM FATHER -- TATA -- IT'S QUEEN ELIZABETH ON THE LINE. PUT HER THROUGH, PUT HER THROUGH. AND THEN THE PHONE COMES. HE PICKS IT UP. HELLO, ELIZABETH, HOW ARE YOU? (LAUGHTER) AND THEY HAVE A CONVERSATION. THEY TALK, THEY TALK. YOU KNOW, EVENTUALLY, BYE, BYE. AND HOW CAN YOU CALL THE QUEEN BY HER NAME, YOU HAVE TO SAY YOUR IMAGESTY! AND HE TURNED TO HER AND SAY, WHY, SHE CALLS ME NELSON? [ APPLAUSE ] >> HAYDEN: WOW. >> MANDELA: WE ALWAYS CALL EACH OTHER BY OUR FIRST NAME. DO YOU FORGET I'M A PRINCE. DO YOU FORGET I'M A PRINCE, DARLING? HMM? WHERE IS THE LOYALTY HERE. >> HAYDEN: WOW. SO YOU HAVE THE PRIVATE SIDE AND YOU KNOW ABOUT HIS LEGACY. THAT'S WHY SO MANY PEOPLE ARE HERE AND WANT TO HEAR FROM YOU ABOUT HOW SOME OF THE LESSONS THAT YOU THINK CAN BE APPLIED TODAY. THERE WAS A LOT ABOUT RECONCILIATION, AND BEING ABLE TO LET GO OF, NOW, NEVER TO FORGET THE HATE, BUT TO LET THINGS GO. TO RECONCILE. >> MANDELA: YES, YOU KNOW, I THINK NELSON MANDELA OBVIOUSLY HE TRIED THE PEACEFUL WAY. RIGHT? A PEACEFUL MARCH. BUT HE SAYS IN AN INTERVIEW THAT ALL THE PEACEFUL MARCHES, IMPORTANT AS THEY WERE, THEY WERE ONLY MET WITH VIOLENCE AND SAVAGE ATTACKS BY THE GOVERNMENT. SO THEY DECIDED TO NOW TAKE UP MILITARY ACTION AGAINST THE GOVERNMENT. AND SO HE BECAME THE FIRST COMMANDER IN CHIEF OF THE MILITARY ARM OF THE ANC. HE TRAINED IN ALGERIA FOR SIX MONTHS. AND SIX MONTHS WITH AN EMPEROR. AND HE CAME BACK AND STARTED OBVIOUSLY HITTING BACK AT THE ENEMY. BUT THEY DIDN'T OBVIOUSLY ATTACK PEOPLE. THEY ATTACKED THE INFRASTRUCTURE OF THEIR GOVERNMENTS. SO THEY ATTACKED THE POWER LINES, THE POWER STATIONS, THEY ATTACKED THE TELEPHONE INFRASTRUCTURE, BASICALLY. BUT, OF COURSE, THERE WERE CASUALTIES AS IS IN ANY WAR. CAPTURED AND SPENT TIME IN PRISON. HE GOT TO SEE THE INDEPENDENCE THAT WAS HAPPENING ACROSS AFRICA, FROM 1960 GHANA TO 1980 IN ZIMBABWE AND MOST OF THE COUNTRIES WERE GAINING INDEPENDENCE IN AFRICA WERE GOING THROUGH CIVIL WAR. AND I THINK HE REALLY WANTED TO STOP THE CYCLE OF VIOLENCE THAT WAS REALLY EATING AWAY AT OUR COUNTRY, OUR SOCIETY. AND AS HE CAME OUT, HE DECIDED TO OBVIOUSLY, YOU KNOW, FORGIVE HIS CAPTORS. FORGIVE THOSE PEOPLE WHO TRESPASS AGAINST HIM, YOU KNOW? AND THE ONE THING THAT I HAVE TO ASK MYSELF IS, FIRST OF ALL, THAT IS ONE SUPER UNNATURAL THING TO DO, BECAUSE IF I WAS THERE FOR FIVE YEARS, EVEN, LET ALONE 27 YEARS, FIVE YEARS, I WOULD COME OUT WITH THE VENGEANCE AND THE ANGER OF -- OF A GORILLA, RIGHT? AND I WOULD WANT TO BLAST ALL OF MY ENEMIES. BUT HE DIDN'T. WHICH IS SOMETHING VERY UNNATURAL. SECONDLY, A LOT OF COUNTRIES -- LEADERS WHO WERE CAUGHT WERE KILLED IN INCARCERATION. THEY DIDN'T LAST LONG. SO HOW COME NELSON MANDELA WAS NOT KILLED? WHY WAS NELSON MANDELA SPARED? AND THE ONLY ANSWER THAT I CAN COME TO IS THAT GOD SAVED HIM. THAT GOD WAS THE ONE WHO WAS ON THE SIDE AND KEPT HIM ALIVE FOR A SPECIFIC PURPOSE THAT HE HAD TO PLAY AFTER HE CAME OUT OF PRISON. AND SO HE UNDERSTOOD THAT THEY NEEDED TO CURE THIS VICIOUS CYCLE OF VIOLENCE THAT WAS TAKING OUR COUNTRY. AND HE AND BISHOP TUTU CAME UP WITH THE TRUTH AND RECONCILIATION TALKS THAT CAME OUT OF THE 90s, THOSE WHO HAD LOST LOVED ONES, TORTURED, WRONGFULLY INCARS RATED FOR MANY YEARS -- INCARCERATED FOR MANY YEARS TO SIT WITH THEIR VICTIMS AND HAVE SOME SORT OF RESTORITIVE JUSTICE AND FOR THE PERPETRATORS BE ABLE TO DEVOLVE EVERY BIT OF INFORMATION IN RETURN FOR AMNESTY. A LOT OF PEOPLE FEEL THAT IT WASN'T REALLY SUCCESSFUL. BUT I THINK IT REALLY LAY THE FOUNDATION TO TRY AND GET THE BALL ROLLING FOR A NEW DISPEN SAYINGS, FOR A NEW COUNTRY, CALL IT THE RAINBOW NATION. THAT WOULD BE -- AND THEN PEOPLE UNDERSTOOD THE VALUE OF PEACE AND HARMONY OVER THE CONTINUED VIOLENCE THAT THEY'D BEEN EXPERIENCING FOR SO MANY DECADES. AND I THINK IT WAS JUST HIS WAY OF TRYING TO -- TO AMEND AND TO -- AND TO ELIMINATE HIS ENEMIES. YOU KNOW? BECAUSE ONE OF THE THINGS YOU SAID WAS THAT IN ORDER TO DEFEAT YOUR ENEMY, YOU MUST WORK WITH YOUR UH ENEMY, BECAUSE THEN HE BECOMES YOUR PARTNER. >> HAYDEN: AND HE HAD YOU LEARN AFTERRY KAN -- AFRIKKAN. >> MANDELA: I DIDN'T LEARN IT. I DID LEARN A LITTLE BIT PCHLT THERE ARE MANY AFRIKKAN SPEAKING PEOPLE HERE? NO. I WAKE UP IN THE MORNING, HE WOULD BE IN THE LOUNGE, HE WOULD READ THE NEWSPAPERS BACK-TO-BACK. HE WAS VERY FLUENT IN AFRIKKANS. READING AND WRITING. SO MUCH SO THAT EVEN IN JAIL, THE WARDEN THAT WAS LOOKING AFTER THE CELL HAD TO BE CHANGED EVERY THREE MONTHS BECAUSE WHAT THEY FOUND WAS THAT NELSON MANDELA WOULD BE ABLE TO REALLY CONNECT WITH ANY HUMAN BEING, INCLUDING THE GUARDS, RIGHT? INCLUDING THE GUARDS. SO HOW HE DID IT IS THAT THE GUARDS WOULD RECEIVE LETTERS FROM THE LOVED ONES, BUT THEY WERE NOT AS EDUCATED AS HE WAS IN THEIR OWN LANGUAGE. SO HE WOULD TRANSLATE THE LETTERS FOR THE WARDEN THAT WERE LOOKING AFTER HIM. AND THEN HE WAS VERY HAPPY HE UNDERSTANDS AND NOW HE WOULD CONVINCE THEM TO SMUGGLE HIM AN EXTRA FEW SLICES OF BREAD, AN EXTRA COUPLE OF ORANGES AND FRUITS, AN EXTRA BLANKET, SOME EXTRA JACKETS, YOU UNDERSTAND? ONCE THE AUTHORITIES FOUND THIS OUT, OBVIOUSLY THEY'RE COMPLETELY, COMPLETELY, YOU KNOW, ANGRY. SO THEY CHANGED THE GUARD. AND EVEN THOUGH THEY'D CHANGE THE GUARD, THE SAME THING WOULD HAPPEN AGAIN. SO EVEN IN PRISON, THERE WAS NO ONE GUARD THAT COULD LOOK AFTER NELSON MANDELA WITHOUT HIM ENDING UP BECOMING A FRIEND OF NELSON MANDELA. THAT IS THE SPIRIT AND THE POWER OF MANDIBA. I BELIEVE HE HAD A GIFT FROM GOD THAT HE COULD CONNECT WITH HIS COMPASSION TO ANYBODY, WHETHER THAT PERSON SPOKE ENGLISH OR NOT. BUT HE WOULD BE ABLE TO CONNECT WITH YOU. >> HAYDEN: DO YOU THINK HE REALIZED? HE KNEW HE HAD THIS GIFT? OR HE HAD THIS RESPONSIBILITY? >> MANDELA: I THINK HE KNEW HE HAD THIS RESPONSIBILITY. I DON'T KNOW ABOUT THE GIFT. BUT I THINK HE DEFINITELY KNEW THAT HE HAD THIS RESPONSIBILITY. AND I CAN SAY THAT BECAUSE HE TAUGHT ME -- HE TOLD ME, DABA, YOU'RE A MANDELA, THEREFORE PEOPLE WILL LOOK AT YOU AS A LEADER. AND AS A LEADER, YOU MUST GET THE BEST MARKS IN CLASS. I WAS LIKE, WHOA, WHOA, WHOA, WHOA. YOU KNOW? I WANTED TO BE A NORMAL KID. AND PLAY AND HAVE FUN AND DO A NORMAL KID. I DON'T HAVE THE PLEASURE OF HAVING TO STUDY ALL -- EVERY DAY SO THAT I CAN HAVE THE BEST MARKS IN CLASS SO I CAN BE A LEADER? YOU KNOW? FOR ME, I DON'T REALLY UNDERSTAND IT AT THE TIME. ONLY MUCH LATER THAT I COME TO GRIPS WITH IT. >> HAYDEN: AND SO YOU'VE BEEN ABLE TO, WITH YOUR FOUNDATION AND TO REALLY SEE HOW YOU CAN KEEP IT. >> MANDELA: YES, YES. OBVIOUSLY, INSPIRED ME INDIRECTLY TO START THIS FOUNDATION. BUT YOU KNOW ONE OF THE MAIN REASONS I STARTED THIS FOUNDATION IS I WAS LUCKY TO BE ABLE TO TRAVEL, YOU KNOW, WITH MY GRANDFATHER AND WITHOUT HIM. AND I REMEMBER MY FIRST TRIP HERE IN -- IN AMERICA, WE WENT TO DISNEY WORLD, OF COURSE. I WAS 18 YEARS OLD WITH MY YOUNGER AND OLDER BROTHERS AND COUSINS. AND WE WERE TRYING TO GET ON THE ROLLER COASTER. YOU GET IN THE LINE, YOU GET IN FRONT OF THE QUEUE, EVENTUALLY. AND THE GENTLEMAN HI, HOW ARE YOU? WHERE ARE YOU FROM? I'M FROM SOUTH AFRICA. HE SAYS TO ME, WELL, HOW BIG DO THE LIONS GET. I LOOKED AT MY COUSIN AND SAID, SORRY, SIR, I DON'T WORK AT THE ZOO. I HAVE NO IDEA HOW BIG LIONS GET. THEN WE TRAVEL TO LONDON AND SOMEBODY SAYS, HEY, WOW, YOU KNOW, HI, HOW ARE YOU? AFRICA, I HEARD IT'S DANGEROUS. I NEED SECURITY TO COME TO SOUTH AFRICA. IT'S QUITE SAFE. MY GRANDFATHER WAS PRESIDENT, I DON'T EVEN HAVE SECURITY. I THINK YOU'LL BE JUST FINE. YOU'LL BE JUST FINE. THEN WE TRAVEL TO NEW YORK. AND ANOTHER PERSON CAME IN THE SAME FASHION. AND THEN I REALIZED, OH, MAN, THERE'S SOMETHING WRONG HERE. PEOPLE OUTSIDE OF OUR CONTINENT HAVE A VERY SKEWED PERCEPTION OF WHAT'S HAPPENING ON OUR CONTINENT. AND THIS IS MAINLY PERPETUATED BY MAIN STREAM MEDIA THAT AFRICA IS A PLACE OF WAR, POVERTY, DISEASE, AND DICTATORS. NOW, WE'RE NOT HERE TO DENY THESE THINGS EXIST, HOWEVER, THERE ARE A LOT OF QUALITY THINGS THAT ARE GOOD IN AFRICA THAN WHAT YOU SEE ON YOUR TV. AND SO WE DECIDED TO START SOMETHING. WE DIDN'T KNOW WHAT IT WAS. WE DECIDED TO START SOMETHING. SO WHEN I GOT BACK HOME, ME AND MY COUSIN CALLED OUR COLLEAGUES, RIGHT? AND I SAID, GUYS, THERE'S SOMETHING WRONG WITH THE IMAGE OF AFRICA. WE NEED TO CHANGE IT. AND WHAT I REALIZED THAT DAY IS I WAS NOT SPECIAL BECAUSE MOST OF THE PEOPLE I CALLED TO THE MEETING FELT THE VERY SAME WAY. SO IT WASN'T I AM IN THE HEART OF AFRICAN YOUTH IN GENERAL, THEY FEEL THE SAME WAY I DO. THEY'VE SEEN IT AND EXPERIENCED IT. SO THAT DAY WE DECIDED TO BE A FOUNDATION, A NON-PROFITABLE ORGANIZATION THAT FOCUSES ON YOUTH EMPOWERMENT BECAUSE WE UNDERSTAND THAT THE TASK AT HAND IS NOT GOING TO BE ACHIEVED OVERNIGHT. IT'S GOING TO TAKE TWO OR THREE GENERATIONS FOR US TO BE ABLE TO ACHIEVE THE BREAKING DOWN OF THE MISCONCEPTION OF A AFRICA SO THEY CAN SEE IT AS A PLACE WHERE THEY CAN GO ON HOLIDAY, THEY CAN SEE IT AS A PLACE WHERE THEY CAN DO BUSINESS. THIS IS A PLACE -- YOU LOOK AT THE TOP TEN GROWING ECONOMIES IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW, SEVEN OF THOSE ARE COMING FROM THE CONTINENT OF AFRICA. RIGHT? MANY PEOPLE DON'T KNOW THAT. YOU WANT REAL GROWTH AND INVESTMENT AND RETURN ON YOUR CAPITAL. COME TO AFRICA. YOU WANT TO HAVE FUN AND EXPERIENCE THE MOST TROPICAL AND AMAZING ISLANDS, COME TO AFRICA. YOU WANT THE FRESHEST, CLEANEST GARMENT DRAPING DOWN YOUR BODY, COME TO AFRICA. [ APPLAUSE ] I MEAN, WHEN YOU LOOK AT ALL OF THE FASHION HOUSES, WHETHER IT BE LOUIS VUITTON, HUGO BOSS, HI END, LOW END, THEY'RE ALL SEEKING INSPIRATION FROM AFRICA. NOT GOING TO TALK ABOUT THE MUSIC AND DANCING. >> HAYDEN: I WAS GOING TO ASK. AND ART. >> MANDELA: SO WE BASICALLY FOCUS ON YOUNG PEOPLE AT THE HIGH SCHOOL LEVEL, FOCUS ON EDUCATION, FOR DEVELOPMENT, AND TECHNOLOGY. SO WE ARE CURRENTLY RUNNING A THREE-MONTH CODING PROGRAM FOR 40 KIDS IN HIGH SCHOOL AND 20 UNEMPLOYED YOUTH. AND IN SOUTH AFRICA, ONE OF OUR CHALLENGES IS WE HAVE 60% TO 70% OF OUR YOUTH ARE UNEMPLOYED AND OVER 60% OF THEM ARE UNEMPLOYABLE BECAUSE THEY DO NOT HAVE SKILLS. TO ACTUALLY GET A JOB. >> HAYDEN: WHAT ABOUT THE SCHOOL SYSTEMS? I KNOW THERE WAS -- THERE WERE DIVISIONS AND THINGS. SO, NOW, HOW ARE YOUR EDUCATION SYSTEMS? >> MANDELA: YOU KNOW, THE STORY OF SOUTH AFRICA IS THAT WE HAVE THE PRIVATE AND THE PUBLIC. THE PRIVATE SCHOOLS IN SOUTH AFRICA ARE SOME OF THE BEST IN THE WORLD, HAVE THE BEST FACILITIES IN THE WORLD. AND CAN REALLY COMPARE TO ANY IN THE WORLD. BUT THE PUBLIC NOT AS GOOD -- WE HAD A FEW GOOD PUBLIC SCHOOLS. BUT THE MAJORITY OF THEM ARE LACKING IN MANY WAYS. YOU KNOW? WHETHER IT'S THE ATTITUDE OF THE TEACHERS, YOU KNOW? THE FACILITIES. BUT SHEER DOWN THE MANAGEMENT OF RESOURCES OR LACK OF RESOURCES WHEN IT COMES TO THE PUBLIC SECTOR. I MEAN, I KNOW A SCHOOL WHICH IS NOT TOO FAR FROM OUR VILLAGE, THEY ARE STUDYING IN A -- YOU KNOW, THE SHIPMENT CONTAINERS, THAT IS A SCHOOL. THE SHIPMENT CONTAINER -- A WHOLE SCHOOL. LOOKING AFTER ABOUT 200 CHILDREN. AND IT'S A RAGGEDY, RAGGEDY, TERRIBLE SHAPE. RECENTLY BEFORE I CAME HERE, THE TEACHER WHO TOLD ME THAT IT HAS HOLES ON THE FLOOR AND THERE'S BEEN INCIDENTS WHERE SNAKES CREEP UP THROUGH -- I MEAN, CAN YOU IMAGINE A 5-YEAR-OLD, 6-YEAR-OLD? THAT'S THE MOST TRAUMATIC THING. THAT'S THE MOST TRAUMATIC THING. SO HOW CAN YOU -- THESE KIDS ARE NOT LOOKING FORWARD TO GOING TO SCHOOL. YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN? THEY'RE NOT LOOKING FORWARD TO GOING TO SCHOOL. THEY DON'T KNOW THE FACT THAT THEY CAN'T EVEN AFFORD FOOD, HOW CAN YOU LEARN ON AN EMPTY STOMACH. SO THE WEIRD THING IS THAT SOUTH AFRICA, OUR COUNTRY IN PARTICULAR, HAS BOTH ASPECTS OF A DEVELOPING AND A DEVELOPED COUNTRY, WE HAVE THE BEST AND THE WORST IN OUR COUNTRY. THE BEST AND THE WORST. YOU'LL SAY, OH, MY GOD, I'M BACK IN THE STONE AGES. LOOKS LIKE HELL. AND THEN THERE ARE PARTS WHERE YOU SAY, OH, MY GOD, LOOK AT THIS, I MUST BE IN MONACO! THIS IS AMAZING. THAT IS SOUTH AFRICA TODAY. SO IT'S A QUESTION OF HOW DO WE CLOSE THE GAP, YOU KNOW? THAT IS OUR BIGGEST CHALLENGE RIGHT NOW. >> HAYDEN: THIS JULY, YOUR GRANDFATHER WOULD HAVE TURNED 100 YEARS OLD. AND ARE THERE PLANS FOR A CENTENNIAL? BECAUSE I REALLY WANTED TO -- BEFORE WE OPEN IT UP FOR QUESTIONS, I WANTED TO -- >> MANDELA: AWESOME PLANS. THE NELSON MANDELA FOUNDATION, THEY HAVE THE ANNUAL LECTURE THAT'S BEEN GIVEN BY BARACK OBAMA AND MICHELLE OBAMA OF THIS YEAR, THAT WILL BE THE 17th OF JULY. UNFORTUNATELY, WE WERE GOING TO HAVE A GALA DINNER. IT HAD TO BE POSTPONED SO WE'VE POSTPONED IT TO THE 1st OF DECEMBER, IT'S WORLD AIDS DAY. HIV-AIDS IS SOMETHING THAT'S PLAYED A SIGNIFICANT ROLE IN MY LIFE. I LOST BOTH OF MY PARENTS TO HIV/AIDS. AND SINCE THEN, HAVE BECOME ONE OF THE LONGEST SERVING AMBASSADORS OF U.N.-AIDS. HAVING TRAVELLED TO, YOU KNOW, BRAZIL, GENEVA, SWITZERLAND, TALKING ABOUT THIS EPIDEMIC. RECENTLY, I WAS IN RUSSIA SPEAK EGG AT THE EAST EUROPEAN AIDS CONFERENCE. SO, YEAH. I MEAN, WE ARE BY MANY WAYS THE AVERAGE FAMILIES. WE'RE AFFECTED BY SOMETHING THAT AFFECTS ALL OF SOUTH AFRICANS, WE HAVE MANDELA, THIS PATRIARCH, OUR LEADER, WE'RE VERY MUCH THE SAME AS THOSE AVERAGE FAMILIES TODAY. >> HAYDEN: YOUR GRANDFATHER LEFT A LEGACY FELT GLOBALLY. I KNOW YOU CARRIED ON. WHAT ARE SOME OF THE LIFE LESSONS YOU THINK HE TAUGHT YOU AND THAT WE CAN ALL LOOK FORWARD TO? >> MANDELA: THE ONE LESSON WE TAUGHT ME WAS, NDABA, YOU MUST ALWAYS BE HUMBLE, HUMILITY IS VERY IMPORTANT, ESPECIALLY FOR A LEADER. YOU HAVE TO BE -- YOU HAVE TO BE ACCESSIBLE. AND YOU HAVE TO UNDERSTAND THE PEOPLE THAT YOU'RE SERVING. BECAUSE AS A LEADER, YOU ARE A SERVANT. YOU'RE NOT THERE TO BOAST, TO SHOW HOW MUCH, WHAT A GREAT CAR YOU HAVE OR HOW MANY THINGS YOU HAVE. THAT'S NOT A LEADER. LEADERS ARE NOT THERE TO SHOW I'M NUMBER ONE, LOOK AT ME. I'M THERE TO MAKE SURE THAT THE PEOPLE WHO DON'T HAVE A VOICE, WHO CAN'T STAND UP FOR THEMSELVES, THAT'S THE PEOPLE I'M THERE TO SERVE. SO YOU HAVE TO UNDERSTAND WHO YOUR CONSTITUENCY IS. YOU NEED TO HAVE A CONSTITUENCY. YOU MUST BE HUMBLE AND HE SAID TO ME, NDABA, YOU MUST NEVER DRIVE A JAGUAR, BECAUSE THEN PEOPLE KNOW HOW MUCH MONEY YOU HAVE. AND THEN I THOUGHT TO MYSELF, BUT, GRAD DAD, YOU USED TO DRIVE A MERCEDES BENZ. OKAY, OKAY. BUT I'LL TAKE IT ON THE CHIN. I'LL TAKE IT ON THE CHIN. BUT, OF COURSE, I THINK HE WAS VERY SERIOUS AT THE SAME TIME. YOU KNOW? DISCIPLINE IS VERY IMPORTANT. AND HE WAS ONE OF THE MOST DISCIPLINED PERSONS I'VE EVER MET. YOU KNOW, OBVIOUSLY AS HE WAS GETTING OLDER, HE WOULD GET SICK FROM TIME TO TIME. AND THE DOCTOR WOULD SAY, YOU MUST EAT MORE TOMATOES AND YOU'D TELMA MA KOLI, EVERY MORNING, I WANT YOU TO SLICE UP TWO TOMATOES. THIN A COUPLE OF MONTHS LATER, HE WOULD SAY, NO, YOU MUST EAT LESS TOMATOES. AND THEN HE WOULD SAY, MAKE SURE THERE ARE NO MORE TOMATOES. NOW I WANT APPLES. HE WOULD DO IT RELIGIOUSLY EVERY DAY. YOU KNOW? DISCIPLINE. INTEGRITY, VERY IMPORTANT. IF YOU TELL YOUR FRIEND, HEY, LET'S MEET AT THE LIBRARY AT 2:00, BE THERE AT 2:00.OFF KNOW? HE'D SAY, LISTEN, I'M GOING TO SEND YOU THAT E-MAIL LATER TONIGHT, SEND THAT E-MAIL LATER TONIGHT. THAT'S INTEGRITY ON B A VERY BASIC LEVEL, YOU KNOW? BUT IT'S VERY IMPORTANT. IT GOES A LONG WAY. BUT MANDIBA? WHAT CAN I SAY ABOUT MANDIBA? HE TAUGHT ME THAW LOVE IS STRONGER THAN HATE. BECAUSE LOVE COMES MUCH MORE NATURAL TO THE HUMAN CONDITION THAN HATE. IF A PERSON CAN BE TAUGHT TO HATE, THEY CAN BE TAUGHT TO LOVE. THAT'S OUR THEME FOR CELEBRATING MANDELA FOR 100 YEARS, LOVE AND UNITY. BECAUSE THROUGH LOVE AND UNITY, THERE'S NOTHING THAT WE CANNOT ACHIEVE. [ APPLAUSE ] >> YOU KNOW, YOU HAVE A CHANCE TO MAKE HIM PROUD. AND I THINK HE CONTINUES TO BE PROUD. >> THANK YOU, THANK YOU VERY MUCH. >> HAYDEN: SO WE HAVE TIME FOR A FEW QUESTIONS, I UNDERSTAND. AND THERE IS A MICROPHONE. I HOPE. AND HERE ARE SOME PEOPLE. AND IF YOU WOULD LIKE TO AND OF COURSE THE BOOK IS AVAILABLE, AND THERE'S A YOUNG MAN RIGHT HERE -- >> MANDELA: RIGHT HERE. >> HAYDEN: RIGHT IN FRONT. LOOKS LIKE HE'S ABOUT THE AGE WHEN YOU WERE TRYING TO SNEAK OUT. SURE, INTRODUCE YOURSELF. >> MY NAME IS JOSHUA. I'M A RISING SOPHOMORE AT MOORE HOUSE COLLEGE. [ APPLAUSE ] >> I'M A CINEMA, TELEVISION, AND EMERGING MEDIA STUDIES MAJOR AND A JOURNALISM MINOR. I'M FROM COLUMBIA, MARYLAND SO I GUESS I'M COMMUTING. I'M A JUNIOR FELLOW AT THE LIBRARY OF COMMERCE. I WORK IN THE PHOTOS AND PRINTS COLLECTION. YEAH, I'M AN INTERN HERE. SORRY. MY QUESTION TO YOU IS YOU SAY THAT YOU SEE THE BEST AND THE WORST, SOCIOECONOMICALLY AND ON THE EDUCATIONAL LEVEL OF THE PUBLIC IN AFRICA, HOW COULD THAT TRANSLATE TO HELPING THE BLACK COMMUNITY IN AMERICA? >> MANDELA: WELL, WHAT THAT SAYS IS LIKE WHAT I SAID NOW, THROUGH LOVE AND UNITY, YOU KNOW, MANDIBA SAID YOU CAN JUDGE THE SOCIETY THERE'S NO KEENER REVELATION TO A SOCIETY'S SOUL THAN IN THE WAY THEY TREAT THEIR CHILDREN, RIGHT? SO WE HAVE A RESPONSIBILITY TO DO AS MUCH AS WE CAN TO MAKE SURE THAT YOUNG PEOPLE HAVE MENTORSHIP, GOOD MENTORS. THEY MAY NOT HAVE THE BEST SCHOOLS, BUT WE CAN TEACH ONE OF US SITTING IN THIS ROOM MENTOR A YOUNG CHILD FOR ONE HOUR OR TWO HOURS A WEEK. THAT WILL GO A LONG WAY. IF YOU CAN SIT WITH THEM FOR ONE HOUR A WEEK ON A SATURDAY, RIGHT? AND GO THROUGH HIS HOMEWORK AND ASK QUESTIONS ABOUT WHAT HE EXPERIENCED IN THAT WEEK AND WHAT HIS CHALLENGES ARE, THINK ABOUT THE IMPACT THAT IT WILL HAVE IF YOU DO THAT FOR FIVE YEARS, RIGHT? WE CANNOT -- THESE DAYS, THE MOST INFLUENTIAL PEOPLE ARE NO LONGER YOUR LAWYERS OR YOUR POLICEMEN, RIGHT? THE MOST INFLUENTIAL PEOPLE TODAY ARE POP STARS. RIGHT? YOUR MUSICIANS, YOUR ACTORS, WHO ARE NOT NECESSARILY COGNIZANT OF THE EFFECT THEY HAVE ON A YOUNG KID'S MIND, RIGHT? BECAUSE THEY ENGAGE FROM TIME TO TIME IN NEGATIVE BEHAVIOR. AND SOME OF THEM WILL SAY, WELL, I DIDN'T WANT TO BE A MENTOR. I DIDN'T CHOOSE TO BE A MENTOR. DOESN'T MATTER IF YOU CHOSE IT OR NOT. YOU ARE A PERSON IN AN INFLUENTIAL PERSON, SO ACKNOWLEDGE AND EMBRACE THAT POSITION THAT YOU'RE IN. RIGHT? SO IF WE CAN TAKE TIME TO SPEND TIME WITH THE YOUNG PERSON AND TAKE SOME OF THE LESSONS OF NELSON MANDELA, DON'T YOU THINK THIS WORLD WOULD BE A BETTER PLACE FIVE TO TEN YEARS FROM NOW? [ APPLAUSE ] >> HELLO. I'M ALSO AN INTERN FOR THE NATIONAL CENTER FOR HIGHER EDUCATION. I'M EMILY. I'M CURIOUS OF THE HISTORY THAT YOU LIVED THROUGH AND YOUR GRANDFATHER LIVED THROUGH, HAS OFFERED ANY PERSPECTIVE ON TO THE WAY THAT OUR NATION IS HEADED AND DO YOU HAVE ANY ADVICE FOR FOLKS WHO ARE CONCERNED ABOUT THE FUTURE OF HUMANITY BASED ON SOME OF THE POLITICS THAT WE ARE LIVING THROUGH RIGHT NOW AND THE DIRECTION THAT WE'RE HEADING IN AS A NATION? >> MANDELA: YES, YOU KNOW, WHEN YOU TALK ABOUT THE IMMIGRATION ISSUE WHICH I SEE IS VERY BIG RIGHT NOW, AND IT'S VERY SIMILAR TO OUR COUNTRY. WE WENT THROUGH A SIMILAR THING, BUT IN OUR COUNTRY, WE ACTUALLY HAD ATTACKS, THE PHOBIA OF FEAR OF PEOPLE FROM OUTSIDE OF YOUR COUNTRY, FOREIGNERS, PRETTY MUCH. FEAR OF FOREIGNERS. AND IT WAS SO BAD THAT SOUTH AFRICANS WERE PHYSICALLY ATTACKING ETHIOPIANS, ZIMBABWEANS, NIGERIANS, ETC. THEY'RE STEALING OUR JOBS, MESSING UP OUR ECONOMY, ETC., ETC. IT'S A DAMN SHAME, IT'S A DAMN SHAME. BECAUSE THESE ARE THE VERY SAME PEOPLE THAT ASSISTED YOU IN LIBERATING YOUR COUNTRY. THESE ARE THE SAME PEOPLE WHO BUILT THE FUNDAMENTALS AND THE BUILDING BLOCKS OF AMERICAN SOCIETY. RIGHT? [ APPLAUSE ] SOD HOW DO WE TURN OUR BACK NOW WE'RE EXPERIENCING PROSPERITY AND EXPERIENCING NEW OPPORTUNITIES AND THE TICK NOLING BOOM AND ALL OF THESE AMAZING NEW THINGS, HEY, YOU BUILT OUR COUNTRY, NOW IT'S TIME FOR YOU TO LEAVE BECAUSE WE WANT TO ENJOY IT BY OURSELVES, YOU UNDERSTAND? WE NEED TO REMIND EACH OTHER WHERE WE COME FROM. HOW GREAT IS THIS COUNTRY BUILT. IT'S NOT BUILT BY AMERICANS. IT'S BUILT BY PEOPLE AROUND THE WORLD. SO WHY ARE WE CHASTISING OUR BROTHERS AND SISTERS WHO HELPED US GET HERE TODAY? >> HAYDEN: WE'RE TAPING THIS BECAUSE A LOT OF THE STAFF MEMBERS HERE ARE GOING BACK TO THEIR POST. IF YOU SEE PEOPLE LEAVE, THAT'S WHAT'S HAPPENING. >> MANDELA: WHERE I COME FROM, WE -- I DON'T HAVE TO INTRODUCE MYSELF TO YOU, BUT FOR THE BENEFIT OF THE AUDIENCE, I, TOO, MY NAME IS -- AND MY SURNAME IS MANDELA, I'M FROM THE HOUSE OF MANDELA IN UNU. I WANTED TO AFFIRM AND CONFIRM THAT WHAT YOU'VE INDEED WRITTEN IN YOUR BOOK IS TRUE AND I WANT TO THANK YOU, NDABA, FOR THE GRAND ARTICULATION OF OUR CULTURE AND HOW WE EXPLAINED TO THE WORLD THAT THE KINGDOM IS BEING CONFIGURED, THE CONFIGURATION OF THE KINGDOM. SO THANK YOU, AS THE YOUNGER BROTHER I'VE ALWAYS LOOKED UP TO YOU. UNFORTUNATELY, YOU DIDN'T TELL ME THAT IN COMING TO AMERICA -- (INDISCERNIBLE) AND I SAID TO MYSELF, I'M GOING TO SURPRISE HIM. SO AS A YOUNGER BROTHER WHO'S INSPIRED BY THE WORK YOU'RE DOING IN CARRYING IT ON WITH THE LEGACY OF OUR GRANDFATHER, AND I'M LENDING TO YOU, THEREFORE, YOU MUST NOT MAKE A SINGLE MISTAKE, BECAUSE I'M STEPPING AT YOUR FEET. [ APPLAUSE ] THANK YOU. [ APPLAUSE ] >> FAMILY IS EVERYTHING. >> THAT'S RIGHT. I WOULDN'T BE HERE WITHOUT IT. >> AWESOME. THANK YOU FOR COMING. THANK YOU FOR DOING THE BOOK. MY NAME IS MONTY -- MY QUESTION RELATES TO ZIMBABWE. AND COMPARABLY SPEAKING, NELSON MANDELA WAS ONE OF THE FOUNDING FATHERS, LIBERATORS, THAT WAS ABLE TO EVENTUALLY HELP WITH THE DEMOCRATIZATION EFFORTS AS WE ARE APPROACHING ELECTIONS IN ZIMBABWE, JULY -- THEY ANNOUNCED FOR JULY 30, TO BE DOING ELECTIONS, MY QUESTION IS REGARD ING THE 25% OF ZIMBABWEANS WHO CURRENTLY DWELL IN THE BEING TOLD YOU'RE GOING TO BE EXCLUDED FROM THE ELECTIONS UNLESS YOU COME BACK HOME TO VOTE. SO MY QUESTION IS, CAN YOU SHED SOMESOME -- SOME SUGGESTIONS OR SOME SUPPORT AND IF YOU COULD ALSO TOUCH ON PAN AFRICANISM ON THIS ONE? THANK YOU. >> THANK YOU. THANK YOU. YOU KNOW, I CAN'T REALLY JUDGE ON THAT ISSUE. BECAUSE IT ALSO DEPENDS ON THE RESOURCES OF THE COUNTRY. YOU KNOW? IT'S -- IF THE COUNTRY IS POOR AND THEY DON'T HAVE RESOURCES TO ALLOW THE CITIZENS TO VOTE BY REMOTE CONTROL, HOW CAN I JUDGE? YOU KNOW? LIKELY, SOUTH AFRICA HAS NO RESOURCES FOR PEOPLE TO VOTE AT THEIR EMBASSIES AROUND THE WORLD, BUT JUST BECAUSE SOUTH AFRICA CAN DO IT DOESN'T MEAN EVERY NATION SHOULD DO IT OR EVERY NATION CAN DO IT. SO IT'S VERY DIFFICULT FOR ME TO JUDGE IN THAT SITUATION. YES, OBVIOUSLY, IT'S UNFORTUNATE, YOU KNOW. YOU WANT AS MUCH CITIZENS TO OBVIOUSLY BE INCLUDED IN THE VOTING. BUT IT'S DIFFICULT. YOU KNOW? IT'S VERY DIFFICULT. YOU CAN ONLY B HAVE THE RESOURCES TO CARRY THE EMBASSIES AND GET THOSE VOTES BACK TO THE COUNTRIES. YOU KNOW? WHO CAN JUDGE THEM FOR THAT? WE CAN'T REALLY JUDGE THEM. SO, IF THE ONLY WAY TO TELL PEOPLE TO COME HOME AND VOTE, HOW CAN WE -- WE CAN'T JUDGE THEM FOR THAT. THERE'S NOTHING WE CAN DO. BUT, AS FAR AS PAN AFRICANISM IS CONCERNED, I BELIEVE THAT LIBERATION OF SOUTH AFRICA COULD NOT HAVE BEEN ACHIEVED WITHOUT THE SUPPORT OF OUR BROTHERS AND SISTERS ACROSS THE CONTINENTS AS YOU KNOW. A LOT OF PEOPLE HAVE ZIMBABWE AND SWATSLAND ALL THE WAY UP TO NIGERIA, ETHIOPIA, YOU NAME IT, MALI, ETC. SO, FOR ME, WE NEED SOMEHOW, SOME WAY, THROUGH THE INDEPENDENT JOURNEY AND THE POST COLONIAL AREA, WE LOST THAT PAN AFRICANISM THAT WE ONCE HAD. WE LOST THE UNITY AND SOLIDARITY THAT WE ONCE HAD. IT NEEDS TO BE REUNITED. AND IN OUR CONTINENT, WE'RE TRADING MORE WITH THE WEST AND THE EAST THAN WE ARE TRADING WITH EACH OTHER, WHICH HAS NEVER HAPPENED BEFORE. WE NEED TO REIGNITE THAT BECAUSE IF WE DO NOT UNITE, AND REIGNITE THE SPIRIT OF SOLIDARITY AMONGST AFRICANS ON THE CONTINENT FIRST AND FOREMOST, WE SHALL NEVER REALIZE OUR ROAD TO INDEPENDENCE. WE SHALL NEVER REALIZE OUR DREAM TO CREATE A PROSPEROUS AND INDEPENDENT CONTINENT OF AFRICA. THAT IS REALLY THE KEY TO US ACHIEVING OUR GOALS AND MAKING SURE OUR DREAMS COME TO FRUITION. SO, IN THE SPIRIT OF MEN WHO WERE TRUE VISIONARIES, AND IN ONE OF THEIR WORDS, WE AS AFRICANS DO NOT LOOK WEST NOR DO WE LOOK EAST, WE LOOK FORWARD. HUH? THANK YOU, BROTHER. [ APPLAUSE ] >> I'VE BEEN TOLD THAT WE HAVE TIME FOR ONE MORE QUESTION. SO BE WE HAVE A PERSON HERE. >> GOOD AFTERNOON, MY NAME IS WAYNE CONNOR. I'M AN EMPLOYEE HERE AT THE LIBRARY OF CONGRESS. I WORK IN THE OFFICE OF GENERAL COUNSEL. MY QUESTION IS FOR -- FOR SOMEONE WHO HAS OBVIOUSLY BEEN INSPIRED BY A GREAT LEADER AND WHO IS CURRENTLY A GREAT ADVOCATE FOR MANY CAUSES, HOW COULD -- DO YOU HAVE ANY ADVICE FOR YOUNG PEOPLE LIKE MYSELF OR OTHERS WHO MIGHT BE IN THE ROOM ON HOW WE CAN BETTER, YOU KNOW, BECOME A VOICE AND BECOME AN INFLUENCER OF CHANGE WITHIN OUR OWN COMMUNITIES AND WHAT ARE SOME OF THE TOOLS THAT WE CAN SEEK OUT IN ORDER TO BE ABLE TO BE BETTER AT THAT IN? >> MANDELA: YOU KNOW, YOU HAVE TO CHOOSE A CAUSE THAT YOU CARE ABOUT, THAT YOU'RE PASSIONATE ABOUT. IT'S LIKE BUSINESS. WHERE YOU BECOME AN ENTREPRENEUR. YOU CANNOT BE A SUCCESSFUL ENTREPRENEUR IF YOU'RE NOT PASSIONATE ABOUT THAT BUSINESS. BECAUSE ALONG THE WAY, YOU WILL COME ACROSS HURDLES, PEOPLE WHO DON'T BELIEVE YOU, AND PEOPLE WHO THINK YOU CAN'T DO IT. RIGHT? SO YOU NEED TO HAVE A CAUSE THAT YOU'RE VERY PASSIONATE ABOUT. THAT WILL MAKE SURE THAT YOU DON'T GIVE UP. BECAUSE PEOPLE GIVE UP SOMETIMES TOO QUICKLY. YOU KNOW? FOR VARIOUS AMOUNTS OF REASONS. NOW, YOU NEED TO MAKE SURE THAT YOU SURROUND YOURSELF BY PEOPLE WHO CARE FOR YOU AND BELIEVE IN YOU. YOU NEED TO HAVE A MENTOR. EVERYBODY NEEDS A MENTOR, NO MATTER HOW OLD YOU ARE, NO MATTER HOW SUCCESSFUL YOU ARE, EVERYBODY NEEDS A MENTOR. AND, YOU NEED TO THEN UNDERSTAND THE PEOPLE OF A CAUSE THAT YOU'RE CHAMPIONING, WHAT THEIR CHALLENGES ARE. YOU CANNOT CHAMPION A CAUSE IF YOU HAVE NOT TALKED TO THE PEOPLE THAT IT AFFECTS THE MOST. OTHERWISE, YOU ARE JUST SHOOTING IN THE HEAD, RIGHT? YOU NEED TO UNDERSTAND THAT CONSTITUENCY THAT YOU'RE SERVING. AND MAKE SURE THE CONCERN YOURSELF WITH THE RIGHT PEOPLE. AND OFTEN THAT SUPPORTS AT HOME. THAT SUPPORT STARTS WITHIN YOUR OWN IMMEDIATE NETWORK. AND IF YOU CAN'T GET SUPPORT FROM YOUR FAMILY MEMBERS AND YOUR FRIENDS AND YOUR OWN IMMEDIATE NETWORK, THEN, MY FRIEND, I THINK YOU NEED TO CHANGE YOUR COURSE. BECAUSE CLEARLY, THEY DON'T BELIEVE YOU. AND IF THEY DON'T BELIEVE YOU, THEN I DON'T KNOW WHERE YOU'RE GOING TO GET YOUR SUPPORT. SO FIRST -- THE FIRST THING IS, DO I REALLY CARE ABOUT THIS THING AM I TRYING TO PUSH? AM I IN TOUCH WITH THE PEOPLE THAT I'M TRYING TO HELP, TRYING TO GIVE A VOICE, TRYING TO GET A LAW PASSED, OR AN ACTION -- YOU KNOW, DONE, OR WHATEVER THE CASE MAY BE. YOU KNOW? YOU NEED TO BE IMPRESSED WITH THOSE PEOPLE. AND HAVE A MENTOR AND A SUPPORT BASE. BASICALLY. AND THAT IS REALLY THE FIRST STEPS OF MAKING SURE THAT YOU ARE ABLE TO SERVE THE OBJECTIVE THAT YOU SET OUT FOR YOURSELF DON'T DO IT BECAUSE THE GIRL YOU LIKE SAID YOU SHOULD DO IT. OR YOU DO IT BECAUSE YOUR PARENTS FORCE YOU TO DO IT. DO IT BECAUSE YOU YOURSELF CARE AND ARE PASSIONATE ABOUT THAT CAUSE. [ APPLAUSE ] >> HAYDEN: WE ALL THANK YOU FOR SHARING THE LIFE LESSONS YOU LEARNED FROM YOUR GRANDFATHER AND SHARING THEM WITH ALL OF US. AND I AM NEVER RECOMMEND A BOOK BECAUSE OF WHAT I DO. BUT IF YOU HAPPEN TO HAVE A CHANCE TO READ WHAT YOU HAVE LEARNED AND READ THIS BOOK, I THINK YOU WOULD BE IN TOUCH, NOT ONLY WITH YOUR GRANDFATHER, BUT WITH YOU. >> MANDELA: THANK YOU SO MUCH. >> HAYDEN: THANK YOU. FEMALE VOICE: THIS HAS BEEN A PRESENTATION OF THE LIBRARY OF CONGRESS. VISIT US AT LOC.GOV.